Studying in Fan Deng: The fastest growth is to go to places where cattle and people get together.

The vigorous Double Eleven is coming to an end, which means that there are only less than 5 days left in 22. I especially want to ask you, how much have you achieved at the beginning of the year?

Many people told me that at the beginning of each year, they swore that they would earn enough money, lose weight and read many books in order to achieve transformational growth in this year ...

But without exception, they didn't finish it in the end. After a busy year, it seems that there is no change, and they repeat themselves day after day.

Actually, I want to say, if you don't think your self-drive is enough, you can go to the place where cattle and people gather together.

when you are in an environment where everyone around you is excellent, you will naturally be pulled by a force to grow.

A few years ago, there was a news report that Chen Sheng, a young man from Suqian, Jiangsu Province, wanted to find a job in hotel management after graduating from college, but he was attracted by the atmosphere of China Communication University and stayed as a campus security guard.

Chen Sheng became interested in broadcasting and dreamed of becoming a broadcast host.

Teachers and students of the media also offered suggestions to Chen Sheng, suggesting that he read professional books to enhance his theoretical foundation and guide him to correct his pronunciation.

In the end, with the help of teachers and students from the surrounding media, Shengzai Chen passed the examination for the professional degree of broadcasting host, and took off his security suit in September of that year and became a student of Communication University of China.

It can be said that it is under the influence of excellent teachers and students in the media that Chen Sheng dares to break through his ceiling and realize his dream.

In recent years, there are also Xueba dormitories in major universities that have become popular on the Internet.

People in a dormitory go out early and come back late together, busy with study and activities, and prepare for exams all night before the end of the term, and sign up for competitions of all sizes.

it's hard to imagine that in such a dormitory environment, anyone would be willing to be self-indulgent.

I have a deep understanding of this. I am especially happy when I meet an awesome person in my daily work and life and feel that his way of thinking, cognitive horizon and behavior mode are far beyond me, because it means that I have another example to learn.

A good person is like a mirror, seeing my shortcomings and shortcomings, and his existence reminds me that you can still improve yourself in this direction.

Moreover, excellent people have a trait, that is, they will never be satisfied with their present self and pursue higher goals.

It also urges me to constantly remind myself that there are still many new things worth learning, and try my best to make myself a little different from myself yesterday.

There is a saying: The three people closest to you decide your future life direction.

If we are surrounded by mediocre people, we are probably mediocre people, because people, as social animals, are too easily influenced by others.

Only when you have strong restraint and self-discipline, can you jump out of the original circle and stand side by side with outstanding people to realize your leap-forward growth.

But the ideal is full and the reality is skinny. Some people will ask: I am a small clerk who works diligently in a small place, and I contact a fixed number of people every day. Where can I break my network and get close to the bosses?

I believe that many people have similar troubles, that is, limited by their own environment, they can't reach excellent people, and they are immersed in the short trivialities of their parents for a long time, and they inevitably slide to vulgarity, and it seems that they will never reach the cattle people.

but Descartes once said: reading all good books is like talking to the most outstanding people in the past.

Therefore, reading more books and reading good books is also a way to get closer like a cow.

Many great people are bookish.

Charlie Munger, Warren Buffett's golden partner, once said, "All the smart people I have met in my life have read every day. I read so many books that you may be surprised. My children laugh at me. They think I am a book with two legs. "

but reading more books is enough? Opening books is not necessarily beneficial, the key depends on what you read.

If we hold books such as anecdotes and stories all day, our thinking and cognition will not be greatly improved. Only by constantly challenging ourselves to read classic books that have been verified by millions of people and can stand the scrutiny of time can we achieve unexpected growth in books.

Every good book is filled with great people's endless efforts and thoughts. Looking through a good book is to talk face to face with a Daniel, and gain self-enrichment and growth through constant exchanges and discussions.

and I'd like to add that besides reading more books, reading good books, listening to big coffee and telling good books, it's a way to improve yourself quickly.

Because Cafe can tell you all the knowledge in the book by combining her unique life experience with the profound knowledge accumulated in the reading years. In the end, what you get is the essence of books and the double dry goods of big coffee.

So you get 1+1> 2。 Of course, we can also chew a book ourselves, but due to the limitations of cognition, many good books may not be read, and finally we will miss the encounter with an excellent soul in vain.