Talk about those things: success and failure.

In China's Chinese characters, there are many words with mouths, which can be summarized as follows:

Consistent mouth: as we all know; Don't choose what you say: what you say is not true.

? A talkative mouth: a careless mouth; What you don't like to say: shut up. ?

? Danger: wyndell dichinson; Nonsense: What's the matter?

Criticism mouth: verbal criticism; Talking mouth: articulate.

Nonsense mouth: no cover; Cautious mouth: keep your mouth shut.

? The mouth can eat and talk, and speaking well is the icing on the cake; Not well said: adding fuel to the fire shows that speaking is a technical activity and cannot be sloppy.

? One mouth lives, one mouth is poor.

? There is a couplet in the ancestral hall in front of Han Xin's tomb, which has only ten words: life and death are bosom friends; Life and death are two women. Han Xin's life was succinctly and accurately summarized, and he was called several generations. "bosom friend" is Xiao He. Han Xin's refuge in Liu Bang was not reused, and he felt wronged, so Han Xin fled. It was Xiao He who recovered Han Xin in the next month and recommended Han Xin to Liu Bang with all his strength, which promoted him to an exceptional position, which also made him famous in later generations. He has made great contributions to the establishment of "Da Han Shui" and is known as one of three outstanding heroes of early han dynasty. Han Xin will be a soldier, the more the better, widely circulated. Just think, if it weren't for Xiao He's flattery, Liu Bang wouldn't have valued him. He escaped in the moonlight that night, and his life may be rewritten. From this perspective, Xiao He is his noble.

Later, Liu Bang collapsed, Han Xin attempted rebellion, and Lv Zhi was afraid of Han Xin. Xiao He designed Lv Zhi to catch him, and Han Xin was killed. He didn't expect his confidant, Xiao He, to lead himself to death. That's why he came up with the idiom "Success is Xiao He, and failure is me". Imagine a critical period, if Xiao He put in a good word or spared no effort to protect each other, Han Xin should be able to save his life.

? In the critical period, a seemingly ordinary word is life and death, which should not be underestimated.

Two ladies, one is a floating mother, and Han Xin's parents died young. They depend on the Huaihe River for fishing every day to satisfy their hunger. Many times, they didn't catch any fish and were starving. At this time, a "floating mother" took pity on him and often gave him some steamed bread to satisfy his hunger, which helped him survive, so the floating mother saved him. The other is Lv Zhi, who was beheaded by the emperor as soon as he entered Changle Palace, and then killed by the three clans.

If you apply the format of this couplet, you can also write a couplet to summarize the importance of speaking: two lives are poor and humble, and life and death are one mouth.

Legend has it that at the end of Qing Dynasty, Empress Dowager Cixi invited a famous calligrapher to write poems for her fans. Calligraphers wrote Wang Zhihuan's Liangzhou Ci in Tang Dynasty: The Yellow River is far above the white clouds, and there is an isolated city-Wan Ren. Why should a strong brother complain about Liu? Spring breeze is not enough. But in a flash, the calligrapher forgot to write the word "Jian". Cixi was furious and wanted to kill him. The calligrapher used his quick wits and quickly explained, "Calm down, Lafayette, this is a sentence written in Wang Zhihuan's poems." And punctuated the sentence on the spot and read it to Cixi: "The Yellow River is far away, there are white clouds, and Wan Ren Mountain is a lonely city." Why did the strong emperor complain about the willow spring breeze and not pass through Yumen Pass? "Hearing this, Cixi turned anger into joy and even called it wonderful. ?

Calligrapher, with his own intelligence, not only saved his life, but also left with a reward.

? Second, take it easy: sugar-coated shells are easy to hurt people.

? As the saying goes, good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action. But sometimes it is better to do the opposite, especially in front of the supreme elders. It is not careless to kill a person and take a word!

At the end of the Tang Dynasty, I went to Chao Ge City. The motto of Zhou Wang's dream says: "Cultivate the golden mean and practice a hundred sages." Then he asked Beagan, "Do you know what the golden mean is?" Beagan pondered a little: "The golden mean is neither fair nor neutral. Musculoskeletal, body and skin, talent and degree of learning, and virtue are in sync and balance. There are no outstanding strengths and no obvious weaknesses. This is the golden mean. "

? Zhou Wang got his idea, and wanted to balance the talents of all civil and military officials in order to make progress and demand mediocrity.

However, da ji stepped forward and stopped him, saying, "Your Majesty, this is a terrible move! It is a fallacy to be so gentle. People are born different, or more important than physical strength, or more important than literary talent, or more important than moral conduct, which is God's creation. People who value physical strength are often weaker than literary talents, those who value literary talents are often weaker than sages, and those who value sages are often weaker than physical strength. A: Expertise and weakness complement each other, so as to achieve balance. This is the golden mean. The king should recruit talents, different people have different opinions, the wise see wisdom, and the brave see courage. To make up for their own shortcomings, the doctrine of the mean can be repaired, and sages can do it. Rebellion is more confusing than dry talk. He wants to confuse the platform, subvert it into soup and seize the throne. Look at the king! " Zhou Wang sighed, "that's true! Lonely and dangerous. " So Beagan was sentenced to that year's punishment and his heart was dug out. The next day, Zhou Wang rebuilt the golden mean according to da ji's wishes.

In the critical period, if da ji upholds public interests above all else and upholds righteousness, history will be rewritten. Even if Shang Zhouwang doesn't die, he won't alienate others.

Bigan died because of speaking out, with a tragic ending; But Zhu Zou turned the tide with witty suggestions and achieved good results.

So it depends on the situation, but also on the personality preferences of the exhorter. After all, this will not end well, even in Wei Zhi.

? After Wei Zhi's death, Emperor Taizong pushed the tablet he wrote for Wei Zhi, and the second time he broke off an engagement. He had promised to marry Princess Hengshan to Wei Shuyu, the eldest son of Wei Zhi, but later Emperor Taizong broke his word. Even Taizong, who has high self-cultivation and personality, can't help but feel wronged, which should be related to his usual way of speaking!

? Thirdly, ironically, there is another village.

I'm so glad that candle Zou is the main bird and death. Public anger, officials want to kill it. Yan Zi said, "Zhu Zou's three crimes, please count them and kill them." Gong Dao: "Yes." So he called several officials and said, "Zhu Zou, it is a sin for you to die for the monarch bird in our country;" It is the second sin to kill my king because of birds; Let the princes smell that I value birds more than people. This is three sins. The crime of counting candles is over, please kill it. " Gong said, "Don't kill! I have heard of life. "

? In today's words, Qi Jinggong in the Spring and Autumn Period liked to keep birds. He asked minister Zhu Zou to keep a bird, but Zhu Zou was not careful and let the bird fly away. Gong Jing was furious and wanted to kill Zhu Zou. When Yan Zi, the prime minister of Qi State, knew this, he said, Well, Zhu Zou apologized to the King of Qi for killing this guy, but before I kill him, I will declare his crime in front of the King of Qi and let him die peacefully. The baby ordered a candle to be tied and reprimanded. * * *, there are three things. First, for the king's bird, he let it fly away. Second, you let the king's bird fly, causing Wang Weiyi to kill a bird; Third, it doesn't matter if you die, but the story that a bird killed someone in Wang Weiyi spread, and the monarchs and people of other vassal states would laugh at us. The monarch of Qi regards a bird as more important than human life. Isn't this the sound of destroying the king and making him guilty of being a bad king?

? These three rules should be killed. Qi Jinggong smiled and said, "Let people go quickly. I understand your good intentions."

? Sometimes, calling a spade a spade often fails to achieve the desired effect, but it will add fuel to the fire and ruin things, while euphemism will turn defeat into victory!

Fourth, is Lian Po old enough to eat?

Records of the Historian and Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru recorded that after Lian Po was dismissed from office, when Zhao suffered heavy losses in Wei, the prince of Zhao thought of Lian Po. The prince of Zhao wanted to use him again and sent messengers to check his physical condition. Lian Po was overjoyed. But Lian Po's enemy, Guo Kai, bribed the emissary to say something at the critical moment. When the messenger saw Lian Po, the veteran was very happy, and he could finally serve his country. This is his dream, and a red heart is burning. Lian Po got a bucket of rice and ten catties of meat for this. After eating, he put on his armor, mounted his horse and showed his martial arts, thus showing that he was still available and willing to serve his country. The messenger came back and reported to the king of Zhao: "Although General Lian Po is old and has a good diet, he still sits with the minister, which is the third legacy." However, this understatement implies that Lian Po has lost its use value. The prince of Zhao was really taken in, thinking that Lian Po was old and useless. Tragedy was thus formed, and later Zhao perished. I dare not say what will happen if Lian Po is appointed, but one thing is certain, that is, Zhao will not perish so soon.

This is a word, loyal ministers are abandoned, the country perishes and history is rewritten.

I have to say that the courtier's speaking level is still very good, just right, and the wind has passed without a trace.

? Fifth, turn the tide: turn hostilities into friendship.

? In the Sino-Japanese Sino-Japanese War of 1894-1895 in September 630 BC, Jin Wengong and Qin Mugong jointly besieged the State of Zheng. The reason is high-sounding: Zheng was rude and offended himself, and attached himself to Chu when he attached himself to Jin State. In a word: rude and disloyal. The Jin army was stationed in the Han Mausoleum and in Pan-South, which was in danger.

At a critical juncture, the lost fox stepped forward and said to Zheng Bo, "The national disaster is at hand, please call a candle." Zheng Bo was anxious to agree to go to the hospital, but Candlewick refused to say, "I am too young to do it." Now that I am old, I can't do it. "HuaLiYouHua, is complaining, whispering righteousness, quietly tell injustice.

Smart guy, a little bad.

? First of all, I admitted my mistake: "It's my fault, but Zheng's death is not good for you!" " "A red heart and a candle prepared by both hands agreed. Are there any eggs left under the cover of the nest?

At night, the candle power was put down from the wall with a rope, and Qin Bo was visited and said, "We know it is going to die. If eliminating Zheng is good for you, I won't bother you. If you give up destroying Zheng, you can always get what you lack. Besides, you are very kind to Kim, and he promised to give you Jiaoxian and xian county. However, in the morning, I crossed the Yellow River and returned to Jin, and at night I built fortifications to refuse Qin. " Hearing this, Qin Bo was very happy. Not only did he not destroy Zheng, but he also left three people to help Zheng Baojia defend the country. Then move troops back to Korea, 8 jin j also withdrew from zheng.

? In a word, the crisis has been lifted and Lei Zi has been excluded. A person, a paragraph, turn an enemy into a friend, save the day, admirable!

Six, fatal dialogue: Mandarin is a life-and-death robbery.

One day, Zhu Yuanzhang and Liu Bowen were talking. Suddenly, Zhu Yuanzhang became serious. : "If Li Shanchang is replaced, who is suitable to be the prime minister?" Liu Bowen was walking on thin ice, knowing that this was a trap, and respectfully said, "It's up to your emperor."

? Zhu Yuanzhang snorted, his tone softened and asked, "What about Yang Xian?" This is still a trap. Yang Xian was obviously cultivated by himself. What does the emperor want him to do? Liu Bowen is not stupid. He knew the purpose of Zhu Yuanzhang's question. After a little thinking, he immediately replied: "Yang Xian has the ability to be a prime minister, but he does not have the amount of a prime minister."

? Zhu Yuanzhang pressed hard and then asked, "What happened to Wang Guangyang?" Wang is not from Huaixi Group, but Zhu Yuanzhang always suspected that he was in collusion with Liu Bowen. Liu Bowen immediately said: "This person is shallow and does not deserve to be the prime minister." Zhu Yuanzhang cut another sword. "Where is Hu?" Hu was born and raised in Li Shanchang, so he can't be said to be the prime minister. Liu Bowen said slowly: "Hu is a calf now, and he will definitely break free from the yoke of the ox plow in the future, and I am afraid it will be difficult to control at that time!" . The exam is not over yet, the mouse pulls the shovel, and the fatal problem is still behind. Zhu Yuanzhang sighed and said, "It seems that you can only be the prime minister!" Liu Bowen felt his heart in his throat. This is Lei Zi. Immediately replied: "It's not that I don't know, but that I hate evil, so the emperor should choose slowly." Zhu Yuanzhang was very upset after listening to it, but he did not leak his voice: "There is no suitable one in the DPRK!"

From then on, Liu Bowen lost power and influence, and soon retired. That tense conversation set the stage for his later death.

As the old saying goes, watch your mouth and be careful of disaster. People are like generals, it is very important to keep your mouth shut.

? There are poems as evidence:

Small three-inch golden tongue, long life and death.

? If you think about success or failure, there are two days.