My husband encouraged me to have an affair. What should I do?

You said you were going to find another man. Maybe your husband took it as a joke, so he answered it as a joke.

In other words, if you want to find another man is an impulse rather than a joke, the problem will be slightly bigger. What's more, if we turn the search object into an established fact, things will be really big.

Some men don't release their feelings in a fiery way, but in fact, a dull life lasts for a long time.

Don't think about cheating, it hurts more. In other words, what should happen will happen, but when it doesn't happen, thinking about these things is asking for trouble.