What does the teacher mean by telling the boys in the class that this girl is pure?

In the real emotional world, it is often easy for you to fall in love with a girl who has a boyfriend. Many people often ask me when they meet a girl with a boyfriend they like: "How to chase a girl with a boyfriend?" I have been asked a lot of times, so I will write a column to tell you about this topic briefly, hoping to help you.

First, a man who asks me how to chase a girl with a boyfriend is often a rookie in the emotional world, because only a rookie will get into this dilemma.

If I like a girl who has a boyfriend, it's none of my business whether she has a boyfriend or not, and it has nothing to do with whether I can attract her to like me and fall in love with me. I have made many girls who have boyfriends like me, and I have slept with some girls who have boyfriends. If I like a girl with a boyfriend, if this girl and her boyfriend are immersed in a beautiful love, I will continue to like her, but I will not seduce her, and I will continue to keep in touch with her. Am I a friend, a colleague, or an affair? At the same time, I will like other girls. I am a caring person. I confess that I will like many women, but I don't think it's shameful. I just face who I really am. I am an open girl, and I never shy away.

Secondly, the attitude of a boyfriend chasing girls comes from my true humanity. I share it with you for reference only, and I don't require everyone to be like me.

A woman is not an accessory of a man, so it doesn't mean that a man falls in love with a woman. That woman belongs to that man, so a woman with a boyfriend is not the private property of a man who falls in love with her. I like that woman, and it has nothing to do with that man attracting her to her.

Women are their own masters. They have the right to choose their feelings, who they want to fall in love with and who they want to sleep with. What I want to do is to make women want to associate with me willingly, want to date me, like me from the heart, and then naturally sleep with me or maintain a certain relationship. As long as what I do is voluntary and enjoyable, I have no moral pressure on it. On the contrary, I make these women with boyfriends happy. Let them feel how lucky and happy they are to meet me. I once met a woman who had a boyfriend. Because of her guilt, she cried in front of me before sleeping with me. If she has, I will think that this is a good girl and deserves to be treated well. I just express my love for her feelings to influence her mood and decision. She can keep in touch with me or have sex with me or sleep with me. Any choice she makes deserves respect and appreciation, but fortunately, even a good girl who is extremely loyal to her boyfriend.

Forgive me for having no sympathy and moral pressure on men I don't know who can't satisfy women's love fantasies (occasionally). I like women who have boyfriends. Women choose to give her to me, choose to associate with me, be willing to date me, and even have physical intimacy or sleep with me for the following reasons:

I am good at attracting women and satisfying women's inner fantasies about love, so even if a woman is a completely conservative girl, she may choose to have an affair with me. This is a woman's choice. Since you like her, of course you have to cooperate. This is what a gentleman should do.

I am good at attracting women and bringing them to women, and that woman is also eager. She probably just wants to be with someone who feels a little. I haven't seen many girls like this, but there should be. I blame the man for choosing the wrong lover.

A woman in love, unfortunately, her lover can't satisfy the love fantasy she needs. Although I am talking about love with a man, my feelings have faded, and the elements of love that women need, such as romance and understanding, are gone. This is a man's incompetence, so a woman in love met me and I gave her a brand-new and different love experience. She chose to be with me. Sorry, I don't know that man, so I'm sorry.

Many silly good women don't understand their love in love. They met a man and gave him both heart and body, but he couldn't give her happiness. Maybe that man doesn't know how to give love to women. Maybe the man didn't make progress and didn't give her a sense of security and a future. Maybe that man is love rat who cheated on women. How can a good gentleman not save an unhappy woman, especially a sentimental but unhappy woman?

You can say that I find excuses to excuse myself, or that I have no moral bottom line. I'm fine. I live, do what I want and do what I think is right. What others say about me is not very important. I am the master of my life. Please continue to scold me. I think I have an ideal speech. I will do this with you and give you some experience on how to attract girls with boyfriends.

Finally, I would like to remind the novice: please calm down and think clearly whether you like the girl with a boyfriend or you don't know more and better women, so there is no way to chase a girl with a boyfriend.

Many people want to go after a girl with a boyfriend because they have no choice, but they don't really like girls. If you do, it's basically hopeless, because you're a vegetable. Of course, the people who have no choice are vegetables, and men who don't even let go of girls who have boyfriends are not only vegetables but also hungry. You said you were poaching, success was accidental, and failure was inevitable.

If after a series of thinking and facing your inner feelings, you decide to go after a girl with a boyfriend, then we will continue this trip.

The psychological construction of chasing a girl with a boyfriend: she has a boyfriend, which is none of your business, and you are not trying to rob her boyfriend.

Please don't focus on the objective fact that she has a boyfriend, because when you focus on the objective fact that this girl has a boyfriend, there will be moral pressure in your heart. Moral pressure is a good thing, which shows that you are kind and simple, but I have discussed it before. If you think it is immoral for you to chase a girl with a boyfriend, then stop chasing her. You want to be an archway. How can it be so good? Men, don't be hypocritical, don't take the initiative. From the moment you decide to chase the girl you like who has a boyfriend, put aside the objective fact that she has a boyfriend, do what you want calmly and get close to the woman you like. Whether that woman has a boyfriend or not really has nothing to do with you.

The basic principle of chasing a girl with a boyfriend: whether she can have an affair with you depends on whether she likes you or not, and has nothing to do with whether she has a boyfriend or not, so please focus on attracting women.

Too many men pay attention to the wrong place and chase a girl with a boyfriend, thinking that they can't start until they break up. The two biggest reasons why women break up with men are that they don't love that man and fall in love with another man, and the most effective way for you to chase girls is to make women fall in love with you and then love you more than their boyfriends, which is ok, and in many cases, there is nothing wrong with two people falling in love, because women have not met anyone better and more suitable for them. You can't control a woman not to love another man, but you can make a woman fall in love with you through hard work, and many times a woman won't break up even if her feelings for her boyfriend are weak, because being with that person has become a habit. With a new man who makes her feel in love, she will end her previous relationship. These are all natural things.

Ways to chase girls with boyfriends:

Know a woman: No matter how you meet, knowing is the first step for you to pursue a girl with a boyfriend.

Maybe that girl is in a social circle with you, such as classmates or colleagues or friends with * * *, and so on. If so, keep this relationship with girls and push forward slowly, and use the details in the process of walking back and forth to have an emotional gradual change for girls. If you are in the same social circle as a girl and her boyfriend, it's ok to know girls and boys, unless you were good friends before, it's ok to know her, and you don't need to stay together in private. Because if you leave a boy to play with him in private, your relationship will become more and more familiar and even become friends (or let others think that you are friends). This is not right. On the one hand, it will make you put moral pressure on him. I believe that you are simple and kind, and you can't do such a dirty and active thing. On the other hand, it will make men feel cheated and betrayed by you. Your girlfriend will be better with strangers or just people you don't know. Few people can accept the friendship between girlfriends and friends. More importantly, it will bring social pressure and moral pressure to women. What do you think of the friendship between a woman and her boyfriend's colleagues or friends? At least you will feel uncomfortable, and you will worry about what you think of women. Men shouldn't put the woman they like in such a difficult situation.

About women who have boyfriends in social circles, it happened to me twice (three times to be exact, once I couldn't tell you, too much). Once in high school, my buddy Tiger's girlfriend dumped him and wanted to be with me. After that, they broke up for a long time before we got together, and it was not public. But because I involved too many heroines, I still made it public. My buddy Tiger was hit hard because he is with girls now. He also asked me to help him chase this girl with me, but the next day he recovered, because I really didn't mean to dig him up, but because the girl liked me when we were playing together, and he didn't even dare to hold hands with that girl himself. You can see the detailed process of this case in my autobiography Diary of a Wolf. Another time, when I was in college, I set up a little girl to fall in love with my buddy Kang. After talking for a week, they held hands and didn't even receive a kiss, but the girl broke the cup while cleaning my bar with me. I gave her a band-aid anxiously, and one night she and her best friend came to my bar for a drink. Her best friend was drunk, so she put a coat on her best friend. It was winter and it was very cold. When I saw her off, I took off the scarf around my neck and put it on her myself. The girl dumped my buddy Kang the next day, wanted to be with me, said what I did to her last night, and said that I was worried about her injury, which made her feel that I liked her and moved her. She said that when I put a scarf on her, she was moved to tears.

Let's not talk about the ending of the above two stories. Anyone who often listens to my boasting knows why. People come and go, forming a social circle, ranging from a few friends who often come and go, to a class and a person. No matter at school or at school, there are always people who are more popular with women, and there are always people who like her more than one woman. Even he has possessed several women at the same time. However, after that, starting from high school, I will let women know this. On the contrary, there are always people chasing after female classmates, but they can't catch up, which has become a joke in the class. There are always people chasing after female colleagues, but they can't catch up. Why?

Because some people are naturally attracted to women, and some people always fail no matter how hard they try, the difference between them comes from many aspects, and the biggest difference is the difference in women's experience and personality, which is influenced by their growth experience and family environment and whether they have been enlightened very early.

My first love was in Grade Two (Grade Three? ), ended in failure, but I was lucky enough to begin to understand after that time that my first love was still around, but I began to change when I was young. At that time, although I had a girlfriend, I was not sensible enough to accept the pursuit of first love. Everyone had better not do such dirty things. I was young and ignorant at that time. In the next few years, I evolved to step on a few boats to let girls know. The woman chose it herself. I'm a good person. But this year, I feel that what I did before is a bit wrong. I can't bully others just because I will attract women, because women like me, so I won't do such a thing in the future.

The experience and personality traits that attract women are too illusory for beginners. I won't go into details here. Everyone will feel something after having more emotional experiences. Briefly, what should I do if I want to pursue a girl with a boyfriend in the same social circle?

If you are on the edge of the social circle, you can't catch up with this girl, which has nothing to do with whether she has a boyfriend or not. Many people have no experience in attracting women, have never been in love, lack self-confidence, and even have no basic image-building and conversation skills. Such people can't catch up with girls who have boyfriends, but it's hard to catch up with single girls who are eager for love. I have seen too many girls who are eager for love.

If you are a marginal person in the social circle, no one remembers you, pays attention to you, listens to you and cares about you. What you need now is to change yourself and become a man who can attract women, instead of chasing a woman with a boyfriend, but I hope your love for that woman with a boyfriend will become your motivation to change and improve yourself. Don't be short-sighted. You have a better chance to shape yourself, and that girl will be you sooner or later.

If you can attract women, or pass the threshold of women's requirements for boyfriends, then talk about skills and methods.

First of all, you should avoid making mistakes.

For example, if your intention to a girl is too obvious, it will make the girl find out your intention and start to avoid you, or let her boyfriend find out your intention and make her stricter with her girlfriend. Both of them will reduce or even eliminate your chances of communicating with girls, because only by interacting with girls will you have a chance to show yourself and attract her. Only by interacting with her will you have the so-called feelings and opportunities.

For example, early confession is especially obvious when chasing girls with boyfriends, because you will be jealous and your emotions will be difficult to be controlled by your brain. Accurately speaking, many rookies are slaves of emotions, and there are simply too many examples of being missed by emotions. On the contrary, you should know how to form a gradual emotional change with girls in the ordinary communication process. Through the deepening of daily communication with girls, women can form different feelings for you by controlling the details. For example, my classmate Shan and I played mahjong privately for the first time, and we had never been in touch before. Then when I went back to school, she asked me to give her Huoxiang Zhengqi water. When I gave it to her, she saw me eating gum and said she wanted it, too. I'm not asking you to imitate me here, but I want to tell you that many small behaviors will affect girls' emotions and make them feel ripples. Of course, I wouldn't say that she likes me because I fed Sam gum. I can feed Sam chewing gum. Her happy acceptance is composed of many factors, such as my personality, Sam's personality, my expression, Sam's emotional state and so on. These many factors make this simple behavior produce an interesting chemical reaction. For another example, Danny was scolded by the math teacher and cried after class. When she was crying in the corridor, I passed by, handed her a tissue (I have a good habit of carrying it with me), and then left. Dany wiped her tears. When she passed my seat in class, she gave me the useless paper towel and said thank you with red eyes. Because of this little thing, our relationship is closer. After a series of communication and getting along, we are together. Another example is the first time I met a female colleague and went to a bar together. The friend asked, "Hai Bing, is this your girlfriend?" I said shyly, "Maybe later." Say that finish, it is waiting for people to laugh, and finally it was really left by my side. There are so many such things that I can't count them. Just give a few examples. The same classmates and colleagues, because in the process of going back and forth, you did some ordinary little things and took care of girls in small details, but it gave them different feelings. These little things make women feel a little different about you from other classmates or colleagues. This is what I call emotional gradual change. Don't underestimate a small matter, don't ignore details. I went to the supermarket with my female colleague, and then went to the botanical garden with her. I just hired my little daughter for an afternoon, and she was forced by her boss. When she got back from the car, she told the girls how considerate I was and told me to stay away from her. This is also an important reason why I try to avoid private contact with female classmates or colleagues in college and work. As long as you develop such behavior habits and personality characteristics, it will be very attractive to associate with girls. Your intuition will make you do the right thing to attract women. A person's attraction to women can't be faked, and it can't be said that it is gone. This is the interesting place in the emotional world, but although I try to avoid private contact with female classmates and colleagues, once I have private contact, some interesting stories appear, which are reflected in my love story, so I won't say much.

Secondly, stay away from novices, especially those who will give you trouble.

Many rookies are looking for girlfriends or chasing girls, hoping to ask others for help, or help introduce them, or help them understand girls' minds, or help them find out the truth, or help opportunities. Here I emphasize again, don't ask others for help. The reason is:

Your friends are often novices. I help many buddies find girlfriends, and even some girls like me. I introduced them to my friends. This is a very simple thing, but I am also deeply hurt by my rookie buddies.

For example, in Thailand, four of our buddies went to the beach one night to drink, chat and sing with Thais at the Beach House of Thailand Hotel. Because I am a foreigner, and I am the only one who is not in their department, which is a bit conspicuous. A little girl took the initiative to make me a drink and sat next to me to chat with me. Although her boyfriend is playing the guitar and singing, it doesn't affect me to seduce her at all. We interact well. I'm serious. I knew that girl had a crush on me, so I asked her out for a private drink. At eleven o'clock in the evening, the girl wanted to come out, but she was afraid of coming out and bumping into her boyfriend (her boyfriend is coming off work soon, and we live in the same building), so she couldn't come out, but I learned my lesson and arranged a party for the second time and invited my buddies. As a result, the girl agreed happily. . . . . . Sai has been saying sorry to me ever since, but he is hard to change. Similarly, once I helped Jason chase a Thai female college student, and we were just two to two. I helped Jason get a kiss from that girl before, and I also got a kiss from another girl. Because I was drinking in a bar with Sai and other colleagues, two Thai girls came to see us. Of course, we left. Then the four of us drank together in a nearby bar. The original plan was to separate them from each other. Sai actually looked at the car parked outside and found it, which upset our plan and let the girl leave early. I was angry and kept saying, "What's the matter?" What happened? Why did you come to us? Why did you come to us? "Similarly, Sai has always said sorry to us, but I know he can't change it, because the world of women in my eyes is different from that in his eyes, and there are some things that she can't see clearly and can't understand.

If you like a girl in a social circle, whether she has a boyfriend or not, don't let people around you know before you attract a woman (unless your feelings or relationship are set in stone, such as kissing, and the girl clearly finds out that she likes you). Many people are gossiping, and the gossip around them will give girls great social pressure, which will lead women to stay away from you before you attract them. If women avoid you,

And the more people you know, the more you will be influenced by them in the process of pursuing girls, and it is often a bad influence, especially when you encounter setbacks in the process of pursuing girls, you will feel humiliated and afraid to meet women. Many men pursue a girl and encounter setbacks. As soon as they are rejected by the girl, they avoid the girl, because they are afraid of seeing each other embarrassed and others mentioning this sad thing. But once you do this, it is impossible for you and the girl. So for various reasons, don't let too many people participate if you don't attract women. Some people will help you, and some people will watch the game with a joking attitude. In short, please remember that chasing girls depends on yourself, especially when chasing girls with boyfriends.

Sometimes you know a girl, but you don't know her boyfriend, which is easier to handle. Let's say you know a girl, but you don't know her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is not with her or doesn't spend much time with her. If so, what you need to do is to give yourself the opportunity to associate and date with her, and in the process of associating or dating with her, attract her and make her feel for you.

Here are a few points, hoping to inspire everyone.

Don't show your feelings for girls too early (here, men like women and want them to be girlfriends, and it is always important to express their feelings for girls).

You shouldn't show your feelings to girls too early. This is the most basic one when chasing girls, but it is even more so when chasing girls with boyfriends. You pursue an adult single girl, and girls have more or less needs or desires for love, so you know her, simply invite her online, and the girls come out to date you alone. During the date, you had a crush on her. You can express your feelings easily. Two single men and women date and feel good about each other. If the degree and way of expressing your feelings for her are acceptable to girls, the relationship between you will naturally get closer and closer with deepening and subsequent development, but when you pursue a good girl with a boyfriend, it will be a little different. Think about it, only when you know a girl can you like her and even confess to her. She is a good girl. How can you ignore the objective fact that you have a boyfriend and know that you have feelings for her? You are reminding her of the fact that she has a boyfriend by expressing your love for her or confessing to her. She needs to choose between you and her boyfriend, but you just met her. How can you be more important than her boyfriend? Why did she choose you?

So what you have to do is to attract girls in the process of interacting with them and then make them like you. At this point, no one is wrong. You like her, you are right, she likes you, and she is right. Of course, her boyfriend is even more wrong. What should I do?

Leave it to the woman in love to choose, but she is by your side and another man is not by her side. How does she choose?

You can use your feelings for women to influence women's emotions and final choices. Women in love often make things and decisions that they can't even think about at ordinary times. Don't laugh, it's you, the girl reading this column.

After a woman likes you, you shouldn't pressure her to make a choice.

Some girls are excellent girls, have good family education, are traditional and conservative, are loyal to their boyfriends, and are kind-hearted. But when I meet such girls, they want to be with me because they like me, but they think they are wrong, so women will enter a very tangled psychological state. My method is:

The girl is right, so am I. I let the girl choose and give her full respect. My usual attitude is to blame me for not meeting you earlier. I didn't ask you to be with me, but now that you are by my side and I hold you, I feel very happy. This is really my true thoughts and feelings. A woman who likes you is certainly willing to be with a man who doesn't put pressure on her and destroy her feelings. Two people like each other. Dating or cuddling in bed is fine, but you know, it's too bad that nothing happens when two people stay for one night. If this happens to you and nothing happens to the girl, it's just that you are too bad. This is the topic of intimate relationship with girls, which is beyond the scope of this column, so I won't elaborate too much.

In this case, you can read my love story:

You should make a girl like you after several dates, instead of you chasing her and she doesn't respond.

Emotional things happen quickly, and it feels good, but what is feeling?

Women's different emotional fluctuations and psychological reactions to you are feelings, whether romantic, touching, happy, warm or understanding. . . . . .

Girls need too many elements of love experience. Just say a few.

You don't need to be reasonable to love someone. If you love someone, you love them. If you have feelings, you have feelings. If you have no feelings, it's no use chasing. But we can make girls feel for you through blind date and some love elements suitable for girls' needs We will skip it here. In short, you should make girls feel for you after several dates or daily contact. First, it will make a woman feel that she really likes you. Meeting you is a wonderful thing, and even makes her feel that it is love at first sight. On the one hand, it helps to satisfy women's love fantasies, and on the other hand, it helps you seize opportunities. Have you ever met a girl who has a boyfriend? The boyfriend found you too close and then stepped in, or the girl decided to break up with you through self-reflection? If you don't seize the opportunity, you will meet it sooner or later, brother. Trust me, and then I'll say you deserve it.

Finally, to sum up, a man who asks how to chase a girl with a boyfriend often can't dig a corner, because I said it at the beginning, so you don't have to worry that my column will teach people how to dig a corner. People who really dig corners don't ask such naive questions at all, such as me, and people who really are ten don't share so much on such topics. He will secretly do dirty work without saying anything, such as you reading this column.

Be careful when digging the foundation in love, and please pay attention to safety during construction.