Help! I am a teacher and our principal always drives my car and doesn’t want to get out of the way. What should I do?

You are a teacher. Your principal always drives your car, but you don’t want him to. Because he is the principal and has a thick skin, I can't bear to let him be happy, but I'm afraid of offending him if I don't allow him to be happy. This problem is really difficult to solve. However, if you really think about it, there are ways.

First, as the saying goes, tigers don’t eat indiscriminately and snakes don’t bite indiscriminately. You have to seriously think about why the principal doesn't drive someone else's car but yours. Did you give him a request to help you? Or does he think you owe him something? Is your car too beautiful? Or is the principal himself a shameless person... Only by thinking clearly about these issues can we take the right medicine.

Second, if the principal has a low character and you ask him for something, he will find ways to take advantage of you. If you think this is the reason, in order to prevent him from driving your car and causing you trouble, you can clearly tell him that the things you asked him to do have been entrusted to others. Usually, he will learn to stop driving your car.

Third, if you have a personal relationship with him and owe him a favor, he is relatively hopeless, so he always wants to drive your car. If you think this is the reason, you can give him a more expensive gift and go see him seriously. Make him a little embarrassed, and in turn make him owe you a favor. No matter how stupid the principal is, he will appreciate it and stop driving your car.

Fourth, if your car is relatively high-end and the principal is a ostentatious person, he will drive your car to decorate the appearance. You can lie and claim that the car was bought by your father-in-law (or brother-in-law, eldest brother...). He found you recently and said that he saw other people driving this car several times. When I bought it, I told you to take care of it and not lend it to anyone else. Recently, he was very angry when he saw other people driving this car. He said he would take it back if I lent it to others again and wouldn't let me drive it. Speaking of which, no matter how thick-skinned the principal is, he will never drive your car again.

Five, either park the car at home for a while and do not drive to school. When asked, he said there was something wrong with the car and he sent it to a repair shop. When you open it again after a while, park it where the principal cannot easily see it, or simply park it outside the school. In this way, even if the principal finds out, he will think that you are avoiding him intentionally and don't want him to drive your car. He also got the idea.

Six, you can make him look ugly several times with a smile. For example, if you ask him the next day after he drove it, did the car get scratched? He definitely said no, and didn't go into details. He just said it didn't matter. I had already touched up the paint yesterday.

Or ask him, did you go far away yesterday? As a result, my car didn't go to the gas station. I had to get some gas from the rental car before I drove over and filled up a tank of gas.

If you embarrass him three or two times in this way, he will naturally stop driving your car.

Generally speaking, you should develop the habit of not tampering with other people's things, not owe others favors, and not associate with people who take advantage of you and are thick-skinned. My own car is rarely touched by others. Even if he wants to move, it's easier to refuse. Even if he is the principal.

If you encounter an unqualified principal, you can’t do anything about it as a teacher. You can’t borrow a car to cause an accident. All the pledges are yours, but you can’t borrow them. In your place, such a person can be a principal. What should I do? , report to the Education Bureau and fire the principal. Such a person cannot be a principal.

You can leave the car at home for a while and then say there is something wrong with the car.

If the principal drives your car and an accident occurs, you are also legally responsible. This is the point.

You are a teacher, and the principal wants to drive your car. I’m afraid it’s not good if you don’t let him drive it.

1. Encourage the principal to buy a car. Since the principal can drive, why not buy one himself? Maybe the principal has already bought a car, and the original new car has become an old car. In addition, the car is not a famous brand, so it is not that easy to drive. The principal has a lot of social activities, and it feels very embarrassing to drive an old or broken car, so the principal wants to drive your car. Your car must be better than his. It is a new car and a famous brand. The principal wants to use your car from time to time just to show off his face. You can encourage the principal to buy a new car, a famous brand car. The principal's conditions should be better than yours, so it won't be a problem for him to buy a car.

2. You don’t have to drive to work. The principal always wants to drive your car, which makes you feel a little sad. That's true. I saved up for several years and spent hundreds of thousands to buy a car, but I couldn't bear to drive it.

I usually take good care of my car and take good care of it. Can the principal use the car so carefully? If you don't want your car to be used by the principal, then don't bring it to school. If the principal asks you to borrow a car, you tell him that the car is broken down and is being repaired. But this will offend the principal. Will the principal give you some shoes to wear? It will make things difficult in the future. He will not judge you first when evaluating excellence, nor will he make it easy for you when evaluating professional titles. If you want to get an official position, it is even more impossible. Some people want to curry favor with the principal before it's too late. How can you offend him?

If you want to stay away from the principal, it's better to change schools.

Everyone is welcome to leave comments.

I have N ways to solve this problem.

1. Sell the car. The principal wants to borrow it, but there is no chance.

2. Calculate the distance to drive and refuel. If the principal borrows it, he will run out of gas while driving. He has to add, remember this every time.

3. When the principal comes to borrow a car, you tell him, what are you going to do later? If you can’t borrow it, come and borrow it once.

4. When the principal came to borrow a car, he said that the car was of the same price as his wife, so he had to borrow his wife to borrow the car (hahaha, let’s see if I have the nerve to lend you my wife)

Hope the above suggestions I can help you

Borrowing a car is borrowing your life. If the principal borrows your car and there is a traffic accident, you will be responsible for all the responsibilities. The traffic police department will recognize the owner of the car but not other people. You have to tell the stakes Tell him, if the principal drives out and kills someone or collides with another vehicle, and the principal is killed again, you will not only be responsible for the other person's vehicle, but also the principal's funeral expenses, housing expenses, etc., there are no millions If the problem cannot be solved, let me tell you the truth, you cannot borrow the car.

Ask someone to modify the car and add an auxiliary fuel tank so that he can refuel every time he uses it.

Regarding the issue of leaders borrowing cars, it is a bit difficult to grasp. Once or twice is fine, but it is difficult to do it regularly. I am reluctant to borrow it and I am worried that something will go wrong. Borrowing a friend from a colleague and being a leader, I'm afraid it will affect future relationships. It's really annoying. So how do we solve it? I think you can try the following methods:

First, take the initiative to be a driver for the leader. When your boss asks you to borrow a car, you can say where are you going? Let me drive for you! Too many times makes the leader feel like others don't trust him.

2. Find out the rules for leaders to borrow cars, what time each time they borrow a car, and reduce the number of drives based on this rule.

3. Make excuses. Make up various excuses to excuse yourself, such as: I need to use the car for something later or there is some minor problem with the car that needs to be repaired, etc.

4. If you have a very cheerful personality and don’t mind talking to your boss, you can also use a joking tone and directly tell jokes such as reimbursement of gas money, car and wife will not be loaned out.

5. You can also pay more attention to some news events involving accidents caused by borrowing cars. Discuss this topic with leadership colleagues on appropriate occasions, which has attracted the attention of leaders.

In short, leaders are smarter. No matter what form you take to refuse leadership, you will understand what you mean. If your boss has ulterior motives for you and always wants to take advantage of you, then you should refuse him directly.

I am also a teacher and have encountered many confusions. I would like to help you.

It is your misfortune to meet such a principal. In the face of confusion, we must respond actively. Let the car "disappear"

Such a leader must be very thick-skinned, so polite refusal will not work. In order to prevent him from driving your car, there is only one way, and that is to make the car "disappear".

What I mean by "disappearing" is not really disappearing, it's not asking you to sell the car, it's just not driving the car to school. I suggest you buy a sports bike and some sports equipment to build up your momentum. Then he would talk about fitness, green travel and other topics to everyone he met to enhance the atmosphere of public opinion and continue to build momentum. Specific operations

If your home is not too far from school, you can bike to work. If it's really far away, you can compromise and put the bike in the trunk. Then drive the car halfway, find a suitable place to park, and ride to school.

Keep cycling for a semester or a year, and then occasionally drive to school. Then gradually increase the frequency of driving and observe the principal's behavior.

Maybe by then, the principal would have been transferred, or maybe interested in a better car. Then you are free. How can you know that a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise?

One of my classmates is a physical education teacher. After getting married, he relaxed and quickly gained weight. Later, he learned from the experience and insisted on cycling to work every day. His home is 10 kilometers away from the school. He was a little tired at first, but later he actually took a detour to work. In his words, 10 kilometers of exercise is not enough. He lost 40 pounds in one semester and became an inspirational model among our classmates.

Through this struggle, maybe you can develop a good habit of getting up early to exercise. Wouldn’t it be better? Enjoy the fun of "struggle"

Don't students often say that "fighting with the teacher is endless fun"? We should also do the same, "Fighting with leaders is endless fun." Be optimistic, don't worry, don't be angry, your body is the most important thing.

This problem may be that you are usually too gentle. He always drives your car and you don’t react too hastily or make any expressions to him. Or maybe you never refuse him, or you can say that he He is your superior. You don’t dare to offend him. You can only flatter him. If you don’t want him to drive your car, there is still a way. You can ask him to help you develop ideas for work matters, such as a salary increase. , maybe you ask him to borrow money when you encounter difficulties and see how he spends it. If he is in a dilemma and is unwilling, he will naturally not dare to drive your car.