What are the secrets of your mother’s family that a smart woman will never tell anyone?

As the saying goes, family scandals should not be made public. What a family is like determines what kind of people the family members are. Therefore, family affairs should not be disclosed to anyone, especially women's families.

My best friend Xiaofang has been married for more than five years. Although the couple’s life is going well, Xiaofang found out that her husband’s family didn’t treat her very well. When I was with my husband's family, I was stupid, too quick, and said everything I shouldn't have said.

If her husband hadn’t insisted on marrying her, her husband’s family would have disagreed long ago.

Xiaofang said that women should never tell anything about their parents’ family easily, especially these few things, otherwise they will be called fools.

1. Bad Habits of Parents Habits become natural. Habits are the things that best reflect a person’s essence. Anonymous

Xiaofang’s family is in a rural area with a large family. Although her parents are farmers, they like to gamble. When she was young, Xiaofang would take her younger brothers, sisters, and parents to play cards. Sometimes she would come home very late and not take care of these children at all.

Xiaofang also quarreled with her parents many times because of this. If her parents had not lost Xiaofang’s tuition that year, Xiaofang would have been able to go to college.

When her husband took her home and chatted with her mother-in-law and father-in-law, Xiaofang took these things as chat content and said them out. Her mother-in-law and father-in-law, who were originally very satisfied, changed instantly. Looking at her face, she felt that Xiaofang’s family environment was not very good.

2. Don't reveal how much savings and wealth your parents have. If you reveal how much money you have, you will easily be framed by villains. Anonymous

Although when getting married, most women value a man's family environment and family conditions, but in fact, men also pay great attention to a woman's family conditions.

Xiaofang’s family conditions are not very good. Over the years, Xiaofang’s money earned from working outside has been given to her parents. Although the family still owes some foreign debt, life is still relatively comfortable.

Before getting married, her mother-in-law asked about Xiaofang’s family conditions. Who knew that Xiaofang actually revealed all her family’s assets, saying she owed tens of thousands of yuan to a relative and how many acres her family owned? Wait.

After listening to Xiaofang's words, the mother-in-law no longer wanted her son to live with this woman, for fear that she would have to take care of her mother's family after getting married. These things were told by her husband to Xiaofang after they got married.

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Conflicts between relatives Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. Don’t tell outsiders about conflicts in your own family, as it will only make others laugh. Anonymous

Once a woman tells everything about her mother's family, she will often be looked down upon by her husband's family. Don't believe it.

Occasionally, Xiaofang’s parents would call her. Her parents had a quarrel with that relative and they wanted to go back to seek justice. After returning from her parents' home, Xiaofang became very angry and started chatting and complaining with her husband's family. Although her husband's family tried to persuade Xiaofang, they actually felt that Xiaofang's family had become a mess.

As for matters between relatives, you should solve them if you can. If you can't solve them, don't tell others. If you tell them, others will only blame you and treat them as a joke.

Summary:

The most important thing for a woman in her life is to live a stable life. If she has her own life, she must not ruin her life just because of her mouth. Your natal family is your biggest backing and support no matter where you are, so don't talk about your natal family's affairs easily.