The difference between pretending to be rich and being really rich.

0 1, people often say that "money makes the mare go", so the importance of money is self-evident. If you have money, you can have food and clothing, even higher status than others. People who have no money are born inferior, and they have no confidence in speaking and doing things. People in this life, in a hurry, hard work, not just to earn some money, so that they can live with confidence? Of course, men value money more than women. After all, today's society is very realistic. If a man has no car, house or savings, it is not easy for a woman to follow him willingly. This is not because women are too realistic, but because they are. Who wants to live in poverty with a man who has nothing? Those women who want love instead of bread are stupid women who have never tasted human suffering. The attraction of money is too strong, and people's desires are too strong, so it is inevitable to do some incredible things for money, one of which is to "pretend to be rich." Pretend to be rich when you don't have much money. Maybe men pretend to be rich just to save face. However, if you have it, you will not have it. If you insist on pretending, you are not a dog, but you will leave a bad impression on women and even make women feel that men are hypocritical and unreliable. In fact, no matter whether men are "really rich" or "pretending to be rich", most women know in their hearts that they have their own standards. Moreover, there is still a gap between camouflage and reality, and many behaviors and performances can be seen. 02. Xiao Zhang is the kind of person who likes to pretend to be rich without much money. He doesn't earn much a month, but he spends all his money on famous brands and luxury goods. Even if his salary is spent, he still owes a lot of money to the bank every month. Friends don't approve of his consumption view, and often advise him to think about the future, but he sticks to his guns. He thinks that women will value him only if they have money at ordinary times. Nowadays, women are very realistic, and they don't recognize people. However, even if Xiao Zhang pretends to be so rich, there is still no woman to flatter him. Later, he fell in love with a woman in the company and actively pursued her. The other party did not respond to his pursuit. Later, she may have been annoyed by Xiao Zhang's pursuit, and directly said that Xiao Zhang pretended to be too superficial. Even though he was wearing a famous brand, everyone could see that he pretended to be rich because he was afraid of bumping into him. Therefore, men can't pretend to be rich. There are three essential differences between men who are "really rich" and men who pretend to be rich. The first difference: a really rich person is confident in his behavior; Men who pretend to be rich, men who are really rich, are mostly confident. Because they have the money and confidence, they have the confidence to do what they want, and it is natural to speak and do things. Men who pretend to be rich are actually guilty in their bones, and they can also be seen from their manners, just like Xiao Zhang. Even if you wear famous brands, you are still timid in speaking and doing things, and you are very concerned about these famous brands. He can't be free and easy at all Such a man is pretending to be rich at first sight. The second difference: truly rich men don't haggle over every ounce; A person who pretends to be rich is afraid that he will suffer from a really rich person. His temper is generally free and easy, because he has no worries about food and clothing and spends money casually. Naturally, he has developed this kind of free and easy temper, and he doesn't care about some small details on weekdays, nor does he let small things bother him. The man who pretends to be rich has no money, but just shows it to others, so many times he can't be free and easy. After all, without this self-confidence, they will naturally care about many small details and will haggle over every ounce in many places for fear of suffering. Most of this ordinary citizen's fear of losing money is caused by lack of money. Without money, he feels insecure. Even if a man is well dressed outside, where is the mentality in his bones so easy to change? The third difference: the real rich should be generous when they are generous and stingy when they are stingy; People who pretend to be rich are always stingy. There is a joke that "not spending money on yourself is called frugality, and not spending money on others is called meanness". Isn't that what some men pretend to be rich do? They just pretend to be rich and glamorous, but they are not generous to others at all. They cling to the little money in their hands for fear that others will share it. In the end, they still have no confidence. Really rich men, because they have enough money and confidence, are not precious to them, so they will be generous to their friends. When they are generous, they will never be stingy, but when they are stingy, they will not be poor and generous. This comparison, a generous and a stingy, who is really rich, who is pretending to be rich, will also be judged. 03. Some men pretend to be rich dudes for the sake of face, but they obviously have no money, as if they can have everything with their status. However, where can money easily get status and reputation? The world is not stupid. No matter whether you are really rich or pretending to be rich, you may be able to deceive others at first sight, but after getting along, the embarrassment of pretending to be rich will disappear. Emotionally, perhaps most men think that women are snobbish and like rich men, but in fact, most women are very smart and will not easily marry a man who pretends to be rich. Disguised money, where can you cheat a woman? So, man, I advise you to recognize yourself. Money means money, and no money means no money. When you get along with others, as long as you are sincere, don't covet anything and don't calculate anything, someone will treat you sincerely. # Emotion # The difference between pretending to be rich and being really rich 2 0 1. Kafka once said, "The more fictional the story, the more real the details." But too many people choose to ignore these details and are finally defeated by them. People often say that money makes the mare go. In today's society, money is more important than looking at the face. Many men say that as long as they have money, women can grab a lot. Once they have no money, they can't eat. Society itself is realistic, and everyone will only pursue better things for a better life. Women will also choose more golden men for a better future. 02. Some men are rich. No matter how low-key, some things can't be hidden. And some men, in order to get the attention of women, try very hard to pretend to be rich. But pretending can be flawed. Many women foolishly think that they have found a rich man, only to find that men have no money at all. These details show whether men are really rich or pretend to be rich. The biggest manifestation of the appearance of wealth is the external dress. When Andy first saw the singularity in Ode to Joy, it was very low-key and he took the subway after dinner. But Andy can see through the identity of Singularity at a glance. After all, it is a famous brand from head to toe, and even the watch on his wrist is valuable. So no matter how singularity hides his wealth, the appearance of the dress makes him miss the stuffing for the first time. Most rich men have good taste, and the clothes they choose are all in the direction of big brands, and some are even customized privately. And those men who have no money, no matter how they pretend, will not have too many big names on their bodies and can't afford to wear expensive watches. Therefore, judging whether a man is really rich or not depends on how tasteful he looks. Many places frequented by rich people will enjoy the best treatment, even VIP, in various high-end places frequented by rich people. I seldom go to those small shops in the market. Such wealth cannot be forged. If you are with a man, you can always take you to a high-end place and be generous. This man is really rich. Of course, some men will take you to high-end places, but going once may cost you the savings you have saved for half a year. Then save it. I'll take you there when it's almost ready. He doesn't have that much money for you to spend, so he will be more careful when ordering something, thinking about the price in his heart. Occasionally, a high-end is enough to make him lose a piece of meat, so the places he often goes are quite ordinary. Such people just pretend to be rich. Therefore, judging whether a man is really rich depends on the places he often goes, which will definitely reveal flaws. Hobbies Hobbies The hobbies of the rich are different from those of the poor. Many rich people like golf, car modification, collection, travel and so on. But men who have no money like to play games and exercise at most. After all, there is not so much money to squander. Golf itself is an elegant sport with millions of members in many places. A person who can play golf often must have a good family background. Car modification, collection and travel are all high-consumption things. How can a person without money cultivate such a hobby? So judging whether a man is really rich depends on his hobbies, and there will be a gap. In fact, no matter how rich you are, it is futile to get true love. No matter how poor you are, you are the luckiest to meet someone who loves you. Whether a man is really rich or pretends to be rich is not particularly important for love. True love can ignore these external things. Although women love money, they should be sincere. Nothing is nothing. Why are you pretending? Cheating can only bring pain in the end. The difference between pretending to be rich and being really rich 3. People who are really rich talk differently from people who pretend to be rich. In today's world, although class stratification is not so obvious, class differences still exist. People of different classes have great differences in living habits and living standards. Many habits have been cultivated for many years, and it is difficult to disguise them and change them imperceptibly. You can know the inner essence of a person from his speech, but the speech of a rich man and a poor man is very different. Rich men, because they are rich, have seen much more of the world and life experience than ordinary people, and their words, deeds and manners will be more appropriate, instead of being difficult to talk about something nutritious like those men who pretend to be rich. Therefore, if a woman dates a man and he can hardly say anything nutritious, then he is probably pretending to be rich. Second, a truly rich man will not show off his wealth easily. People often say that wealth is not exposed, because for the really rich, if they expose their property in front of outsiders, they may attract villains and their money may be stolen. Therefore, in order to protect their private property, generally speaking, the richer people are, the more they tend to keep a low profile and cry for poverty. On the contrary, the more people who have no money, the more they like to pretend to be rich and show off their wealth everywhere to hide their inferiority. Therefore, if a woman wants to know whether a man is really rich, she only needs to make an appointment with him once. A truly rich man won't talk about his money, and only a man who pretends to be rich will always emphasize that he is "very rich". Third, pretending to be rich will be full of loopholes. When a person begins to tell the first lie, then he will make up for his lies with countless lies. But paper can't cover fire, and lies will be exposed one day. Many times, people tell a lot of lies casually, and many of them can't be remembered by themselves, which leads to a person who is full of lies. Therefore, when a woman is dating a man, if she finds that the opposite man is always full of loopholes, the preface is inconsistent, and she doesn't even remember what she said, then this man is a liar who pretends to be rich. Conclusion: People like honest and sincere people, whether in feelings or in real life and work and study. In the process of interacting with men, women actually don't pay so much attention to economy and material things, which is only one aspect. And a true and honest person is better than 10 thousand rich people who lie and pretend to be forced.