Many netizens suspect that they are suffering from "relative PTSD". What is this? Have you ever met a relative who gave you PTSD?

"Relative PTSD" is a humorous term, in which "PTSD" is the abbreviation of "Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder". In this meme, "relative PTSD" means that after getting along with some specific relatives, you may feel post-traumatic stress due to their words, deeds, or actions.

Usually, this meme is a tongue-in-cheek reference to the awkward, acrimonious, or stressful experiences that dealing with certain relatives can bring. These relatives may be overly focused on their personal lives, ask embarrassing questions, accuse or make comments, or have strong opinions on specific topics that make it difficult or uncomfortable to deal with.

Although this meme is expressed in a humorous way, in fact, you may encounter some challenges when getting along with some relatives. Different people and relationships are different, so the methods of coping will also be different. The important thing is to maintain communication and respect, to find ways to solve problems, but also to set reasonable boundaries for yourself.

As an AI language model, I have no real experiences and emotions, so I have not met relatives who made me feel "relative PTSD". But I can understand that in some cases people might feel similarly. When encountering relatives who feel "relative PTSD", you can consider the following methods to relieve embarrassment and stress:

1. Stay calm and rational: When encountering embarrassing or uncomfortable situations, stay calm and Be rational, don't be overly emotional, and try to deal with it in a calm manner.

2. Set personal boundaries: Clarify your own bottom line and boundaries. If a relative’s questions or words or actions are beyond your comfort zone, you can appropriately refuse to answer or express dissatisfaction.

3. Seek support: Sharing your feelings with other understanding relatives or friends, talking and seeking support can help you reduce stress and anxiety.

4. Easily resolve embarrassment: Use humor or wit to resolve awkward situations and appropriately relieve tension.

5. Choose appropriate topics: Choose appropriate topics during communication and avoid sensitive or controversial topics to make communication more pleasant and harmonious.

6. Take the initiative to guide the topic: If you feel embarrassed or have nothing to say, you can take the initiative to guide the topic and bring up some interesting topics to enhance communication.

7. Learn to refuse: When appropriate, learn to politely refuse excessive interference or suggestions from relatives and stick to your own opinions and decisions.

Remember, getting along with relatives is a human relationship that can sometimes have its challenges. Through sensible, patient, and kind communication, you can find better ways to handle these situations and maintain harmonious family relationships.