Where does the pain of young people come from?

In this world, there are millions of kinds of pain and many sources of pain. Personally, the pain comes from the following factors:

First, a word of love! Feelings are mysterious and cannot be explained clearly in a few words. There is both love at first sight and long-lasting love. In a relationship, the stumbling of life may lead to pain, and the other half's unintentional words may also lead to pain. Of course, in my opinion, in the world of love, the most painful thing is nothing more than two things. One is that you can't get love, that is, you can't get it, and the other is that you get it soon, that is, you are forced to separate because of various factors.

There are all kinds of lovers around. They are completely different before and after love. Some people always care about the other half's every move, for fear that some of their words and deeds will make the other side unhappy; Some people are obsessed with each other's words and deeds, and they seem to have a knot in their heart and are emotional all day.

These situations are painful for most people, but some people are painful and happy.

Second, kiss a word! I forgot from which post I read this sentence: in this world, it is often your relatives who hurt you the most.

Of course, this sentence seems biased. After all, most of the injuries caused by relatives have been automatically filtered by us. A person who is frustrated at work may need a word or two of care and encouragement after returning home, but most of the time, what they are waiting for may be complaining. Even parents sometimes seem to care about nagging, which makes people breathless. As long as it takes a little longer, this kind of pain will take root in the deep heart and eventually grow into a nightmare that people can't get rid of.

Third, the word desire! From a certain perspective, people always have their own desires, unless they really see through the world of mortals and stay out of it. Including the love word mentioned above, it is actually a desire.

Everyone has secular desires, want to be promoted in their work, want to earn more money, want to let their families live a better life and want to be famous. These contents are all desires. And people's ability is limited. After all, gold is not enough, and no one is perfect. One can't satisfy all desires. Once he can't satisfy them, he will suffer. And this kind of pain is endless, unless one day you achieve this goal.

In the final analysis, in my opinion, there are thousands of sources of pain, and what really makes people feel pain is actually their own heart. Many times, it's not that life won't let you go, nor that others won't let you go, but that your heart won't let you go.