Someone who can stand the scene outside.

Someone who can stand the scene outside.

People who can survive the scene and achieve great things will often not give in. Temporary difficulties are really nothing. The first thing they will do when they encounter something is to try to control the situation and stabilize the overall situation. Let's see who can survive at the scene.

Go out to support the scene 1 calm down when things go wrong.

Most women are relatively calm, and the advantages of successful women in men's eyes will be more prominent. Even if they encounter career difficulties or emotional setbacks, successful women will still be calm and unhurried, and be good at turning setbacks into the driving force for career success, at least not as depressed as most men. They are well-behaved, polite and ambitious, but they will certainly handle it properly and let men accept it calmly.

Do things resolutely and decisively.

At the beginning of work, many people are afraid of doing something wrong or bad, but they are timid, unwilling to take on things and afraid to express their opinions at will. When they encounter what they have to do, they will hesitate or rely too much on other people's opinions. This life is destined to be cold.

Don't complain at work.

Everyone will encounter bottlenecks at work, and it is normal to encounter problems at work. However, if you want to be an excellent professional, you will be eliminated from the workplace if you just complain when you encounter unsatisfactory things and unequal treatment. If there is a problem, we must find a solution.

When work encounters bottlenecks or setbacks, women are used to expressing all kinds of complaints and troubles to friends or colleagues in private, and finally everyone may know about your failures and setbacks. As a female executive, don't expect others to solve your troubles. You should try to find other ways to balance your emotions and relieve stress, and don't let the complaints in the company become the burden of your work.

Take your work seriously.

Small mistakes are thousands of miles away. No matter what you do, you should pay attention to details and details. Only by doing small things thoroughly can we gain a firm foothold and move step by step. Men are often informal in their work, but often in their work, details will determine success or failure.

Women are meticulous and thoughtful, and they can pay attention to details in their work. They are unique, meticulous and sensitive, and it is easier to find key points or problems. Moreover, women's observation ability will be more detailed. As long as they are a little careful, they can see what men will ignore.

People who can go out and keep up appearances 2 People who can carry things don't give up easily.

As the ancients said, the green hills are there, and there is no need to burn firewood.

People who can carry things often don't give in when they encounter major events. The first thing they have to do is to find ways to control the situation and stabilize the overall situation.

As long as they have a chance to start over, it doesn't matter if they fail temporarily. They don't care about the immediate gains and losses, they know that the last laugh is the real smile.

In fact, it is a fact that we will encounter many setbacks and failures in this life. If these failures and setbacks are temporary, then you really don't need to be serious, let alone waste your limited time on self-pity.

Temporary difficulties are really nothing. Only when you get through them will there be miracles.

In this life, there are too many regrets, some are destined to be regrets, but some have changed because of your attitude.

If you give up when something big happens, how can there be a later result?

It is not easy to live, but since you are alive, you should overcome this difficulty, instead of blindly escaping and thinking that you can't.

Otherwise, the end result is shooting yourself in the foot, it's too late.

He who can carry things can bear hardships.

On the one-way street of life, if you give up growth, then the world will give up on you. If you can't stand the pain, it will only make your life more painful.

Look at the people who have achieved great things. They are all people who can bear hardships. They will choose to wait for the opportunity silently.

I believe everyone knows the story of Zhuge Liang in The Romance of the Three Kingdoms.

He is a child prodigy, so he could have made great achievements long ago. Why not wait for Liu Bei?

This is mainly because he knows that Liu Bei can make himself realize his own value and let himself laugh to the end, even if the waiting process is bitter, it is worth it.

Liu Bei invited Zhuge Liang out of the thatched cottage, so the three pillars stood together. Without Zhuge Liang's assistance, Liu Bei could not have achieved such results.

By the same token, Zhuge Liang could not have achieved so much without Liu Bei, a wise master.

Zhuge Liang is a man who does great things, so he doesn't look at people in front of Liu Bei because he can't help himself realize his value.

The process of meeting Liu Bei is bitter for Zhuge Liang, but it is also worthwhile. Only by enduring this kind of bitterness can there be later sweetness.

Life is very difficult, and the difficulties are rising again and again, just like the waves in the sea, which will never end once.

When you think you can, it will give you another blow and get you into trouble, but as long as you hold on, you will win.

Objectively speaking, many things in life are really difficult. If you can persist and have a positive attitude, as Miyazaki Hayao once said in My Neighbor Totoro:

"After hard work, I realized that there are many things. If I insist, I will come. "

In fact, it is. Hold on, and your own value will be realized. I'm afraid you don't want to insist, and you can't insist on anything big. If so, how can life be wonderful?

He who can carry things will not run away when things happen.

In fact, in addition to the above two characteristics, people who can move things have another characteristic, that is, "never escape."

Luo Yonghao, as we all know, signed hundreds of millions of debts because the enterprise he founded went bankrupt. If it was someone else, it would have collapsed.

But Luo Yonghao didn't escape. Although he was suggested to run abroad to avoid debts at that time, he resolutely refused. He felt that escaping could not solve the problem, and only an accident could solve the final problem.

In this way, Luo Yonghao has almost paid off hundreds of millions of debts by her own perseverance.

As mentioned earlier, in Qian Qian's life, we will encounter thousands of things. If you choose to avoid something that seems insurmountable, you will never succeed in the future.

Only if you are willing to face it and don't run away from it can you find a solution to this problem.

Take Luo Yonghao as an example. If he had chosen to run away after the collapse of the enterprise, there would have been many accusations besides being hunted down.

However, he finally chose not to escape. It is precisely because of this responsibility that he has done a good job in the live broadcast industry and often participates in some variety shows.

To tell the truth, although some things seem big, difficult to solve and even make you feel desperate, if you face them squarely and don't escape, these things will gradually become "good things".

To be a man, you must be tenacious and be able to handle things. Only in this way can you taste the sweetness of success and become the envy of everyone.

A person who can really carry things can often succeed. I hope the above three qualities can be found in you.

People who can go out to support the scene 3. People who can carry big things.

Hardworking ability: Hardworking first, but never complaining, very quiet.

He who suffers hardships is a master. Suffering is actually to help you, not to hurt you. For example, you opened a fruit shop, but it closed down in a few months because of bad business. Although you lost money, you gained experience. When you open a shop again, you will surely succeed.

The less a person is afraid of suffering, the more suffering will bypass him; The more a person fears suffering, the more suffering will haunt him. Suffering is also bullying the weak. When you understand this truth, you will have the courage to overcome suffering, instead of "blaming others" in suffering. When you complain, others will only laugh at you and won't help you.

Those who can really carry things, keep the pain in their hearts, step on their feet and never let it weigh on their heads. Looking back at the road you have traveled, it must be a very painful road, which really makes you remember. For example, once you went to a place, you got lost and walked for a long time, but you couldn't find your way. Then you remembered, you were worried. After a few years, you understand more and more that the pain will turn into a beautiful memory, which is not worth complaining about at all. It is better to keep quiet and quiet than to complain and cry.

Ability to control the situation: The more chaotic the situation, the more sober and rational you are.

If you look carefully, you will find that there are always some people in this society who can become the leaders in controlling a certain field. His words are very convincing and his actions are admirable. Such people stand out from the crowd wherever they go. You must want to be such a person.

Someone called names in our office the afternoon before yesterday. At work, seven or eight colleagues went to the office to persuade the swearing people to leave and not to disturb everyone's work. However, the more people the swearing person sees, the more vigorously he scolds. Just when everyone was at a loss, Deputy Manager Liu of the Personnel Department came over. Deputy manager Liu sat with the abusive person and handed him a cigarette. They chatted while smoking.

It turns out that people who swear are "dissatisfied" because they are unemployed, and they run into a wall everywhere when looking for a job. After more than ten minutes, Deputy Manager Liu and the swearing people walked out of the unit together, and the trouble was solved smoothly.

I found that people who can control the situation must be clear-headed, and they can keep their heads clear no matter how difficult things they encounter, instead of "being flustered." The social situation needs to be treated calmly; You also need to be calm about your life development. To control the situation of life is to control your destiny and win.

Emotional management ability: when you are desperate, don't let negative emotions spread.

Some people say, "Complaining is a disease." Suppose this sentence is correct. If you have a heart attack, complaining every time is dangerous and life-threatening. It's terrible to think of it. Complaining is a heart disease. Complaining for a minute won't make you happy all day.

People who can carry things can also carry their own temper and bad mood. When you want to get angry, try to calm down for three minutes. When we were young, our parents told us that if we couldn't sleep, we would count the sheep one by one and then fall asleep. Counting sheep is one of the ways to keep calm.

People who can do things have a kind of positive energy, which can suppress all negative energy at home. For example, when he opened the WeChat circle of friends, he saw many people complaining that it was difficult to find a job and earn money, and there were too many people who were intrigued and indifferent ..... Instead of being infected by such negative energy, he thought that he had a job and a salary, which was already very good. Compared with those who complain, he is really lucky. The same thing, if you think about it from another angle, the ending will be very different.

The counterattack of life actually begins with the change of mentality. You live with negative energy every day and are doomed to accomplish nothing. Your life is full of sunshine, even if you stand beside the garbage dump, you will find recyclable garbage in the garbage dump, which shines like gold.

Ability to make plans: prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

Many people, when planning their lives, are bent on success, only the direction of progress is rushing forward, and there is no retreat. Once the plan doesn't work, there is no way out The farther you go, the more confused you are. For example, a college student wants to be a manager in a big enterprise, but he doesn't realize that he is incompetent and has too little experience. Finally, he couldn't find a job.

People who can really carry things can always advance and retreat freely. Further, I hope to take a step back and I won't be disappointed. Starting over is a big deal. There are "two schemes" for everything, and there are ways to deal with success or failure. If you fail, you will not panic, and if you succeed, you will not be complacent.

As the saying goes: "One thing, prepare with both hands." Make a good or bad plan, target, work hard, and success or failure are all expected. Only by holding on to failure can a person succeed, and with the courage to overcome and fight again and again, can he be in an invincible position.