Husband is 30 years old and son is 7 years old. My husband is introverted and timid. Without friends, he can't handle things, talk about life, know nothing and be stupid.

In daily life, if women are weak, they will usually be understood, but if men are weak, it will be very troublesome, especially in husband and wife life. If the husband is weak, it will have a great influence on a family. Therefore, if the wife thinks that her husband is weak in life, then she must find ways to help her husband. How should she help her husband?

What if my husband is weak?

There are two kinds of people who feel weak. One is that they are casual about everything, and a good man will put up with anything. As long as others say it, they never know how to refuse. This kind of person is actually very tired, afraid that someone around him will be unhappy, and the result will not be good, which will only give people a feeling of weakness. Another is that you don't care about trivial matters, but you can make up your mind when it really matters.

If you think your husband is weak, try to guide him to learn to refuse others. Refusal may not offend people. The key is the way to refuse and the ability to make excuses. Reject what others can do and what you can do. Only by guessing what you can do can you help others, so that others will remember your kindness. People who will refuse can prioritize and become decisive and confident!

As a wife, you can also urge him to refuse others. If you start, he will change slowly!

Some people say that women are all in the same school, and men are all students in this school. The key to the cultivation of men is women. Show motherly care, considerate wife and strict teacher, give him encouragement, give him pressure and confidence, and believe that your husband will change. In addition, even the worst people have advantages. When two people get along, be more considerate and tolerant and pay more attention to his advantages, so that your mood will adjust faster and the relationship between husband and wife will not deteriorate.

The reason why he is weak can be understood in essence as follows: because he has no subjective thoughts and no clear position, he never loves anyone when he does things, which will lead to what you call cowardice, which is what Buddhists call wanting nothing. In fact, such people are more suitable for becoming monks.

Cowardice is the embodiment of life experience. If you want to change it, you can effectively attack it and make it come true, but you must grasp the temperature. Maybe it's not cowardice, but someone depends on it, someone makes a decision, maybe in front of others, for him, he doesn't need his advice at all. On the other hand, when you know that there is an important decision to make, you can choose to leave at the right time and let your husband face it alone, which may have unexpected results.

How should my husband communicate if he is introverted?

Your husband is introverted and has a strong self-esteem. If once, your middle school friends get together and you invite your husband to go with you, he will go with you. However, you are quickly immersed in reminiscing with your old classmates, but you ignore your husband who has been sitting on the cold bench. This makes your husband very angry. On the way home, he always looked calm and ignored you when he got home. You know you did something wrong, but you are also angry that he is so petty. What should I do?

Passive dependence: You will constantly look at your husband's face, speak carefully, try your best to please him, and actively touch him in an attempt to make him happy. In this way, you will feel wronged in your heart and he may not be happy about it.

Domineering: you will treat him with the same indifference; "If you ignore me, I will ignore you!" When you get home, you will have a big fight, saying that you have been ignored by him in similar situations in the past, and you didn't care so much yourself. You shouldn't do this today. After the quarrel, the feelings of both sides will be affected to some extent, and it will take a few days to ease.

Firm and self-confident: On the way home, I realized my husband's emotions, didn't rush to express my position, and carefully thought about what I had done wrong. When I got home, I said to my husband, "You are unhappy. Can you tell me why?" Maybe he will say, "You know." You answered him, "I know a little, because we know each other very well, but if you can express your dissatisfaction, I believe you will feel better." In this case, you have conditions to exchange views with each other. After he has expressed his views, you can tell him that you are sorry for what happened today, because you were too excited to see your old classmate and neglected to take care of him. I hope it won't happen again. However, you don't agree with his attitude. I hope he can be honest in the future and don't give you a hard time.

In this way, the relationship between your husband and wife will be more harmonious because of this frank exchange of views. At the same time, you won't feel wronged or inferior because you always have to be careful in front of your husband. Of course, you won't lose the charm of women because of your rude attitude, alienate your husband or be called a "bitch".