I heard my good friend speak ill of me behind my back.

Not long ago, my best friend complained bitterly to me about something, and I felt that her heart collapsed when she said it. Of course, after listening to this, my heart also collapsed.

My best friend has a sister for many years. Call her Ziyun. Their friendship has lasted for more than ten years from junior high school to now, to getting married and having children. Ziyun's temper is that kind of weak girl, and her best friend is generous and has supported her since she was a child. In junior high school, Ziyun was bullied by a female classmate. Her best friend hit the girl on the head with a schoolbag and pulled Ziyun around and ran away. When Ziyun was cheated by love rat, his best friend stood up and accused his family. However, it is such a sister flower relationship, but my girlfriend found that Ziyun didn't say a good word about her behind her back.

Ziyun and her boss's wife are both fine. The wife is a beautiful and intelligent woman. When my girlfriend was in a meeting, she accidentally met her wife and added WeChat. My girlfriend told Ziyun about it. Ziyun is very nervous about her, saying that you should not really take care of her. She has a bad personality and often cheats after marriage. Be careful that she seduces your husband. She and I are not good at all, but it's a matter of face.

In fact, the development trend of the relationship between the two people is self-evident, just like all our usual customer exchanges, we have not said a word or praised each other for two years. As a result, one day Ziyun made her own idea of reading in a circle of friends in the middle of the night. Before his wife went to bed, they started talking and they got along well. They even regret talking late. They chatted until dawn and found that the books they had read had very similar views on things. Later, she became good friends inexplicably, but she always remembered Ziyun's instructions and didn't take her wife to see her husband.

Then one day, the two of them went to drink, and the wife drank too much. Suddenly, she said to her best friend, "when I first met you, I was very wary of you." I thought you were so beautiful that I was afraid my husband would fall in love with you. " It sounds like a joke, but my girlfriend suddenly feels something is wrong. Why do I feel this sentence is familiar? So she tentatively asked her wife, "Is there such a rumor?" The wife took a sip of wine, pondered for a long time, and finally said to her best friend, "Don't you know?" My girlfriends feel more and more wrong and drunk in a daze. "Actually, someone told me that my husband is afraid of falling in love with you."

They suddenly realized that Ziyun was playing tricks in the middle, and they said the same thing, because apart from their working relationship, Ziyun was their only friend in common. My best friend asked me why. I don't know. What I understand is that there is such a person who is afraid that his friends will be too friendly and ignore himself, so he chooses to make trouble. Of course, she must think it's just a kind of self-protection.

We all know such people, at least I know them. Hello, your face is like a ghost. Turn your head around. You never know what you look like in her mouth. I want to emphasize here that it is more natural for you to speak ill of others and others to speak ill of you than to eat, shit and fart.

If a person is perfect and no one can be picky, then this person is not a person at all. If a person has no one to talk about you and your right and wrong behind his back all his life, then you will fail in this life. Life is not about gossiping or being gossiped by others. Some people say hello, others say you are shit. Some people love you to death, while others hate you and gnash their teeth. This is a normal life.

I think it's terrible to be the kind of person who turns around and scolds you as a dog, and then goes back to let you eat happily and be your sister. Sometimes I can't understand that you hate me so much. No one in the world is dead. Why do you have to force yourself to hang out with me every day and be sisters? I am neither Ma Yun's father nor Tao Huabi's mother. You are too rich to leave me. I am not jenny shimizu's sister Angelina Jolie's sister, so handsome that you love me deeply and silently.

I am an ordinary person. Why don't you let yourself go, have fun and play with someone who annoys you so much? Are you an ascetic, cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's character, and practice endurance? What do you want to do? You torture yourself too much. Everyone should at least be friends. I won't allow you to do this! I love you very much.

When I was a child, I felt that if we were destined to have a friend, at least when we said goodbye, we should make it clear why we should let our friendship go for a while and not go to the end. Now I'm not an adult. If we don't meet happily, silence and drifting away may be the best way to say goodbye.

I wrote a passage before: "My deepest concern for friendship is that even if one day we break up and turn against each other, and you take the whole world out to scold me, I won't tell anyone the secret you just told me with tears and smiles in the middle of the night." When a person tells you something that can ruin his reputation and be laughed at, you must be the closest person. Everything in life is hard to last, and so is friendship sometimes. I will always remember the moment when you gave me your heart and protect it. "

Now I want to add: "Good friend, if one day you are tired of me, I can accept it if you tell me to my face. Although I will be sad if my good friend leaves my own world, I will also review myself." But I still prefer that you choose to be outspoken or silent and distant. As sisters, please don't talk behind your back. You don't know, when I hear people say that you are with me every day and maliciously slander me, at that moment, I will be disappointed in the world. Let's separate coldly and silently and go our separate ways. This is the most appropriate way for adults to say goodbye. "