My husband secretly bought a car for my brother-in-law. My wife didn't cry or make trouble, but bought a suite for my brother-in-law. Who is right and who is wrong?

They are both at fault. First, the husband used hundreds of thousands of savings to help his sister buy a car without consulting his wife. On the surface, the wife doesn't cry or make trouble. In fact, she is saving money to buy a house for her brother, with the purpose of revenge. It's really not that a family doesn't enter a house.

0 1, after marriage, husband and wife are * * * the same property, and big money can only be used after discussion. After marriage, all economic income is the same as property. Husband spends hundreds of thousands of savings to buy a car for his sister and has to discuss it with his wife. Buying a car for my sister secretly is more troublesome than confessing to my wife that I was found out. It's better to communicate with your wife. It doesn't cost more than 10 thousand yuan. On the other hand, the wife secretly bought a house for her brother, believing that her husband would be furious. A married man, besides his parents, must consider his wife's feelings when giving large sums of money to his brothers and sisters. Don't forget that he has a family and can't support his sister for life. Brother-in-law is as hateful as sister-in-law Her sister has hands and feet, so she shouldn't rely on her brother to pay for the whole car.

It is true to buy a car for my sister-in-law, but you can't spend all your savings. What's more, my own sister came to the door and asked for money to buy a car. As a brother, I think I can help, but I can't buy her a car for hundreds of dollars. This money is equal to spending it and never looking back. You don't have to pay back, and your wife doesn't want to pay back. This is the same as the woman buying a house for her brother or even giving money as a bride price to marry her sister-in-law. She said it was ugly to borrow, and told me that few men don't mind (except those who are particularly rich). Discuss with your wife that it is still feasible to give a down payment for a car. But if he does, it won't lead to his wife finally taking money to help his brother buy a house, and there won't be so many incidents where everything is discussed. My cousin's husband is controlled by my sister. He bought a house and a car for his sister, and he gave money to his sister when his wife divorced. Finally, the two divorced. Whether helping a younger brother or managing a younger sister, as long as money is involved, it is easy to break up feelings.

03. The wife thinks it is natural for her husband to buy a car for his sister and a house for his brother. However, the husband and wife are really similar in character. The husband secretly bought a car for his sister, and the wife secretly gave money to his brother to buy a house. Both of them were at fault and gave the money out without saying hello. Here, the wife gives money to buy a house and retaliates against her husband's behavior. She thinks it's normal for her husband to pay100000 down payment to her brother. Anyway, I saved the money myself, so I don't need permission to spend it. It was because of his wife's decision that the couple had a big fight and even got divorced. It can be seen from this point that couples with deep feelings may not pass the money barrier in the end. Don't look at the usual love, once the other family needs money, the contradiction will come out. For two people who secretly use their savings, it is fifty boards each. Marry a wife, or choose an only child. Without brothers and sisters, there would be no such thing.