A 32-year-old leftover woman told the truth: "Why don't women find poor men on blind dates during the Spring Festival?"

There is a colleague in the company who is 32 years old this year. Her family is in a bad situation and looks ordinary, but when talking to her, she often says, "I don't want to marry love, I want to marry a rich man."

In fact, it is not a big problem to marry a rich man. What matters is whether a rich man can value you. Say a very realistic sentence: "women are willing to be the extramarital affairs of rich men, but they are actually interested in each other's money;"

So what do rich people think of marrying you as a wife? You can be average-looking, even better if you are beautiful, but you must have the ability to work and deal with abnormalities, rather than being a vase when you get married. A good relationship must be matched by people with equal abilities, just like you are the king, but you can't fight your way out among many enemies. "

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"The days without money are really too bitter."

Later, that colleague went home for a blind date during the Spring Festival. When she came back, she said to me, "I really don't like each other. He is too poor. "

I asked her why she couldn't be with the poor. Maybe after being together, you will still think that he is very kind to you.

Colleagues said: "What if you are good to me? Sooner or later, we will all quarrel because we have no money.

Our family is in a bad situation and we don't have a house yet. If I find a poor husband, I won't have to suffer all my life. After our child is born, will we even have no money to buy milk powder and send him to school?

Life without money is really too bitter. "

There used to be a saying like this: "It is not a big problem to be poor when you are alone, but not when you are alone, because you will blame each other."

Then, women want to marry into a rich family. In fact, vanity aside, she is too eager to escape her unhappy days by getting married.

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The circle you contact determines who you will meet.

I once saw a short film about Tik Tok. The photographer is a young woman. When she was at home during the Chinese New Year holiday, she only went out shopping and had coffee with her good friends occasionally. When I got home, my mother-in-law had already cooked the meal. She went up and gave her mother-in-law a big hug and kiss. The video reveals that her family is very good, and the floor-to-ceiling windows and spacious living room look particularly conspicuous.

In the comment area, some netizens said, "Marrying a rich husband is like this." But if you are a big fan of the photographer, look at her previous videos, it is not difficult to know that the photographer was already the daughter who lived in the villa before she got married.

This heartfelt fact tells us: what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will be with.

So it is not difficult to understand why celebrity artists always associate with celebrity artists and get married;

Rich women are always with rich boys;

Ordinary employees are often with people in the same company or circle.

The reason is that the circle you contact determines who you will meet.

Life without money is really hard. If you really want to marry a rich man, make yourself rich first, as Fan Bingbing said, "I don't have to marry a rich man, I am a rich man myself."