Trouble in college: The inner monologue of a lonely fat girl in college~Please read it patiently~Save me~I am very sad~I will give you the highest score~

The opinion downstairs is that it’s okay to be fat, the main thing is to see how fat you are. Slightly fat? If this were the case, the poster would not come out to ask for help.

First of all, this classmate, I am very happy for you. Your experience like this has made you more aware of what human aesthetics is, which is of course limited to the superficial level. Because everyone only sees your appearance and does not understand your heart, it is because you have closed yourself off. This is exactly how you change your behavior after your self-esteem is hit. And through your description, just a description, I see that you care a lot about appearance, which may have a lot to do with your own situation. And a big reason for this kind of caring is that it is the golden stage of love in college. Many girls long for a vigorous love in college when they are in high school. You study hard day and night in high school, so you don't focus on fulfilling your dreams and fulfilling your parents' expectations of you.

But after you entered college, the direction of your attention changed, but the actual situation was not what you imagined. It was all these things that led to you now walking into the shadows. But it's good that you're still trying to come out of the shadows.

The above is just my analysis after reading your description. If the analysis is correct, then you can read on. If it is wrong, stop reading. Prescribing the right medicine is the best way.

1. You lack confidence now, extremely lacking. Also quite inferior. It makes you very autistic now, making you a little extreme. The source of your lack of confidence is that you are fat, which also leads to a series of problems.

So the key lies in self-confidence, and the key lies in losing weight? The result that can be obtained is obviously wrong.

You are mentally ill, not physically unwell. Don't keep talking about being fat no matter what. Here are some tips for you: reduce the time you spend watching TV, reduce the time I spend sitting in front of the computer, help your mother cook more at home, clean the dormitory when you have nothing to do at school, in one sentence, reduce the time you spend living alone, and increase the number of friends you have with your classmates. When we are together, even if you don't say anything, you will be a good listener and your heart will be moved. You didn't pay what you got in return. Properly control your diet and don't be alone. I think exercising together will make you feel much happier than running alone on the playground.