Adults should bury their sadness in their hearts and learn to pretend. Why?

Adults bury their sadness in their hearts and pretend to be strong, mostly because they understand the true meaning of growth. In life, we will always encounter something that makes us very sad. Many people will express their bitterness and suffering to others when they encounter this kind of thing for the first time. However, with the increase of such times, we will find that expressing our feelings does not help us solve our troubles, but creates new difficulties for ourselves.

A word or two of confidence may win sympathy from the other side, but a long-term confidence will be a burden to everyone. For some people, they regard our self-confidence as their own troubles. In this process, we inadvertently brought great pressure to each other. Great pressure makes it difficult for the relationship between the two sides to maintain long-term development, and the two people who were originally good have become strangers.

After seeing fewer and fewer friends around them, most people will be lost in thought and reflect on their problems in getting along with others. After several reflections, we will understand that it is our own frankness that has brought this relationship to an end. No one in the society can really feel the same way with us, and few people will understand our sadness. Therefore, adults should learn to bury their sadness in their hearts, digest it silently, lick their wounds silently in their hearts, and learn to pretend to be outside.

In our life, our frankness often makes us hit a wall. In the face of interpersonal communication, our frankness not only won't win others' sympathy, but sometimes even led to others' attack and slander, hurting ourselves and making ourselves grow. There must be a way in life, which is only suitable for us to walk alone. Only by knowing how to disguise yourself can we face life more calmly and quickly adapt to the pain and feelings brought about by growth.