A serious illness has changed my temperament greatly. I love that beautiful and practical man.

One?

It must be admitted that when I married Qiao anguo, I was drooling over his beauty. It's true!

There are five brothers and sisters in his family, one of whom was burned blind and dumb because of a cold when he was a child. When I married him, my father was so angry that he went to the hospital.

My family is a real scholarly family, my parents are both university professors, and the marriage between brother and sister is either rich or expensive. Although I didn't go to college, after graduating from technical secondary school, I became an accountant in a state-owned enterprise. Husband Qiao anguo is just an ordinary worker, with no house and no money, and a disabled brother who needs the support of the whole family.

However, when Qiao Anguo was still Xiao Qiao, 182 had delicate features. His work clothes are always clean and straight, and the fake collar in his work clothes is always dazzling white. I made a fool of myself and pursued him wholeheartedly.

After marriage, I lived with his whole family, and my life was very hectic. It was not until my son Qiao Le was born that my parents really couldn't bear to let me move back to my mother's house.

Joan is the eldest son of the family. She cooks delicious food and cleans the house professionally. Since we lived at home, the frequency of my younger brothers and sisters going home has obviously changed, not for anything else, but for the good meals and dishes put out by Qiao anguo.

Gradually, Qiao anguo became a super nanny in our family, and everyone made him feel at ease to do all kinds of housework. That attitude is obvious-since you can't make money, you must do a good job in logistics.

This includes me.

It is no exaggeration to say that when my son Xiao Qiao grew up, I did everything myself except breastfeeding, and almost all others were taken care of by Qiao anguo.

His efforts make us live a harmonious and warm life, but the only thing that makes me unhappy is Qiao anguo's concern for his poor family.

Today his mother is ill, tomorrow my brother will get married, the day after tomorrow my sister will get married, the day after tomorrow my disabled brother will have an accident, and so on. In short, that home is like a messy thread, tangled and constantly cut.

When I first moved out of my mother-in-law's house, I went back on holidays. However, as lovers talk again and again, I simply seldom go back once a year. If anyone has a happy event, I basically don't show up, just pay and don't tell anyone.

After a long time, I also turned a blind eye to the fact that Qiao anguo secretly saved private money to supplement his family.

Marrying Qiao anguo, others don't seem to match, but I enjoy it. At least in this marriage, I can be willful because of my sense of superiority.

Two?

What's more, Joan Guo is such a down-to-earth husband.

When parents get older, they will be hospitalized more often. Every time my parents get sick, my brothers and sisters only pay, not contribute. I am all thumbs, and I am accompanied by Qiao anguo with no regrets.

Mom and dad are slowly moved by Qiao anguo, and their attitude towards him is no longer as condescending as before, but more and more dependent.

In 20 16, my father died of illness. He has been in bed for 4 years and has been taken care of by Qiao anguo. He retired early, and my sister-in-law and I are happy to be the shopkeepers of cutting. My father left me a sentence before he died: "Be kind to Xiao Qiao, our family owes him."

After my father left, my mother's health went from bad to worse, and I can't live without people for a moment. I'm so tired that my back aches. My sister started her own company and asked Qiao anguo to take care of her mother on the grounds that she asked me to help in the company.

20 17 1 1 When my mother died, she made a will and gave all her property and this house to Joan.

Before she died, my mother said to our sisters with tears in her eyes, "Your father and I are really failures, and none of you can beat Xiao Qiao …" Then, she held Qiao Anguo's hand and closed her eyes.

My brothers and sisters, including me, are very angry about this. As my sister said, hard work is not his virtue, but his means of making a living. What's more, with this move, he won nearly 300 thousand deposits from real estate and parents, which is also a counterattack in his poor boy's life.

Of course, that's what my sister said about old Joe, but I still want to protect him. Fortunately, after a few words of cynicism from my brother and sister, things turned upside down.

After their parents leave, they often come uninvited, just like calling a servant: "Brother-in-law, I want to eat Spanish mackerel jiaozi", "Brother-in-law, I am dying of your stewed pork ribs with beans."

I put the 300,000 left by my parents directly in my name, and prepared to leave it to my son Qiao Le. I'm afraid that when the money reaches Joanne, Joanne will help my brothers and sisters who are not rich behind my back.

After his parents died, Qiao anguo lost his baggage and began to take care of his elderly mother, having frequent gatherings with his brothers and sisters. Occasionally have a headache for several days.

They have been discussing from beginning to end how much money they can get for retirement, where kidney beans are cheap, and radish seeds should be dried this season ... In three sentences, they can't live without eating and drinking Lazar, and they are still talking enthusiastically.

Every time I go back, Qiao anguo will bring back all kinds of food and say to me lightly, "My family asked me to bring it to you." I didn't say anything, but I had an abacus in my heart: over the years, the money I helped them was enough to buy these things.

Later, my parents-in-law also passed away. But Qiao anguo's family still get together once or twice a week, which is nothing more than eating and drinking together.

Three?

However, people are doomed to be unfortunate, but I never thought that I, who had lived a very fine life, was finally diagnosed as the middle stage of lymphoma in the routine physical examination every year.

I sat on the ground of the hospital and quickly called Qiao anguo. Qiao anguo helped me contact the doctor, arrange hospitalization and arrange the date of operation-he has been dealing with the hospital completely in recent years.

It was only after everything was ready that I remembered to report the bad news to my brother and sister. As a result, my brother was on a business trip in the United States, and my sister's family of three were traveling in Hainan. They all gave me money from Cary, and said to me heroically, "Sister, you don't have to worry about money."

Yes, money is the greatest confidence when people are sick.

However, after the operation, I panicked again. Qiao anguo was busy outside, carrying shit and urine, and his son Xiaole occasionally came to give him a hand, but he didn't say anything, and I could see it-a blank face. More often, he just sat next to me with his mobile phone, looked at the bottom of the bottle and even asked me to remind him.

Seeing his son's carelessness, Qiao anguo simply accompanied him 24 hours a day. As a result, his high pressure reached 180 in less than three days.

Xiaole said to his father, "Now is not the time to give up life and money. Go and ask for a nurse. If you both fall, how can I take care of it alone? "

That sounds more like me. Care is part of it, and trouble is the truth.

This time, Qiao anguo was also angry: "Your mother is too proud to stand the care worker to help her turn over to receive urine. This is a question of money! "

Looking at Qiao anguo's purple and yellow face, my heart sank. I asked the head nurse to hire a nurse for me and ordered Qiao anguo to be hospitalized to lower his blood pressure.

Qiao anguo promised and told me that he went home to get something. However, less than five minutes after he went out, the WeChat group at home exploded.

Although I am in the league, I can't speak two words a year. I watch their brothers and sisters good morning and good night every day, basking in all kinds of home cooking, taking selfies and telling jokes that I don't know where the joke is.

On that day, they all shouted at me: "Sister-in-law, you didn't tell me that you were ill, which really didn't bring my family." "Sister-in-law, I'll bring you something to eat later." "Sister-in-law, I didn't know that you were ill, so I'll accompany you tonight." ...

Before I could reply one by one, my sister-in-law rushed into the ward first, and her unit was less than 200 meters away from my hospital.

When I entered the room, my sister-in-law saw my eyes red: "Sister-in-law, you let my brother keep such a big thing from us. But for my brother's illness, he would be as busy as a bee. If he doesn't say it, we are still stupid at home. "

I am very hot inside.

This fast-talking little sister-in-law is like a gust of wind. She went out without saying a few words. After coming back, she helped me put on new sheets and pillows: "Sister-in-law, I know you love cleanliness." Then, he took out the lunch boxes and chopsticks in the cupboard and washed them again. He also complained: "My brother is a man, but he just can't do this job."

Sister-in-law has not been idle since she entered the room. Soon, three brothers-in-law and two sisters-in-law and their wives and husbands came. Arguing about what I should eat, discussing who will accompany me at night and denouncing me as an outsider. ...

All their family members have this ability, and wherever they go, they will soon become a vegetable market, full of fireworks of life.

After several discussions, the brother-in-law of the second bus dispatcher quickly made a duty watch and posted it in the family WeChat group.

Except the deaf-mute third brother, the other two younger brothers, siblings, younger sister and brother-in-law are all on the attendance list, including who buys food, who cooks and when to change shifts.

Second, the brother-in-law said in the group: "As before, those who can take annual leave will take annual leave, and if they can't, they will coordinate the day shift and night shift."

Second, after the brother-in-law handed out the duty watch, the brothers and sisters replied one after another: "OK", "Being a leader means being organized" and "Second brother, I like you" ...

In this way, Qiao anguo's brothers and sisters took action and came to the hospital to accompany them in an orderly way every day. Every time they bring food, they carefully match it, knowing that I love cleanliness, and changing sheets and pillowcases every day, lest I be pessimistic. They either teach me to watch Tik Tok or read me online jokes. ...

The patient in the same ward said enviously, "Now there is such a United family."

And my heart is warm and ashamed.

This is the first time I have been so close to them since I got married, and it is also the first time I know that they are so passionate about each other. Qiao anguo only had acute hypertension, but after staying in the hospital for a day, the doctor prescribed sleeping pills and slept for a whole night before his blood pressure stabilized. However, every time his blood pressure value came out, the accompanying brothers and sisters immediately sent the news to the group, and everyone cheered.

When people are sick, their minds are delicate and sensitive. I understand Qiao anguo's enthusiasm and dedication to that poor family. That kind of love and being loved is a fascinating part between people.

In the final analysis, it is only a few people around us who decide the joys and sorrows of our lives. Joan's country is a smart person in the family.

When my sister-in-law mentioned that my brother was ill, her tears were like running water. She told me that when I was at school, my brother was afraid that she would feel inferior because her family was poor, so he kept giving her money. Once he went to see her, he gave her all the money in his pocket and hitchhiked all the way from Zhengzhou to Dalian.

When the brother-in-law married his sister-in-law, he had no money to buy a house, and his parents strongly disagreed. With his younger brother and sister, Qiao anguo renovated his parents' small yard, surrounded it, dug a fish pond, planted flowers and grapes, and said to his parents, "Although we have no money, there are people at home. When a sister-in-law marries our family, you have five more children. In the future, several of us can call us whenever we want. "

This sincerity finally touched the parents of younger siblings. Qiao anguo said so at the beginning, and later it came true. Sister-in-law's parents' home, five people are present, they turn other people's parents into their own.

I heard that I was ill, and my sister-in-law's parents came almost every day and took the bus three times just to have a look. I tried to dissuade him several times, but menstruation said, "I am sick and miss my parents the most. When they leave, we will come to see you for them every day. "

Such people and things accompany me through the hospital time, which makes me feel pain, depression and despair, and will give birth to the hope of living from the bottom of my heart.

I even regret that over the years, like an outsider, I have isolated myself from their world, aloof and disdainful. However, how many trivial moments of truth have I missed?

Where are my own brothers and sisters? After my brother made money himself, he didn't ask me about my postoperative situation. It seems that I have a cold rather than cancer.

My sister, who is traveling in Hainan, ordered flowers for me online and delivered them to the ward at eight o'clock every morning. Come to see me in the hospital when you come back from your trip. Seeing that Qiao anguo's younger brothers and sisters have such strict schedules, they confidently said to me, "Sister, their family just doesn't have time. Then I should go to work. Someone has to make money. If you are short of money, shout. "

From arrival to departure, she always wore a thick mask and gloves, and kept a distance of half a meter from me, dressed like visiting SARS patients. Looking at my sister's elegant back, my heart is cold.

On the sixth day after operation, a fist-sized bag suddenly bulged on my back, which made me suffocate. I think I may not have much time to go. The attending doctor is in Beijing on business. When the doctor heard about my condition, he came back overnight.

The doctor arrived in Dalian at six in the morning, and I was pushed into the operating room at seven. Qiao anguo's younger brothers and sisters stood at the door of the operating room neatly, and their two sisters-in-law eyes were as red as rabbits.

I suddenly envy their poor and loving family, being loved and cared for by my brother. They live a sincere and warm life and cry whenever they want. Smiling can quickly empathize with the sufferings of others.

When I was about to enter the operating room, Qiao anguo took my hand and said to me, "Don't be afraid, my brother and sister are outside with you. When you come out, I will pack your favorite three fresh wonton. "

I used to laugh at him for knowing how to eat and ask him if he had medical knowledge. However, at this moment, I am so dependent on him that I finally understand that his love for me is like a child. A delicious meal has been used to comfort his family in his fifties-this is a habit of a big brother and his unique skill.

For the rest of my life, the bulging bag on my back turned out to be a ruptured artery. If I were half an hour late, I might be dead. Out of the operating room, I woke up and watched them huddle together and cry into tears. I asked myself: What are my virtues and abilities that deserve their heartfelt concern?

After turning the corner, my brothers and sisters took turns to take care of me. When the shift is over, they explain the precautions in detail like doctors in rounds.

I was selfish and indifferent for many years since I was a child, so I was melted by them.

A month and a half later, I was discharged from the hospital. But my second uncle was arranged again, and sent the time of my later radiotherapy and chemotherapy and the list of their chaperones to the group. Every day, my brothers and sisters will definitely call me and ask me how I feel today. Do you want to eat something? ...

After I was discharged from the hospital, Qiao anguo and I went to the market every weekend to buy a bunch of vegetables, and then invited my brothers and sisters, including my brothers and sisters, to go home for dinner.

Qiao anguo's younger brothers and sisters entered the room, changed their clothes and went into the kitchen. No one is idle, planning a table of food is as tacit as building blocks.

Watching them chatting in the frying pan, I was half drunk because of the salary increase of tens of yuan. I no longer hate it, but like it. Except for life and death, the rest are small things. Life is about fighting for these little things, and it has a warm taste.

After a serious illness, I "changed my temperament" and began to care about food and vegetables, and began to "intervene" in the lives of my brothers and sisters, hoping to warm my brothers and sisters with Joan's affection and let them grow old together.

The sea of life can determine your joys and sorrows in this life, but there are seven or eight people around you. The woman in the article once disliked her husband and his ordinary citizen relatives, but at the critical moment, these relatives were sincere and enthusiastic guardians and gave her endless support and encouragement.

Always in the midst of prosperity, we can understand that what is more important than material is sentimentality.