What should I do when I am told to sell?

In social situations, sometimes you will meet people who grab you, ridicule you and dig at you intentionally or unintentionally. What should you do? I think we should use language as a "protective symbol" to build a defensive dike. People who have the ability to improvise can mobilize their wisdom, turn passivity into initiative, and let the embarrassing situation disappear. "The enemy will block you and the water will drown you." You can choose different coping styles according to different newcomers. If you are sure that the people who come here are malicious and deliberately provocative, you can "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth", which is reasonable and conducive to restraint, that is, respond politely and skillfully to your opponent, tit for tat, and return to the original. Once, when an American journalist was talking with Premier Zhou, he saw an American Parker pen on the table and asked in a slightly sarcastic tone, "Excuse me, Premier, why do you still use our American pen?" Premier Zhou recognized his implication and replied solemnly and humorously: "It's a long story to mention this pen. It was a trophy of a Korean friend's anti-American war, and it was given to me as a gift. I don't accept rewards, so I refuse. My friend said, keep it as a souvenir. I felt very meaningful and accepted this pen from your country. " Hearing this, the reporter looked embarrassed and stunned for a long time. Former British Prime Minister Wilson was just in the middle of his speech when a troublemaker interrupted him loudly: "Shit! Garbage! " Obviously, what he meant was to tell Wilson "Don't talk nonsense". Wilson ignored his intention, only responded with a tolerant smile and said calmly, "Sir, I'm going to talk about this messy question you raised soon." The troublemaker was suddenly speechless. If someone looks at you with a straight eyebrow and slanders you, he says, "You are double-faced, double-faced, and you want to climb on other people's shoulders, but there is no way!" " If you have a clear conscience, you don't have to be furious at all, but you might as well retort sarcastically: "Oh! Is it true?/You don't say. /You don't say. I am all ears. " Then induce the scolding person to go on until the other person can't find anything to say, and then you "ring the golden bell and retreat." In this case, it is obviously better for you to smile at the attacker in a gentle and polite way than to be furious and furious. If the other person is aggressive and overbearing and accuses you of insulting you, and you are sure that the truth is in your hands, you should keep a contemptuous look and a cold smile and let him vent freely, but ignore it. Sometimes silent contempt is worth a thousand words. It should be noted that the use of tit-for-tat tactics aims to give opponents a "general in a stuffy palace" and make them speechless. In crowded situations, there is also a problem of winning the understanding and support of the masses. If you are too mean and cause a fight, it is meaningless. For example, in a speech, someone in the audience shouted, "I don't understand your jokes." The speaker knew that he was in a bad situation and immediately pointed back in public: "Are you a deer with a locked neck?" ! Only deer with locked necks can feel their feet wet on Monday, and only on Saturday! Although the speaker is willing to accept such a rebuttal, he may lose his audience. So a person should have self-control ability and be good at restraining himself. It is immoral to be rude because of irritability, pervert because of indignation, and get carried away because of excitement. If someone hurts you or embarrasses you with too abrupt words, you should be tacitly aware, or play dumb, beat around the bush, evasive, or go with the flow, divert your attention, answer irrelevant questions and say something completely irrelevant to your question. Using this tactful and tortuous method to refute the opponent will certainly achieve strange results. For example, a person has just been promoted to a leadership position, and some people ridicule: "Now you can rise to the top! "You don't have to insist, but you can laugh it off." Really? Are you so accurate? " Use this supercilious social method to make the other party suddenly speechless. On the contrary, if you care too much and talk a lot about it, it will be counterproductive to appear too serious. If someone asks in a half-truths tone, "You won a large bonus, should you get rich?"? "If you answer realistically," Do you want to? Let's do it together. "There is a bit of vigor in the language, and others are embarrassed to ask. Sometimes, you may encounter difficult questions. If you answer them in a humorous way, you will often "save the day" and change your embarrassment. When "mountains and rivers are suspicious and there is no way to go", it becomes "another village", making the embarrassing situation disappear in laughter. As the saying goes, "it is indispensable to prevent people and hurt people." "Practicing improvisational language expression functions, just like learning Shaolin boxing, can only be used to build a defensive dike, and you must not take the initiative to attack or export people. Moreover, we should pay attention to politeness in defense, whether in a "soft" way, an implicit rebuttal or a "hard" way, and we should exercise reasonable restraint in the exact use of words. Once, I saw an old man buying food. He said, "Your food is too old!" " "The vegetable seller immediately retorted," You are still old! " This kind of mouth is unforgiving and not worth imitating. If you think you have a glib tongue and start a "war" everywhere with sharp words, it will certainly be offensive.