When I hold you up, you are a cup; when I let you go, you are like shards of glass.

01

When you like someone, you want to give them the best.

I want to leave you the crispy rice in the claypot rice, the sweetest part of the watermelon, and the fruit on the birthday cake.

What I give you may not be what you like, but it must be the best you have.

This is how my friend Lao Chen treats his girlfriend. They are classmates. Lao Chen liked his girlfriend very much when he first saw her. Whether it was her well-behaved and sensible nature or her weird and elf-like ways, she led him all the way. Chen Ru was intoxicated.

So Lao Chen, encouraged by his classmates, launched a fierce pursuit of her.

After chasing her for a year, he finally caught up with her. At that time, Lao Chen secretly swore in his heart that he would treat his girlfriend well and give her his best love.

In fact, Lao Chen also did it. Lao Chen at that time, after having a girlfriend, not to mention how miserable he was. Not only did he spend all his spare time with his girlfriend, he even spent all his spare time with his girlfriend every month. Even half of my pitiful life is spent on my girlfriend.

Several times during dormitory dinners, Lao Chen said that brothers, you should give first because he had no money. Brothers, I really have no money. I will invite everyone next time. The roommates saw that Lao Chen often entertained guests in the past, and they understood that this boy really had no money and did not argue with him.

Everyone saw how kind Lao Chen was to his girlfriend, and they were touched in their hearts. Everyone felt that she was very happy to have such a boyfriend and should be content. But Lao Chen's girlfriend didn't think so. She always took Lao Chen's kindness to her for granted. She thought Lao Chen should treat her like this.

In the end, Lao Chen proposed breaking up. Lao Chen said something that left a deep impression on me. He said, I doted on her to the heavens, but she always thought I was not tall enough.

02

Water can carry a boat or capsize it. When I pamper you, I can treat you like a little princess. You have squandered my love and I don’t love you anymore. You are worse than a stray dog ??on the roadside.

When his girlfriend was squandering Lao Chen's love unscrupulously, Lao Chen decided to leave. No one expected that Lao Chen would break up.

When the roommates thought that Lao Chen would be sad and planned to drink with him all night, Lao Chen smiled and said that he was fine. He took out a cigarette from his pocket and lit it. His ecstatic posture was as relaxed as that of a reform-through-labor prisoner who had just been released from prison.

Lao Chen has always liked to buy some snacks for his girlfriend to eat while watching TV. Sometimes his girlfriend will complain to Lao Chen, why did you buy me such unpalatable things? Lao Chen said, I haven't eaten it, and I don't know if it tastes good. My girlfriend yelled, "You didn't know why you bought it for me."

Lao Chen forcefully said that I was reluctant to buy the snacks I bought you, so of course I never ate them, and swallowed them back in his stomach.

Every time after class, his girlfriend waited for Lao Chen at the door of the classroom for a few minutes and then started to complain. But she forgot that Lao Chen also had classes and came from another teaching building.

My girlfriend thinks that Lao Chen likes her so much and he deserves all the good things he has done to her by chasing her for more than a year. If she didn't think that Lao Chen was kind to her and she could be with Lao Chen, maybe when she was seeking death, she never thought that Lao Chen would leave one day.

Later, when his girlfriend cried and begged Lao Chen to get back together, Lao Chen just said, "Go away and find someone who treats you better. I can only accompany you here."

I have always thought that a sentence I saw on Weibo makes sense: "You can picture a person's handsomeness, you can picture a person's wealth, you can even picture a person's family background, but you can't Don't expect someone to be nice to you. Once he doesn't want to be nice to you, you will have nothing."

When I hold you, you are like a cup, but when I let go, you are like shards of glass.

Therefore, when someone treats you sincerely, please cherish it and be grateful. Don’t take it for granted and don’t seek death.

03

I can pamper you to the heavens, or I can kill you without blinking an eye

When I mentioned Lao Chen, I suddenly remembered that I once liked of a person.

At that time, there were 300 text messages on my phone a month, more than 270 of which were sent to him. I basically don’t reply to text messages sent by others, because I have to keep the text messages I send with them.

At that time, I wanted to give him my heart.

Later he had to transfer to a school in Panzhihua. I know that he is a homesick person like me. I am afraid that he will be homesick and that he will not adapt to the new environment.

I stayed up late at night and browsed the Baidu Jokes Collection, copied them on the paper with folded stars, and folded each joke into the stars with my love, so that when he was in a bad mood in a new environment Just take out a star and open it to see the joke.

By the time he finished opening the stars, he had almost adapted to the environment.

When he was leaving, I went to see him off. At that time, I met another very beautiful girl, who he said was his cousin. When he was leaving, I put the jar of stars into his hand and watched him go away.

Later, I met his cousin again at an event of our school’s Youth League Committee. I wanted to rush up to say hello, but the other person was cold and cold. I didn't take it to heart at the time, but later I heard her scolding me with other friends, scolding me for seducing her boyfriend, giving her boyfriend gifts, and having evil intentions towards her boyfriend.

After asking other friends, I found out that his so-called cousin was actually his girlfriend. I was the last person to know that they were in love, and we were in contact just a few days ago.

I haven’t contacted him since then. One day I received a message from him, and he asked why you haven’t been looking for me recently and why haven’t you told me jokes.

I said, I like you, but I am not a bitch.

After sending the message, I deleted his QQ account and put his phone number on the blacklist.

04

I can get used to being nice to you, but I can also change you in minutes

When I like you, I will do my best to treat you I will give you my best things, I will give you my best love, I will give you my most tender care, and I will be eager to give you my heart.

But that doesn’t mean that you can take my kindness to you for granted. You can squander my love unscrupulously, and you can trample on my heart and my dignity without mercy.

But you have to understand that no one in this world has to be nice to others. I am nice to you just because I like you. You have squandered my love. From now on, you are just my passerby A, B, C and D. , not even as good as a stray dog ??on the roadside.

So, if someone treats you well, please cherish it. Even if you don’t like him, don’t waste it.

When you like someone, you feel that they are very cute even if they eat shit. When you don’t like someone, you feel like they are eating shit no matter what they do.

I saw a girl’s Weibo before. She said, you are just relying on me to like you to hurt me like this.

Yes, the person who is loved in a relationship is always the uncle, but no one owes anyone in a relationship. Love is mutual, and no matter how deep the love is, it cannot withstand squandering.

When I like you, you can do anything. When I don’t like you, you can’t even breathe correctly.

When I like you, I will give you everything I can. You don't know how to cherish me. Once my passion is exhausted, don't imagine that I will ever look back.

When I hold you, you are a cup. Once I let go, you are just a pile of glass shards.