What if I don't fit in?

Young man, I can understand your present situation and your inner pain. In terms of age, I should be your elder, so to be honest, it's up to you.

From what you said, you are a person with dual personality, and you are very proud at heart, but you are also very inferior. Failure to make friends is mainly a matter of personality. When I am arrogant, I want to be the protagonist in front of my friends and I am eager to be the core of my friends. Isn't it a little too self-centered to treat friends? However, when I can't be the center, I feel inferior and dare not speak, for fear that others will laugh at you if I make a mistake. So you are both contradictory and painful.

Suggestions;

1, when treating friends, treat friends with a normal heart, neither condescending nor condescending, and treat everyone equally from the heart.

2. Treat your friends sincerely. You must let your friends know who you really are. Don't hide your true thoughts, or people will accuse you of being insincere and alienating you.

3, the ancients said well, wealth is scattered, wealth is scattered. In the process of interacting with friends, arrange money reasonably and don't be too stingy. Don't be afraid to spend money when you are generous. If you are stingy, people will think you are disloyal, so they will alienate you.

4, don't speculate on the other side for more than half a sentence, when interacting with friends. The topic of chatting is very important. If it's a question you don't understand, listen to others carefully and don't pretend to understand. If it is a problem that you know well, you can drink more and communicate with others, but you must be careful not to argue with others. Even if others are wrong, be generous and don't make fun of others.

5, be a person who likes to help others, be broad-minded and don't care too much about everything.

Is that what I gradually realized from your question? For your reference only. I wish you an early exit from the predicament. ...