Family relationships are the most complicated.

From small to large, parents' treatment of relatives is always in their eyes and in their hearts.

I remember when I was a child, my family was poor, and many relatives would not give us lucky money during the New Year.

One year, my grandmother took my aunt's New Year gift (a fashionable backpack at that time) and gave it to my neighbor's partner (their family is rich and powerful, and they will use their interpersonal relationships for their own use). My mother always keeps this in mind. Until now, when I talk about the past, I still say many things that I don't want to see when I am down and out.

Because the family is poor, grandparents give everything to their two uncles. I would rather give it to others than to our family. I grow a lot of vegetables every year, and my friends who raise a lot of chickens and ducks will send one or two. Only our family will send two cabbages.

Because my family is poor, I have seen and felt too much darkness of human nature. ...

Later, when we grew up, my father's temper gradually improved, and people cared more about their families and knew how to improve their family situation. Finally, my parents, Qi Xin, worked together to take care of the house, so that they didn't have to worry about food and clothing, and they could pay for anything they wanted to do.

At this time, I can occasionally see chickens and ducks raised by my grandparents at home. After all, the family is not poor at this time, and the last meal is worrying. In this way, the mother knows the change of kinship best. Always said to me: "our family has no money, and grandparents don't like us." In addition, your father has a bad temper, and will not pull relationships or even we will be rejected together. "

My brother and I grew up in this big family full of human feelings.

I graduated and became a teacher; My brother has gone to college. It's a long face for mom and a happy father. In the change of our family situation, the relationship between relatives has obviously eased a lot. Everything in grandparents' house is divided equally, and things in uncles' and aunts' houses are also divided in my house. Seven aunts and eight aunts often come and go, and the relationship between mother and sister-in-law has eased a lot Although many times the communication between those sisters-in-law always feels a little hypocritical. It's really tiring to watch my parents juggle in this complicated relationship.

Now I am also involved in this endless tug-of-war.

On weekdays, Mr. Liu and I are hardly at home, thinking about going to relatives' homes for the New Year. But recent events have made us feel that the blood relationship is too complicated. Sometimes I think: Is this relationship too complicated or are these people too complicated?

I went to menstruation's house for lunch happily with a red envelope (the number my mother told me). When I was eating at my uncle's house in the evening, my aunt forced me to return the red envelope. In this mutual rejection, the red envelope fell to the ground. Mother asked me to pick it up and give it to my uncle. At the moment I picked it up, I thought I would forget it. But mom had to let me send it back. The red envelope was not returned at last. But I always feel that I can't stand this kind of interpersonal relationship, and even think that this relationship is too fake and complicated. I don't want to face this relationship again.

Maybe many of them are mothers and aunts, and they have bad feelings with each other. What happened before made us feel the same way. But it seems that this protracted war without smoke has affected me.

I wanted to explore the reason, but the more I thought about it, the more horrible it became. I didn't expect it to end like this.

At about ten o'clock in the morning, I heard my second aunt talking to my brother downstairs and vaguely heard my name. Soon I heard the sound of going upstairs with a red envelope in my hand. Say, "You will disappear again." Give me a red envelope while talking, and I won't accept it as the case may be. I'm too lazy to force it back. Then I saw something in the room, said something irrelevant and went back.

After menstruation left, I stayed alone in my study, thinking about these subtle blood relationship problems-which may also be an eternal problem-and there was no solution.

Human feelings are warm and cold, and subtle affection is in the eye. I even thought about running away, but I suddenly told my mother my plan. My mother might not agree, so I had to give up.

Do most families have to face this kind of kinship problem with blood as the link?

I am Feifei, a woman who loves to toss, write and be quiet. Welcome to leave a message to talk and comment.