What does holding the feet mean?

It is said that "Xiao Lin Guang Ji" records a story called "foot-holding" in the boudoir department:

On the first night of the couple's first night, the man touched his head with his hand and was very proud of it. The breasts and abdomen were both happy, and the lower body was touched, but there were no legs. When asked in shock, he had been lifted up for half a day.

"掮" means "to carry things on the shoulders" or "to put things on the shoulders and carry them away." "枷足" means "putting your feet on your shoulders".

Translating the above story, the general idea is: During the wedding night of the newlyweds, the husband first touched the bride’s head with his hand. The bride was very proud and emotional, and then the husband moved down to touch the wife’s breasts and breasts. belly, the bride was trembling with love and joy, and when the husband touched the wife's lower body, he could not touch the lower limbs, and his feet were missing. So he was very frightened, and asked the wife in surprise, "It turns out that at this time, The bride is impatient and has already raised her feet on her shoulders, waiting for her husband's "intrusion"...

This joke describes the first night flirtation of a newly married man and woman. play. It also describes the tenderness and passion of a young girl who has just begun to fall in love, eagerly waiting for her husband to have sex with her.

After reading, he closed the scroll and thought deeply:

This lover does not need to be so anxious about the relationship between a man and a woman. On the one hand, it is inconsistent with the reserved virtue of a girl, and on the other hand, it is inconsistent with the relationship between a man and a woman after marriage. Status is disadvantageous.

When talking about love, on the wedding night, first of all, a girl should be more reserved, in order to comply with the virtues of the Chinese people's "Daughter's Scripture" for thousands of years. If she is too passionate and unrestrained, she will inevitably be regarded as frivolous. Suspected of being frivolous. Secondly, if the girl is too frank and tolerant, allowing the lover to take advantage of her, it will inevitably leave an unforgettable mark on the husband's subconscious, and his mysterious heart and deep affection for her will be greatly reduced. There are not always so many old lovers who sigh with emotion: The love gained lightly does not last long! This is the way of the world, and it is also the scripture of love. It is the experience and warning words of lovers from generation to generation!

Yes, people are inherently snobbish. In the whirlpool of love, the more you don’t get, the more curious you are and the more you dream about it; the more you don’t get, the more you want it. , I will try my best to catch him.

People are such a strange love object, and it takes shy roses to bloom quietly to make people feel so sweet, so poetic, and so charming. At that time, people were like drinking ecstasy soup. They were obsessed with their spouse, devoted to love, and had no other thoughts. It was as if the only thing in life was their spouse and love.

I secretly believe that love is a mixture of sacredness and greatness, sweetness and romance, pleasure and joy. You must endure it patiently, taste it quietly, and enjoy it for a long time. You must not be eager for quick success, greedy for temporary pleasure, enjoy temporary pleasure, and then rush to other places to find other branches and gather its honey. You have to be measured, nudge gently and take your time. If you don't see a beautiful woman, you don't have to rush and throw everything away. When you meet your lover for the first time, don't let go of your feelings. It is necessary to peel off the cocoon, savor it carefully and enjoy it slowly, speak three points, and leave eight flavors behind. After all, things obtained lightly will not leave ripples in the river of the soul, and the time will not last long!