A joke told by a mother to her child.

Some parents shared a story: a depressed girl was visiting again and saw the girl reading a book. The doctor immediately praised her: "The child is really working hard."

Originally, praise is definitely good for sick children. I didn't expect my mother to respond casually: "study hard? Fake works! " The doctor was at a loss because of his mother.

The doctors tried their best to heal the pain in the child's heart, but the parents easily tied the child up with a bunch of words.

Psychologist fairbairn said: When children are abused by their parents, they tend to think that they are bad, so as to maintain their parents' good intentions.

Parents beating their children will only make them feel that they don't deserve to be better and loved.

In the program "Please Answer the Teacher", the mother of 7-year-old boy Zou Xiao is always strict with him. Mother and son did their homework together, and they didn't spell any pinyin. Mom immediately became angry: "What's wrong with such a basic thing?" After dinner, I didn't finish my homework, but I had to write it. Zou Xiao wiped her tears with injustice, and her mother was immediately unhappy: "I cried all day, so go alone." "The father of the child also said: Mom criticizes the child every day and never encourages it. Children spend half their energy looking at their faces and can't learn at all.

If you scold a child, he will not love you, but he will not love himself. Children can't distinguish between facts and jokes. They will believe what their parents say about themselves and turn it into their own ideas.

Parents always belittle their children, not only making them feel inferior; Those hurtful words will be the first. Cutting children's confidence and courage may make it difficult for children to make great achievements in their lives.

Talking well is a compulsory course in our life and a good medicine to maintain parent-child relationship.