Life situation: amazing boudoir fun or "respect each other as guests", which do you prefer?

The emperor was very unhappy and asked Zhang Chang, I heard that you paint your wife's eyebrows every morning?

Zhang Chang's back was covered with cold sweat. He calmly replied, I grew up with my wife. I was stubborn and naughty. I once pushed her to the ground and hurt her forehead. When I grow up, my wife's eyebrows are a little less. So, in order to make up for her ignorance when she was a child, I often helped her thrush.

Emperor Xuan Di snorted: Is there nothing else to do?

Zhang Chang replied: There are many things more private than thrush. Emperor Xuandi of Emperor Gaozu smiled: That's true. So, Zhang Chang almost missed the investigation.

This story is recorded in Zhang Hanchang's Biography: At that time, he served as Beijing (equivalent to the current mayor of Beijing), with an open mind and outstanding achievements.

But he likes to help his wife thrush, and even a few times he was late for early morning. Everyone laughed at him as a crazy wife. His political opponents seized on this matter and sued the emperor, saying that he was "frivolous" and did not do a good job as an official, which violated the rules of seniority.

Who knows the emperor listened, casually asked a few words and laughed it off. Therefore, this story is widely circulated among ordinary people, and Zhang Chang has become a model of love.

ZhangChang thrush ranks first among the four ancient legends. So later generations have mentioned it.

Zhu Qingyu, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote to Minister Zhang on the eve of Jinshi, which is also a thrush, but it is very charming and amazing:

Last night, the candles in the bridal chamber were lit all night, waiting for dawn to worship the parents-in-law.

Dressed up beautifully, I asked my husband: Can my eyebrows be painted in different shades?

Vernacular translation:

The red wedding candle in the bridal chamber was very bright last night, and the bride will visit her parents-in-law early in the morning.

After dressing up, she felt uncomfortable and had to gently ask her husband: Are my eyebrows painted correctly?

Why is this poem amazing?

Because in ancient poems, it is very common to describe love, such as Guanju and Jiaxu, which are all famous sentences through the ages.

However, not many people express the deep affection between husband and wife. And the writing is so subtle and gentle, no more, no less. So it's amazing.

Feng Menglong of Ming Dynasty also mentioned the story of Zhang Chang thrush in Awakening the World. He commented: "The love between husband and wife is the foundation of human relations, which is called positive color." Feng Menglong believes that a normal relationship between husband and wife should be like Zhang Chang and his wife: interdependent and loving each other.

Instead of putting on airs with a sullen face as Confucian orthodoxy says, you should put on a gentleman's style.

A wife holds a plate of food high, up to her eyebrows, and lowers her head, even afraid to look her husband in the face. This Confucian orthodoxy is really another kind of "amazing".

Imagine, if it is a two-way brother full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, or Zhu and Zhu Fuzi thrush, is there such a charming and magical thing?

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