A letter to my nephew

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A letter to my nephew Fan.

Nephew:

Hello!

It's been more than a week since school started, but after thinking about it after work, I decided to write this letter to you!

Before you were born, your uncle went out to study and later worked. In your childhood memory, your uncle actually didn't spend much time in Yangxin depression or only stayed for a short time at a time (mainly during holidays), and you didn't know much about your uncle when you grew up. Besides, you rarely come to me after graduation from college or even after work. We are not as close as uncle and nephew in the usual sense. But besides your parents, I am your closest relative by blood. We are all family members. Twenty years of work and life experience tells me that as a newly married couple, it is human nature to invite a couple to my uncle's house for the first time. Although you came and went in a hurry, uncle was very happy. You have grown up and will gradually face the society independently and everything in your work and life. I will learn a lot and experience a lot in the future life journey.

Before grandma died, your father and I had little economic contact, and we were both independent in work and life. Every time I go back to my hometown, I always have a drink with your father to catch up. I should say I get along well. But since grandma left, the relationship has become worse and worse, and there are more and more contradictions. I think this must be what people don't want to see. The main reason is money. From the afternoon of grandma's death to the evening, elder sister-in-law, younger sister, your father and uncle discussed the most problems. The first is what kind of specifications should be used to handle the funeral. Second, because grandpa can't make objective decisions, it involves property and economic problems in his hometown. Grandma died because your father came back late, and my uncle took care of the funeral bill at that time. Everyone quickly agreed on the funeral procedure, because the old man's money is more or less in the hands of his aunt, your father and uncle. At that time, everyone's handling opinion was that everyone reported a specific amount with the old people's money, and then discussed the distribution. My elder sister-in-law reported it first, and so did my second aunt. When I got to your father, he thought about it for a long time and then said remember. Your father didn't quote him the amount until later that day. This made it impossible to discuss things, and it broke up for the first time. After that, your father repeatedly asked him to manage the account. I said I don't want to care. As long as the two sisters agreed, I immediately handed it to everyone. Later, your father called me and asked me to divide the check. I didn't agree. I said grandpa is still here, so I can't part. Later, when I came to Dafeng, I told my uncle and aunt about it. My uncle and aunt also expressed their opinions. They said? Grandma has four children, and every family can live with them. Grandma saved so much money before she died. She doesn't trust you, so she might as well share it. How to divide it? It makes no sense not to give the two sisters a penny, but it is impossible to share it equally. Then they put forward a distribution opinion:? Two elder sisters give ten thousand yuan each, and the remaining two brothers share it equally? . Make it clear to me, brothers, let's discuss things, even if your father doesn't want to pay the bill. Don't hurt his feelings, saying that your father has no education, and my work and life are not in charge. Tell me to stand up and let bygones be bygones. Don't worry about it. Then one day, when I was still at school, your father hurried to school. First, he said he should be given this account. I said I did, but now I have to give it to you. This matter cannot be decided by you alone. If the two sisters agree, I have no problem. Later, your father asked for half of the old man's check, but I didn't agree. I said, we should share this legacy, not just two brothers and sisters. From the traditional folk customs, you can not share it with the two sisters, but from the present society, men and women are the same. Legally speaking, four people should be divided equally. I said I asked my uncle and aunt about it, and we divided these checks according to their opinions. Then your father agreed to split up, called his two aunts in the evening, and came to my house the next day to discuss this matter. The next day, after many discussions in my family, your father made a decision to divide the check. At that time, I proposed to keep a small part, because grandpa was still here, and it was convenient to use money urgently. Everyone agreed. I'm still in charge of the account. In the process of burning seven, I also showed my account number to everyone many times, mainly to your father, of course. I take care of the accounts, but I don't use the money directly. Who keeps the money in my account with whom? In this way, grandma's funeral was finally properly handled.

By the end of 20 10, I remember you were at home, and your father and I settled the accounts. Your father proposed to split the remaining checks equally. I've thought about it, so I'll split it, so as not to hurt my feelings. In this way, I still have my two-month salary for my elder sister-in-law to take care of my grandfather (because there is a contradiction, your father knows) and my grandmother's pension book (your father has it). About taking care of my grandfather in the future, your father also raised it at that time? He will take care of everything and will take care of everything in the future. I didn't promise. I said these things are between the two brothers. How can I say that this is your business alone? If I really don't have time, I can ask you or someone else to handle it. I discussed it with your father, and decided that the two brothers will be alone for half a year, and where grandpa's salary will go, starting from 20 1 1 (Spring Festival is February 3). Later, your father said that he did a lot during the funeral and asked me to be his brother and admit his hard work. I didn't know what to do then. I said, just do what you say, and your father is silent. The next morning, I went to Xiaowuzi's shop and asked, Xiaowuzi said? It's normal for the boss to do more work. Now that the boss has spoken, let's do some shopping. Why don't brothers have to calculate wages? . I bought something about 200 yuan to your house, and your father said, I told your nephew that I want your uncle's one yuan? I was really angry at that time, which was an insult to my personality. If I drop a dollar and take something away, he will look ugly, but I didn't argue with your father and didn't do it. Can't I go? I'm going back to Dafeng.

20 1 1 At the end of July, I wanted to ask your father to continue to take care of grandpa because of my busy teaching work in senior three, and then I sent a short message to your father to explain it.

It's165438+129 October, and I suddenly got a call from your father saying that grandpa was in the people's hospital for emergency treatment. I rushed to the hospital at once, and later my elder sister-in-law also visited the hospital. The hospital diagnosed cerebellar hemorrhage, which was in critical condition and needed hospitalization. Later, a friend of mine worked as the vice president (Dean Bai) in the hospital, and asked him for advice on this disease. Dean Bai also said it was really dangerous and needed to be hospitalized. It takes 1 to 2 months or even longer after the cerebrovascular condition is stable. However, on the morning of February 5, 65438, I received a phone call from your father, saying that I was leaving the hospital. I said I can't leave the hospital. Cerebellar hemorrhage is very dangerous and I need to be hospitalized. As a result, I was discharged. You have been in hospital for five days for such a serious illness, and then you will go back. You don't understand, but you should always follow the doctor's advice. This will completely force grandpa to death! I really can't understand what your father thinks! Is there anything we can't discuss? Then you came back a few days later, and you knew it. Grandpa's illness is getting worse every day. He could still eat porridge when he was hospitalized in the People's Hospital, but he couldn't eat it when he came back, because grandpa's nervous system could not control his eating and drinking without effective treatment. At this time, if you are in the people's hospital, you can send food directly to your stomach with intubation, and grandpa can still live. In 65438+February, 65438+February, finally, the old man couldn't bear it, and forced feeding was stuck in the trachea. When she went to the people's hospital for emergency treatment, the nurse read the checklist and said that the indicators in the blood were abnormally low and the patient was seriously malnourished. It is black sesame paste that sucks out the trachea with a straw! After a night of rescue, I still couldn't save grandpa's tenacious life! 13 that morning, when grandpa stopped breathing, his heart was still beating strongly! Grandpa died because of your father's ignorance, ruthlessness and fear of spending money.

13 On that day, your father and I went to Mr. Yang Yuchun to approve books. It's normal to burn for seven days in July 749, but your father didn't agree. He said that if you burn anything, you can roll for seven days, and a week will be over. Yang Yuchun said that as long as a family always burns for seven days out of 49 days, he will ask if your father is at home. He asked for a long time and said that your father was at home. Why didn't he burn for 7749 days? Finally, your father said that he would take my nephew's marriage by surprise, which surprised me. The old man just died this morning, and he wanted to have a wedding. According to the custom of his hometown, it can be done in six or seven days. But in the end, considering that it takes a lot of energy to hold a wedding, I discussed it with my elder sister-in-law, my sister-in-law, your father and me that night. You were there at that time, so I suggest that the account be closed quickly. No wedding, no funeral, no hukou for weddings and funerals, but what did your father say? What do you want, no account, none of your business? It's hard to believe that this is from your father. Arranging grandpa's funeral is no small matter. Do whatever you say. But I consider not letting our neighbors see our brother's jokes (grandma's death made our family lose face in front of our neighbors! ), I was holding it back. Otherwise the funeral will be difficult. At least, please ask your uncle and grandpa to uphold justice. The so-called brothers are even. How could a brother do such a thing? There has never been such a person as your father since ancient times. Then I proposed a second funeral, and your father also objected, saying that there was never a funeral in our village and our farm, because everyone in the funeral village would come to worship God, and the main family would charge 50 yuan for a table. To put it bluntly, your father is still afraid of spending money, but it didn't cost your father a penny, grandpa's money, salary and funeral expenses, etc. Grandpa worked all his life for decades and retired as a bank director. He is also a prominent figure in our small street in ocean centre. He doesn't deserve the respect of the villagers. He doesn't deserve to worship God? In the evening, you were there later, and your father agreed to report the funeral in Henan instead of Hebei. It's another modest joke. How can the villagers let people see your home? The discussion didn't end until the next day, when your father persuaded Ru Rong and your grandfather who supported Zhong, he agreed to provide funeral services in Henan and Hebei. It was almost 1 1 point.

You know a lot of things here or are directly involved, so I won't say much. By the end of the seventh day, your father still hasn't taken out an account. When will he show it to everyone? Unknown.

Although the above is trivial, it is all true. Although what happened in my last life has little to do with you, I just hope that my nephew can look at it objectively, and I sincerely hope that my nephew will be an upright person and handle all kinds of relationships correctly in the future. Here, once again, I wish you a happy wedding and an early birth!

uncle

20 12-2- 14

A letter to my nephew Fan.

Children:

Today is the fourth day after you left! It's raining lightly outside. The first autumn rain since autumn, dripping wet!

Today is the weekend, because I am on duty this week, so I came to school in the rain. My space alone is rarely free and quiet, and at the same time it adds a bit of loneliness. School has been busy for two weeks, and my mood has not calmed down. Today, I finally looked up from my busyness and suddenly felt a little sad, just like the weather at this time of the season!

The autumn rain outside kept beating the leaves outside the window, and my heart was in chaos. I simply picked up my cell phone and called my mother (your grandmother) in the city. The old man's familiar voice came from the opposite side. Your grandmother said that you had arrived at school safely, and the old man's words of relief came from the phone. Old man, I'm glad you made a promise. In retrospect, our brother and sister didn't realize their college dreams. The old man worked hard all his life, and his dream was finally realized by you. However, when the old man said that you were close at hand and would leave for a few days, a childlike attachment made my eyes overflow with tears. I vaguely feel that the old man's heart is sour and tears must be swirling in his eyes. I didn't dare to say more, so I hung up the phone. A kind of worry hidden for many years once again stung my heart!

The past is long! Son, you grew up under your grandmother, and you regard her as your mother. All your spiritual support rests on grandma. Your happy life has become gloomy because of family changes fifteen years ago. For more than ten years, your father has been working outside and will go home for a few days every Spring Festival. Thank you for taking care of your grandparents and grandchildren in the county. I can only do my little to give you warm care.

This is my second letter to you. Three years ago, you were admitted to a key high school with a score of 54 1. I wrote you an affectionate letter with my heart and tears. I look forward to your college career in three years. Today, I finally got my wish and realized my family's college dream!

Son, looking back on the past ten years, I have been miserable! I still remember your lovely and lively appearance, sweet words and lovely face when you were a child. How happy you were then. You are the first child in our family, so everyone regards you as the apple of their eye. Your grandfather is a gentle and kind person who often takes you out to play, which is incomparable to the old man's family happiness. But it didn't last long. Grandpa suddenly fell ill and died two months later.

Our family fell into panic and grief, and then a series of disasters followed, and you became a divorced child. In this way, you will live next to your grandmother. Later, when there was no school in my hometown, my grandmother took you to the county seat to study. During this period, you experienced a lot of things at a young age and saw a lot of darkness in the world. I don't want to say too much on paper, because it is a kind of heartache and a kind of mental torture!

From primary school to middle school, you suffered from inner pain and gradually changed from a lively child to a silent person. Your father is not around you, and I am in the country, so I neglected to care for your heart. It's just a few words on the phone to let you study hard. As for spiritual communication, I didn't communicate with you too much.

When you were in primary school, the whole family was busy with life, and no one cared too much about a child's psychological feelings. At that time, you handed in a lot of blank papers until one day, your aunt went to school to pick you up, and the teacher told you about your recent performance. Your aunt was also scolded by the teacher, saying that she didn't care about her children's study. When I got home, my aunt slapped you angrily. This slap has too many connotations. Only your aunt knows, you won't understand how adults feel at this moment! Later, because grandma can't read, she often makes you cry with homework, and takes grandma's hand to ask her mother at the classmate's house next door.

At that time, our family's life was chaotic, and I just settled down. Your elder sister-in-law also has a sick child, and your father has to go out to work to support his family, so everything at that time can only solve the problem of food and clothing. How can I care about the inner world of a child!

Later, when you went to junior high school, your father got married for the second time, and you snuggled up to your new mother happily, relying on her and enjoying yourself. Later, my mother gave birth to a lovely little brother for you, and the family should be safe and happy. However, something unexpected happened in the sky. Five years later, another blow suddenly came to this family, and Dad's second marriage was shattered again. It wasn't until midnight that dad brought everything home that your young and fragile heart was shocked and longed for again? Maternal love? Lost again, your eyes are full of panic and doubt, and no one will explain why, because you are a child!

All this has left a mark on your heart. That night you sat in front of your grandmother's bed and cried. No one knows why you are crying because you have been silent. This is what your grandmother told me afterwards.

In this way, the five-year-old brother came to your side again, repeating your image of the year, and there was another poor child around grandma. Although my brother is a cheerful boy, what kind of personality will he be shaped into in his later life? I'm afraid his future will change as much as yours!

The days passed day by day. Three years later, you finally got into Shaoyang College in Hunan with a score of 53 1. My family has never been so happy. I also hope that you will study your professional knowledge well during your college years to make yourself more sunny. Remember one sentence:? God is fair. When fate closes a window for you, God opens another door for you. A person's setbacks and experiences are the most precious wealth in his life? ! Your life has just begun. I hope you can shape your image in the future, and the road is at your feet! !

It's still raining outside, and I'm tired. The letter is written here. No draft, no theme. I must live with all my feelings!

Son, when you see this letter full of tears, I don't know what my mood is. However, I still care about your future. I wish your studies will be as prosperous as the sunrise tomorrow!

Worried about your aunt

20 14 September 14 June 5438+00: 34

A letter to my nephew Fan Wensan

Dear nephew:

I haven't seen you for years. You have grown up. But listening to family members complain that their grades are not as good as before.

It doesn't matter, grades are not the most important. The most important thing is self-reliance, health and happiness.

What most people in our generation have experienced, so has my uncle.

Uncle thinks it's best if you can do what you like to do to the extreme in your life; It will also be more or less helpful to society.

Of course, if you can learn the knowledge of the school well, it will be helpful to the difficulties you will face in the future.

But you must remember that self-reliance is the foundation of your life.

These two points are very important for individuals and even for society.

It's like a boxing match. Some people support you, while others don't. You don't have to pay attention to other people's eyes. What you need is to do your best, do your best, and use all possible skills to defeat and defeat your opponent. But this is just a game.

Uncle knows you are the best. When you were a child, when you just learned to walk, there was no elevator in your building. You babbled and climbed several floors.

Health and strength are not enough. In fact, uncle wants you to grow up healthily and happily. People live to be happy, and this kind of life is interesting.

XXX

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