The biggest voice of left-behind children: I miss my parents and hope my parents can come back one more time

Living on the left and having children on the right, many parents with poor financial conditions are also in a dilemma. They moved bricks and took care of their children at the same time, but they still had a hard time living.

As a last resort, some parents have to choose to go out to work and go all out to make money.

The biggest expectation of these parents is to be with their children day and night and witness their children's growth every day. What a great happiness it is to live together as a family!

It is a pity that in order to survive, I have to give up accompanying my children and have to choose to let my children stay with the elderly. In this way, the poor child became a "left-behind child" in the eyes of others.

In 2013, the All-China Women's Federation estimated that there were 61.0255 million left-behind children in rural areas in China based on data from China's sixth census in 2010. There are as many as 9.02 million left-behind children in rural areas nationwide who are under the age of 16 and whose parents have gone out to work.

The biggest voice of left-behind children: I miss my parents and hope my parents can come back one more time!

Example: 5-year-old Lele is very sensible. He knows that his parents go out to work to make money for him. Lele stayed in the countryside and lived with his grandparents. Although he missed his parents very much, he never called for his father or mother.

The happiest thing for Lele was hearing a call from her parents. As soon as the phone rings, Lele will be particularly excited. She often chats with her parents for a long time, still holding the phone and not wanting to hang up. After her parents reluctantly hung up, Lele kept crying.

Once, my father went back to his hometown to apply for a new certificate and could only take the opportunity to stay one night. Lele is just like "Chinese New Year", very happy. Dad played with Lele at home, sometimes playing hide-and-seek, sometimes playing lattice jumping. Throughout the whole day, Lele was so happy that he laughed more than he usually does in a year!

At night, Dad coaxed Lele to sleep. Lele was worried that her father would leave soon, so she had to hold her father's arm when sleeping. Grandpa burst into tears after seeing it. The old man always feels that this poor family really feels sorry for the child!

At dawn, the father wanted to get up and leave quickly while his son was still awake, so as to avoid making his son sad.

However, even after trying to break off his son's hand several times, he still couldn't break it open. The son would hold on to his father's arm even when he was sleeping. Finally, the father couldn't help crying, and he shook off his son's hand, picked up his bag and went out to work.

Every parent of a left-behind child has unspeakable bitterness. But fortunately, adults who are also migrant workers can understand this unspeakable secret.

Unfortunately, children are different. The children are too young, and some ignorant children may not sympathize with them, and may even ridicule them when they see their companions "without parents" by their side.

Left-behind children are ridiculed and feel very tortured!

A 7-year-old boy was ridiculed as a "wild child". The boy asked his parents: Why were you born with me?

Xiaotong is 7 years old. He has been living with his grandparents since he can remember.

The place where Xiaotong lives is in a mountainous area, and the roads are not easy to walk at all. Xiaotong has to walk half a mile to go to school, exposed to wind and rain, and suffers a lot.

One day, Xiaotong went to school in the heavy rain and fell down on the way. When he got to school, he looked very depressed. The most naughty male classmate in the class laughed at Xiaotong and said, "Look at you, you look like a drowned rat. You are indeed a wild child without parents."

Upon hearing this, Xiaotong was shocked. No more, all the grievances on the road came out. Xiaotong threw away her schoolbag and beat the male classmate regardless.

Upon seeing this, the head teacher quickly separated the two children. Then, he helped Xiaotong wipe away her tears. Xiaotong burst into tears and asked the teacher to lend him a phone.

Xiaotong took out the note, called her father, and asked her father hoarsely: "Why did you give birth to me if you didn't accompany me?"

Three years ago, Xiaotong Tong also met his parents once. But in the past few years, my parents only called me and asked someone to get 70,000 yuan back, and I never came home. Xiaotong missed her parents very much, but she couldn't even remember what they looked like. If it hadn't been for what happened today, Xiaotong wouldn't be able to vent her dissatisfaction and would only cry in her dreams.

"No one asked me whether my porridge was warm, and no one accompanied me in the evening." This poem is also very timely when applied to left-behind children.

Parents are unable to accompany their children and miss the most important growth period of their children. The hearts of left-behind children are hurt. In life, left-behind children also face many problems.

The pain of left-behind children may accompany them throughout their lives. We call on parents to "try their best to accompany them"

Left-behind children may face many problems. Only parents who "try their best to accompany" their children in their own way can solve these fundamental problems.

1 Left-behind children have poor academic performance and do not like to study.

Some left-behind children live with their grandparents and other elderly people. The old people's way of disciplining their children is usually "free-range" and they are not strict about their children's academic performance. Some left-behind children don't like to study very much, and because they have no one to supervise them, they stop going to school very early and stay at home to help with farm work.

Solution: If parents are not with their children, they can still urge their children to study hard through video or phone calls. Alternatively, parents can develop reward and punishment measures for their children. If their children do well in exams, parents can go home to visit their children in advance to increase their children's learning motivation.

2 Left-behind children are very lonely and tend to be withdrawn

Parents leave their children with the elderly, so that the children almost "lose" their parents' care at a very young age. This kind of pain is very painful for them. For a child, it is really big and excruciating.

Some children develop a withdrawn personality because of this, and it is difficult to escape them throughout their lives.

Solution: Parents must take time to communicate with their children more, and go home to visit their children when necessary. In addition, if parents really don't have the conditions to do this, they should try their best to accompany their children to grow up in special ways.

For example, if you help your child develop interests and hobbies, if your child falls in love with painting and puts the photos of his parents aside to accompany him, the child will also feel very relieved and will not be extremely lonely.

Caring for left-behind children starts with “a smile”!

Humans are born to be kind.

Suppose the parents of left-behind children are really busy working for a living and have no time to pay attention to their children. So, as ordinary people, we should also do our best to help these children.

Sister Li in the community is a kind-hearted person. Every year she organizes some caring people to take the initiative to visit left-behind children in rural areas. Read books with your children and talk about your concerns.

The power of love adds up to a small amount. We are here to appeal to the power of the public and the people around the left-behind children to be as considerate to them as possible and to send a little warm companionship to the children in need. .

Perhaps, everyone’s smile and kind companionship will make the child’s childhood more colorful and live more happily!