How do girls get along?

How do girls get along? It is said that the same sex repels each other and the opposite sex attracts each other. Girls are often sensitive and easy to get along with. However, it is not difficult to be friends. Skills should be paid attention to in interpersonal communication. So how do girls get along?

How do girls get along? 1 1, sincere and open, not pretentious, not vain, not artificial, know how to show your true self in all directions.

Sincerity and frankness are the basis of getting along. You can have your own opinions and opinions and have your own personality charm. Some things can be left unsaid, but you must never lie to cater to each other and agree with each other's words and deeds against your will. Once the other person discovers the falsehood under your lies, getting along is not only as simple as feeling embarrassed, but will affect your normal getting along.

2. Establish communication methods suitable for each other, and be willing to spend time and energy in the process of getting along.

When women get along, they can often find common topics of interest from their hobbies. In this way, you can find the familiar taste you like in each other. So as to draw closer to each other. For example, everyone likes to travel, read books, arrange flowers and enjoy tea ... In these things that everyone likes to do, you can establish your own communication style well. Produce more interesting things in contact, and let you enjoy this happy time together.

3. Create a comfortable and warm atmosphere, know how to be tolerant and modest, and don't care about trivial matters.

Women are jealous, and sometimes vanity will bring trouble. It is easy for each other to haggle over some things. This is unacceptable. Otherwise, no matter how good the relationship is, it will also cause dissatisfaction because of the excessive concern of the other party. So you need to tolerate each other as much as possible, admit each other's differences and allow her to have different ideas and words and deeds. Only by being more tolerant of each other can we get along without feeling tired or hard, and we will be willing to get along more.

4. Express your dissatisfaction with each other directly, and don't put snipers behind your back to speak ill of each other.

Everyone is their own independent personality, and there will be places where they can't accept each other's words and deeds. At this time, you can sit down and talk openly with each other. Never gossip or speak ill of each other behind their backs. Even shot in the back. You know, anything happens, there will be corresponding results. So fire can't be wrapped in paper, it is easy to spread to the other person's ears, and what you do will always hurt yourself. She's not dating you anymore.

5, will not betray each other because of their own self-interest, nor will they hurt each other regardless of interests.

People are selfish, especially things related to their own interests. Damage is often irreversible. And this kind of injury may be a trivial matter for you, so small that you think it can be ignored. But in fact, this is just your own feelings, opinions and opinions. And you can't understand how the other person feels when he is hurt. What's more, women are sensitive, delicate and fragile, and their personal endurance is different. Maybe your misconduct is a fatal blow to her.

How do girls get along? First of all, don't be jealous.

Friends who have seen the harem know that so many emperors' daughters-in-law are often jealous and intrigued. In fact, in the final analysis, it is all caused by jealousy. Whether in ancient or modern times, people generally have an idea that they can't hide the people around them. They always think that this person around them, you see, is just a coward. Why does she drive a Mercedes? Look at that man. He is uglier than me.

For an extreme example, if one day your best friend becomes a lady, would you especially like your best friend to go out and give up the car XXX, and then hope that XXX will grow on her face, and she would like to have your best friend XX? Of course, I gave an extreme example.

Let's not sit in the right place. What I want to say is, don't be jealous, because that's your best friend. You should bless her. After all, she used to be a good sister. Only open-minded girls can have bright sunshine, while narrow-minded girls will only get endless complaints and eventually become disgruntled women that everyone hides.

Then, don't offend people with your mouth.

Because girls are generally sensitive and usually don't talk much, many things will be remembered clearly, especially those who say bad things about me, that my hair is messy and that I am too short. If these things hurt my self-esteem, they will probably remember them for a lifetime. Therefore, girls usually get along, except joking, and must not hurt anyone's self-esteem.

Don't just speak ill of each other in front of you, especially behind your back. If you often say that a girl is grumpy and looks weird behind her back, if this girl knows, the girl with weak personality may suffer from humiliation, inferiority complex and even severe depression. If she happens to be a fierce girl, she will want to kill you. Therefore, girls should think twice when talking to each other.

Then, keep your promise and be generous.

No matter what others say, we must first keep our word, or at least have a clear conscience, because a man who keeps his word is liked by not only girls but also boys, so don't learn from other girls' bad habits and stick to yourself.

Pay attention to generosity, just don't lose your temper casually. If the other person is unreasonable and ignores her, you will be as noisy as her, and you will lose your identity. If the other person is really stupid and cruel, let the teacher come and deal with it first, and don't do it yourself, because the most important thing for girls is to save face. If you are disfigured, what can you do, right? Ha ha.

How do girls get along? 1. Don't despise each other, but praise them moderately.

It is not surprising that women usually regard sex as a natural enemy. Just like a joke says: two pairs of men and women walk face to face, the man looks at the woman and the woman looks at the woman. Women generally don't regard men as opponents, which is of course related to the traditional consciousness that "good men don't fight with women". More importantly, women are born with some kind of inferiority complex. Therefore, the enemy of a woman is only a woman in the end. Women are stingy with their own praise, and women despise their own kind.

It is not easy for women to get along with each other. ? A Yuan is an accomplished female journalist. Her articles always focus on women's lives. She has an incomparable advantage: no matter who she interviews, she can quickly integrate into it. Especially a woman, she can quickly get you into the role and answer the questions she wants to interview. Colleagues asked what the secret was, and Yuan answered:

"It's easy, as long as you sincerely praise her' the color of your lipstick is really beautiful today' and' this dress really suits you', that's enough!" Indeed, women like to be noticed. If you want to win a woman's favor, you should give her a moderate compliment, let her know that you are an unguarded person and that you really treat her as a friend and will not be jealous of her.

Second, don't be overbearing and be easy-going.

Everyone hates posers. Instead of being a narcissistic princess, it is better to talk to people calmly and be an understanding Cinderella. Women, in particular, don't like to rely on their appearance. In contrast, they are more willing to accept women who are casual, gentle and as gentle and ordinary as themselves.

Jing is the school flower, with a high neck and an independent rooster. The girls envy her, but at the same time they all isolate her, don't talk to her, and don't make friends with her. Quiet all day, alone. Although boys admire her very much, they think she is too arrogant and inaccessible, while girls speak ill of her behind her back. In the end, the teacher had no choice but to make a decision against her: she was not recommended to go to graduate school.

Third, don't be impetuous and frivolous, but have the determination to stick to it.

A good woman is a school, and knowing a steady and eclectic woman is equivalent to entering a good school. Incredibly, a woman who laughs and slaps when she meets and knows herself well will care about what she cares about. It is unthinkable for a frivolous and romantic woman to take you. Friendship is the most important. A dignified woman is a symbol, she will never be looked down upon, and she will always be remembered.

On the contrary, a wandering woman is like a dissolute woman, and her wisdom is far from her. Beauty can't last long, and even kindness becomes careless and lacks the power it deserves. Lotus root is Bo's close friend. Lotus root is "single-minded" and Bo "swings with the wind". When Bo's father died, the lotus came, and the sorrow was not under the wave. Apart from admiration, everyone is sincere, loyal and friendly to each other. Portos and I are just casual acquaintances.