50 years ago, a female educated youth who angrily married a farmer because of a joke, how did she go later?

I believe everyone has their own views on marriage. Friends who have experienced it naturally have deeper feelings, while young friends who have not experienced it also have their own dreams. As Montaigne said, people inside and outside see very different things. But in any case, the marriage event must not be taken lightly. After all, it is a lifelong event, so you should think twice before you act.

Nowadays, many young people will choose "flash marriage", and most of them end in "flash marriage". If you don't fully understand each other, you impulsively choose to get married, you play with marriage, and eventually marriage will play with you. In the last century, a female educated youth married a local farmer in anger because of joking, which ended in tragedy.

As early as 1955, in order to alleviate the problem of urban employment, some young people in Beijing took the initiative to put forward the idea of going to the frontier to open up wasteland, which later triggered the upsurge of going to the countryside. It was also strongly supported by Chairman Mao that the educated youth in the city went to the countryside or the frontier to reclaim land and receive re-education from poor and middle peasants. The hero we are going to introduce today just happened to catch up with the upsurge of going to the countryside.

Bai Qixian, male, 1943, from Hebei, China. Her family conditions are not bad, and her personality is cheerful and generous. Her academic performance has been good and she was successfully admitted to Hebei Normal University. At that time, there were relatively few college students, so it should not be difficult to find a job after graduation. However, as far as the general environment at that time was concerned, educated young people generally had to go to the countryside for several years. Bai Qixian thought that he could continue to find a suitable job after returning to the city. 1968, Bai Qixian went to the countryside with his classmates and came to Xiangguozhuang, Cangzhou to "jump the queue".

It stands to reason that it is still difficult for college students who are used to living in the city to adapt to rural life, and their daily life is very different, let alone working in the fields. However, Bai Qixian, who has always been cheerful and generous, seems to be an exception and soon became acquainted with local farmers. She didn't look down on these people because she was a city dweller or a college student. Therefore, during the time when she went to the countryside to jump the queue, she was still quite satisfied. On the other hand, the residents of Xiangguozhuang also like this natural and graceful city girl, and they are reluctant to let them leave after getting along for a long time.

Time flies, it's almost time for Bai Qixian and them to return to the city. Some villagers want her to stay, but they are too embarrassed to say it directly. In a chat, the villagers asked her if she would marry a farmer like them. Bai Qixian has never abandoned them since the first day he came here. Now she is at a loss by such questions. Then they went on to say that Bi Zhenyuan, who works as a clerk in the village brigade, has been single, so I'd better marry him.

Suddenly being said this, Bai Qixian did not miss each other deeply. It was just a joke, maybe a little straightforward. In a rage, Bai Qixian immediately accepted the marriage. Maybe she said yes and went back on her word, but with the input of so many people, it really became a fact.

How about this Bi Zhenyuan? At least he has a job in the brigade and should not be single. It turned out that because he was rather dull and didn't talk much on weekdays, he never got married. This year, Bai Qixian was 27 years old. She didn't expect to live in Xiangguozhuang all her life. But there is not a word. Although she once thought about going back on her word, she decided to live a good life here.

However, Bai Qixian's parents in the city don't understand why her daughter did this. Isn't this a hell on earth? Father was so angry that he even forbade her to enter the house again. Her parents' worries are justified. Bi Zhenyuan picked up a female educated youth as a daughter-in-law in vain and was naturally happy. This is simply a "sister Lin" who fell from the sky. However, the good days of the two did not last long, and various problems were ushered in.

Bi Zhenyuan liked Bai Qixian at first. After all, college students are willing to marry themselves and should be treated well. But after a long time, due to cultural differences, the two gradually failed to communicate. In the face of Bai Qixian, Bi Zhenyuan gradually became more inferior, even became angry from embarrassment, and often had domestic violence, so as to alleviate his inner imbalance. Bai Qixian did not expect that she insisted on living here, but she got such a result. And those villagers who coaxed her into getting married now actually ridicule Bai Qixian in turn.

However, even if life treats her like this, Bai Qixian still hasn't thought about giving up for the sake of her children. But sometimes God is unfair. 1982, Bai Qixian, who was under forty years old, died of gas poisoning, thus ending his own life. Therefore, marriage is the most important thing, and we must not be impulsive.