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During the Chinese New Year, my daughter-in-law made a joke and was arranged by her mother-in-law to cook for five days. What do you think?

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The Chinese New Year is a day for family reunions. In this important and joyful festival, the elderly look forward to returning home to reunite with their children who are far away from home.

And those young people who have not been home for a year are also looking forward to returning to their hometowns during the Spring Festival to celebrate with their parents.

When it comes to returning to your hometown during the New Year, it must be your son, daughter-in-law, and the whole family. Most mothers-in-law smile from ear to ear when they see their daughter-in-law come back, and some have prepared various things in advance. Treat your daughter-in-law with all kinds of delicious food and drinks.

For the mother-in-law's family, it doesn't matter if it's a daughter, even if she doesn't do things well. However, because she is a daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law is always afraid that she will not entertain her well and will be offended.

Therefore, many mothers-in-law treat their daughters-in-law and daughters differently, and this difference is also different. Some mothers-in-law are more partial to their daughters-in-law. After all, it is easy to talk to their daughters about anything.

There are also some mothers-in-law who openly care more about their daughters and treat their daughter-in-law as an outsider. Moreover, they also take it for granted that the daughter-in-law goes to work at her husband's house and their daughter comes back. Blessed.

Actually, the mother-in-law’s idea is really too extreme, and she treats her daughter-in-law differently from her daughter. Of course, when meeting such a mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law can’t say anything, she can only say that she should do her own thing. Things within the family are fine.

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As for what the mother-in-law wants to do, who is good and who is not good, the daughter-in-law has no reason to argue, but then again, if the mother-in-law is really right When your daughter-in-law goes too far, you can't just sit idly by and ignore some things. Simply tolerating some things won't change anything.

Wang Yitian and her husband met at work. They have been working away from home since they got married. They rarely go back to their hometown. Only during the Chinese New Year do they have time to go home to visit their parents.

Since the two have been married for five years, they have returned to her husband’s house every year to celebrate the Spring Festival. Wang Yitian only did not cook at her husband’s house in the first year of marriage. Later, every Spring Festival when she came back, I have to help my mother-in-law cook.

Because her husband and two sisters are already married, they will stay at her parents’ house for a few days during the Chinese New Year. During this period, her mother-in-law will not let her two eldest sisters help with cooking. My mother-in-law cooks all the time while Wang Yitian helps.

For Wang Yitian, she is the daughter-in-law and the head of the family. When her eldest aunts come back, she should entertain them well. Moreover, she is not allowed to cook alone, but only needs to help. My mother-in-law could just do it, she never cared about anything.

Even though she was rarely at home and her eldest sisters often went back to her parents' home, she did not feel that she had no reason not to work because she did not come back often. She understood her responsibilities very well. Since she was married to In this family, no matter what happens in normal times, during the Chinese New Year, we should act like a daughter-in-law.

However, she has done a good job every year. She thought that her mother-in-law could not find any fault, but unexpectedly, her mother-in-law still said in front of her aunts that she did not know how to do things. Help is not enough.

Hearing what her mother-in-law said behind her back, she was not happy in her heart. However, she still pretended not to know and just did whatever she had to do. Her tolerance was also for her husband's sake and she didn't want to make things worse. The New Year celebrations made the whole family unhappy.

I thought that maybe as long as she kept behaving well, her mother-in-law would gradually understand and not say anything else. However, this year during the Spring Festival, she and her husband came back as usual to celebrate the New Year. At that time, none of the aunts and sisters had When they came back, only the couple and their parents-in-law were at home.

Wang Yitian said jokingly: "If the New Year's Eve dinner is more generous, the whole family will have a bumper harvest next year." In fact, in normal people, this is just gossip.

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However, after listening to Wang Yitian’s words, her mother-in-law felt that she was accusing her mother-in-law of not making a New Year’s Eve dinner in disguise. Since New Year’s Eve, her mother-in-law has been making arrangements Wang Yitian cooked alone. Even during this period, when her aunts came back and wanted to help in the kitchen, her mother-in-law stopped them and only let her daughter-in-law cook alone.

Wang Yitian was thinking about celebrating the New Year, so she held back and said nothing. However, it was already the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, and she was still asked to cook alone, and her mother-in-law did not help her, so she took care of everything. For her alone, her mother-in-law arranged to cook for five days just because of a joke she made.

Wang Yitian really didn’t want to endure it anymore, so she reasoned with her mother-in-law that she was not here to serve people, and that just cooking was not a big deal. However, her mother-in-law was the one who ordered her around. , she must not be willing.

No matter how easy it is to talk to someone, there will be times when you are cornered. Your daughter-in-law is married to your family to live, and she is not here to serve others. Why is it that your daughter always goes back to enjoy the blessings, but your daughter-in-law does not? Endless work.

The fact that most daughters-in-law don’t care doesn’t mean they are easy to talk to, they just don’t want to cause trouble. If the mother-in-law is too ungrateful, the daughter-in-law will not always tolerate it.

Wang Yitian and her mother-in-law started to argue, and a series of conflicts would occur. At this time, Wang Yitian's husband was quite sensible. He did not blindly favor his mother, but defended her in front of his family. wife.

The husband also said that what the mother did was wrong, mainly because they were not at home often, and they should not have allowed their daughter-in-law to cook alone and take care of the family's meals during the past few days after returning for the New Year.

Besides, if it is about filial piety, then the daughter-in-law is not the only one who has the obligation to honor her parents. Their siblings should also contribute. The mother obviously protects her own family and treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider. This behavior caused dissatisfaction from his son.

Wang Yitian's husband also told his mother that if her mother never treated her daughter-in-law as a family member, they would have to go to her mother-in-law's house during the Chinese New Year.

No matter how high-minded her mother-in-law is, she doesn’t want her son to stay away from her. Therefore, after being told by her son, she no longer makes things difficult for her daughter-in-law.

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Wang Yitian is not a woman who is easy to talk to. Her mother-in-law surrendered and stopped making things difficult. She just pretended that nothing happened and continued to live in harmony with her parents-in-law. .

Many people say that the Spring Festival is the best festival to see the depth of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But in fact, there are no conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. They are just trivial things and not worth mentioning. If both parties are If we can understand each other, there will be no conflicts.

Especially if the daughter-in-law is not at home often, mother-in-law should not be so harsh on her daughter-in-law during the Chinese New Year. If she comes back to celebrate the New Year, her daughter-in-law will not be able to eat more than a few bowls of food from your family. As an elder, You should be more generous and tolerant of your daughter-in-law, and don't put pressure on your daughter-in-law just because of a joke.

What's more, the daughter-in-law is not bad at all. She takes the initiative to help with cooking every year, and she is not unreasonably lazy. To be honest, my own children are not willing to let them work. I just want other people's daughters to serve my family. Think about it from the perspective of other parents, is what I am doing really right?

Fortunately, the son is wise and knows how to maintain his marriage. If the husband's family does not treat the daughter-in-law well, the son's marriage will definitely be destroyed in the end.

The marriage of children is the happy life that every family longs for. A mother-in-law who treats her daughter-in-law well not only accumulates kindness for herself, but also helps her son maintain his marriage.

Every parent hopes that their children can grow old together with their significant other. So, if parents want to get their wish, they should treat their daughter-in-law well, especially when the daughter-in-law is not often at home. By providing warm hospitality, working less and caring more, the daughter-in-law will repay her parents-in-law in the name of "filial piety".

The Chinese New Year is a festival that everyone is looking forward to. I hope that every family will get together happily, every pair of parents can enjoy family happiness, every man and woman will have their significant other to accompany them, and they will live as a family. New Year is the real New Year.