Does it make sense for the elderly to spend hundreds of thousands of savings of their children in icu or leave?

The old man lived in ICU and spent hundreds of thousands of children's savings, but he still left. Is it meaningful?

It doesn't make any sense. People will die sooner or later. It makes little difference to the dead, but it makes a big difference to the living. It costs hundreds of thousands to die a few months later, which is a fatal blow to poor families and even completely changes the lives of generations. Why bother? Hundreds of thousands of dollars may be nothing to the rich, but it is definitely decades of savings for rural people. Even many rural families don't have that much savings. I think it is unreasonable for the elderly to stay in ICU knowing that they can't be cured.

As an old man, we should think of our children from another angle. If you really rely on the ICU to continue your life, there is really no need to waste your child's money. Why not relax and accumulate some blessings for our children? Perhaps some old people will make unreasonable demands on their children, saying that it is unfilial not to help treat diseases. But being a man should know how to face the reality. If you are sick, you must be treated, but you must see what disease you have. If you know that it can't be cured, don't drag your child down and go home happily for a lifetime.

As a descendant, if the old people at home are ill and can't be cured, I personally think we can take them home from the hospital, and then ask the old people what their wishes are and try our best to help them realize them. We can take him to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland and let him see this beautiful world before he leaves this world! The author has experienced it personally. My grandfather went to the hospital on February 8, 20 18, and the doctor said it could be cured. Our family did not hesitate to listen to the doctor's arrangement and let him do chemotherapy. Although it cost some money, it is hopeful to be cured, so I think it is worth it.

One episode is hard to understand. My father has eight brothers and sisters, six aunts and two brothers. My aunts have a particularly bad attitude towards my grandfather's illness. They don't pay or contribute, and they also ask my father and uncle to promise to cure my grandfather. Even if you can't make a verbal commitment, you need to write a letter of guarantee. On the contrary, they only went to see my grandfather once, and they all got married in other provinces. The day before Grandpa went to chemotherapy, they had various reasons. Having said so much, I just hope that the rich can understand a truth. Don't give up when the old man is sick, don't give up and don't hesitate. It is estimated that Yun and Li Ka-shing, the richest men, can't do it by spending money, and they won't spend money on meaningless things, not to mention that we are ordinary people!