What if we break up because of the wedding bride price?

1. My mother forced me to leave him because of the quarrel about the wedding bride price, but you broke up on impulse. In your description, you didn't mention the other person's attitude. As for the sensitivity of the teaching profession, maybe your boyfriend's attitude is not very good, just broken pots and broken falls, so you asked us for help. Since you asked us for help, of course you don't want to break up.

In recent days, there have been contradictions because of marriage and money. You said that your minimum is 39,000, and he said that their average is 20,000. You said that if you were laughed at by others, the money you gave would still be yours after marriage, so you would even be proud to borrow it and pay back a dollar after marriage.

On the surface, it seems to be fighting for the amount of bride price. In fact, from a deeper perspective, it is actually measuring your value. Simply put, you think you are worth 39 thousand, but he thinks you are worth 20 thousand, so he is unwilling to spend more money and willing to break up. Explain that your value may be too low and you need to improve your value. So what kind of mate selection conditions do men and women have?

3. What are the conditions for a woman to choose a spouse?

(1) has good value, including survival value and reproduction value.

(2) Willing to provide value

(3) Willing to provide value for a long time and willing to give a promise of marriage.

4. What are the conditions for a man to choose a spouse?

(1) can bear children.

(2) Being able to have my children has low parent-child uncertainty.

(3) Being able to raise children well and having a partner is of high value.

If you want to redeem it, you may need to accept the man's request to reduce the bride price, that is, accept his counter-offer. Then strive to improve their own value, and at the same time need to adjust the communication and interaction mode, adjust the behavior mode.