My daughter and daughter-in-law are pregnant at the same time, and there is only one chicken left in the house. Why is the mother-in-law doing this so confusing?

With the development of China's economy, Chinese-style marriage has gradually upgraded, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become an indispensable topic in our discussion.

In the past, the father was kind and the son was filial, and the husband was obedient and the wife was obedient. It was said that when a woman got married, she must abide by the three obediences and the four virtues.

But now with the reform and opening up, the thinking of the Chinese people has gradually begun to be affected. The Western equality, freedom, and democracy have gradually become topics we can talk about everywhere.

The improvement of women’s rights has also reduced the persecution of women in marriage. However, because China's economy is developing too fast, the older generation has not kept up with the ideological trends of young people.

It was like turning a corner. The young people used drift, but the old people were left far behind the corner.

Ideological gaps have intensified social conflicts, the most obvious of which is the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The old people relied on experience to survive in that era of war and famine. He believed that his experience was the most important. This is the foundation for the Chinese people to survive during the Anti-Japanese War.

But young people have not experienced that era, and the education they receive is the thinking of the new era. Naturally, young people's three views are based on textbooks and the limelight of today's society.

If the two weak waters can be reconciled, they can turn into good waters and soar upward. If there is no reconciliation, a tsunami will form, overwhelming mountains and seas, and extremely destructive.

Grandma Li is a mother-in-law with very traditional ideas. In that famine era, she relied on her own experience to survive.

So she often teaches her sons and daughters to save money, be thrifty, and be kind. However, she can also have selfish and stingy thoughts.

Speaking of Granny Li, she is still a patriarchal mother.

His son Wang Hai has always been his heartthrob. All the good food and supplies he had since childhood were given to his son, while his daughter only had enough to eat.

My daughter Wang Li is very contented and not picky. She knows that favoring sons over daughters is a bad habit in this 18th-tier small city, and she has accepted this bad habit.

To say that Wang Li accepts it is better to say that she has inherited the idea of ????preferring boys over girls.

Later, Wang Hai and Wang Li both got married, and Wang Li gave birth to a son early in her marriage.

This also made Granny Li very happy and often visited her daughter's house. Sometimes it’s just a chicken, sometimes it’s a few pounds of pork.

Later Wang Hai also married a daughter-in-law, who couldn't bear to see her mother-in-law giving her daughter things every day.

So I often secretly criticize Sang and Huai. On the surface, I am scolding Wang Hai, but in fact, I am scolding Granny Li.

Not long after, Wang Hai’s wife became pregnant.

But what a coincidence, my daughter was also pregnant at this time, and her daughter’s husband’s family did not have a mother-in-law. Wang Li's husband also often goes out to work, and it is inconvenient for her father-in-law to take care of her during pregnancy.

So Wang Li carried her luggage back to her parents' home, but Wang Li never expected that her sister-in-law was also pregnant, which made Wang Li very embarrassed. Normal people, as long as they are discerning, would not go to their parents' house to suffer.

Wang Li wanted to go home, but was held back by her mother. Her brother also persuaded him not to be like his wife. This made Wang Li feel better and stayed. Come down.

But not long after living at home, the whole family was made a fuss by Wang Hai's wife. The first thing I do every morning when I wake up is to curse.

Everyone turned a blind eye and didn't bother to pay attention to her.

Wang Hai’s daughter-in-law became angry again when she saw that everyone ignored him. She thought that her mother-in-law was so kind to her daughter, so she might as well eat all the chickens at home first to save her mother-in-law from giving them all. Her daughter eats it.

The next day, Wang Hai’s daughter-in-law made a fuss about eating chicken. Wang Hai asked his mother to cook it for him, and secretly brought some chicken soup to Wang Li for fear that her daughter-in-law would be angry after seeing it.

After a few days, there was only one chicken left among the 8 at home. This makes Granny Li very anxious.

My daughter-in-law usually eats chicken every day, but my daughter doesn't eat even one.

Grandma Li thought that she would give this chicken to her daughter no matter what.

So I got up in the morning and secretly killed the chicken. But who would have thought that Wang Hai’s wife discovered the clue early in the morning and ran out shouting that she had to let her mother-in-law kill the chicken. Take it out.

Grandma Li was really angry and anxious when she saw this. So he made a decision to stew the chicken, and then secretly asked his son to come to the kitchen and eat the chicken.

Grandma Li thought to herself that eating for her son Wang Hai was also for her husband, so she would have nothing to say.

And it’s easy to explain to her daughter. After all, she didn’t feed her daughter-in-law, and her daughter won’t blame Granny Li. This way, she feels better and saves herself from leaving her own chicken in the belly of outsiders.

After the neighbors learned about this incident, they were very puzzled by Granny Li’s behavior.

My daughter-in-law and daughter were both pregnant, so she killed chickens for her son to eat, but the neighbors did not know the true nature of the matter.

The neighbors’ comments made Granny Li really miserable. Even if others see it as a joke, they may not be able to listen to the explanation, so they can only knock out their teeth and swallow it in their own stomachs.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not been maintained by only one person, but no matter what, it should be a relationship managed by two people working together.

The mother-in-law does not interfere in the lives of her son and daughter-in-law, nor does she defend her son or scold her daughter-in-law.

Daughter-in-law, don’t be cunning and selfish. After all, your mother-in-law is also half your mother.

As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and entering a family is a special fate.

The family has such fierce conflicts, but they are happy for a long time with a compliment from an outsider, and even feel that their own family is not as good as outsiders. Such a daughter-in-law is too ungrateful.

Maybe my mother-in-law is not correct in some aspects, but filial piety has always been inherited in China.

If the mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law as her daughter, and the daughter-in-law treats her mother-in-law as her mother, there is no relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that cannot be resolved.