What should I do if a girl says she is sad?

1. Don’t be impatient: When your girlfriend is sad, as a boy, you must not be impatient. When you see your girlfriend sad, you don’t know what to do, and you act very irritable, always in front of your girlfriend. Going around and around, I behave immaturely at all. Girls will be even more sad when they see me behave like this. Seeing girls sad, I have to be calmer and calmer. How can I make my girlfriend happy when I am already confused? . 2. Leave temporarily: The two quarreled, and the boy made his girlfriend sad. The girl seemed very irritable and angry, so she asked the boy to go out. When the boy saw his girlfriend sad and heard her giving an eviction order, he must leave the room temporarily and go out for a walk. Go and let both of you calm down your irritable mood, but don’t go too far. You can wait outside the door to let your girlfriend feel that you care about her and that you still care about her in your heart. Don’t let your girlfriend scold you because you heard her scolding you. I was so angry that I really left. You know, what girls say is usually ironic. 3. Observe carefully: When a woman is sad, she often remains silent, stops being friendly to you, stops cooking, or suddenly becomes lazy. At this time, it means that her girlfriend is sad, but she doesn’t want to tell you yet. You, as a boy, should take some time to comfort your girlfriend and ask her. If your girlfriend is sad, you don't know it, and it will make your girlfriend even more sad. 4. Self-reflection: When your girlfriend is sad, what a boy has to do is to think about whether he said something he shouldn't have said or done something he shouldn't have done in the past few days, which provoked his girlfriend and made her sad. Remember it carefully. , reflect on your speech and behavior, so that you can know the reason when your girlfriend is sad, reflect more on your own mistakes, and don't ask your girlfriend why she is sad. The more you ask, the sadder she will be. 5. Be attentive: When your girlfriend is sad, as a boy, don’t think that you should just be sad. It’s because she is small and she is sad, and it’s not your fault. This is a manifestation of male chauvinism. When your girlfriend is sad, it doesn’t matter whether it is your fault or not. , as her boyfriend, you should care for her carefully and attentively, behave well in front of your girlfriend, don't argue with her, let alone blame her, scold her, be indifferent to her, spend more time with her, so that your girlfriend will I quickly forget about unpleasant and unhappy things. 6. Listen more: Your girlfriend is sad. As a boy, you need to understand the fickleness of girls. Most women are emotional people. They tend to be sentimental and think too much. A boy’s joke may make a girl sad and cry. Girlfriend When they are sad, boys should be more understanding and considerate of girls' psychological emotions. More importantly, they should calm down and listen to their girlfriends' thoughts, let her complain about her sorrows, and help her resolve her dissatisfaction and sadness. Let her be happy as soon as possible, and then you will be happy too. 7. Act cute: When your girlfriend is sad, as a boy, you should not put on airs and think that you are a boy. Face and dignity are important. You cannot bow your head and admit your mistakes. This is a big mistake. You love your girlfriend and you are in love. In front of other people, what kind of hypocrisy should I put down, admit my mistake to my girlfriend, behave like a child in front of my girlfriend, act cute, my girlfriend might burst into tears when she sees my funny behavior. 8. Give gifts: When your girlfriend is sad, as a boy, you should actively use your brain to think of ways to make your girlfriend happy as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will be the one to suffer. If your girlfriend is sad, will you give yourself a good look and give her a good reward? There are many ways to be happy. Prepare a small gift for her, give her a surprise, write a few humorous words to amuse her, and her mood will get better. 9. Solve problems: When your girlfriend is sad, there must be reasons and reasons for being sad. As her boyfriend, if it is not your words and deeds that hurt her and she encounters problems, then you should care more about her and open her up. solve the problems she encounters, and use your sincerity and love to warm her wounded heart. Once you feel your love, she will naturally become happy and strong. What to do when a girl says she is sad 2 1. When a girl tells you that she feels sad at night, you must put away the straight male mentality of wanting to help the girl solve the problem, because the solution is without emotion and warmth, and girls know how to take care of themselves. When replying to a girl, you must not make decisions for the girl but provide emotional comfort. 2. Emotional comfort generally means understanding and feeling sorry for the girl's mood and state at that time, that is, "Seeing you in pain makes me really feel sorry for you."

3. When a girl feels uncomfortable due to some factors such as a cold or her period, and she is still thinking about you when she is feeling so uncomfortable, it means that you are still more important in the girl's heart. If you are in a different place, then in the reply When you are a girl, you can say something like this: "I feel really bad when I see you in pain, and I really want to take your place. Your aunt is really annoying. I want to find my uncle to take care of her." What to do when a girl says she is sad 3 1. Don’t give random advice to girls. Brother, you must remember that many people have problems in this link. Many boys are very depressed. When girls are in a bad mood, they try their best to help girls with ideas and always want to help girls solve problems. But in the end I don’t know why, although I was clearly helping the girl, it made her feel even worse and it was a thankless task. Boys are also very depressed and feel that they have been wronged. Girls’ behavior is really unpredictable. So, brother, do you understand why this is the case? The reason is that you don’t understand what girls want! ?Perhaps you hear girls saying to you, "What should I do?" "How should I solve it?" But what girls really need is to vent their suppressed emotions, and it does not really require you to solve the actual problem. ?And when a girl is looking for you, her thinking will definitely be confused, and she will not think rationally about whether the idea you give her is useful. What girls think about is that you are still so calm when you are in a bad mood, which means you don’t care about her at all. Your indifferent attitude seems to her to be callous and unreliable. If you do this, you will definitely be scolded by girls and treated as a punching bag. Therefore, when a girl complains to you, you must not act like a dog-headed military counselor. If you really want to help her, you must first stabilize her mood so that the girl can think about the problem in a relatively calm state. So what exactly should be done? 2. Learn to understand girls. First of all, you must be a serious listener and then express sympathy and understanding for her experience. For example: When a girl gets into a dispute with a colleague and feels wronged, then you scold the person who provoked her, stand on the same side with her, and express your anger. For example: Girl: I’m so annoyed, I have such bad luck today. Man: What’s wrong? Woman: When the car was reversing, the girl scratched the car. After the girl told you the cause and effect, you should not continue to ask about this matter. You can say to the girl: "You didn't demolish the garage..." Female : I hate it, how can I be so exaggerated? Man: Oh, that means your reversing skills are not bad at all. Girl: Haha, you are too bad. Will it make the girl feel much better if you say this?