On the wedding night, the mother-in-law sets rules for her daughter-in-law. Should the daughter-in-law abide by these rules?

The one who can set rules for his daughter-in-law must be from a family that has a great business, has capital, and is qualified to set rules for his daughter-in-law.

For ordinary people, why should you set rules for your daughter-in-law? Who will listen to you? Our great cause means that we will have a huge amount of property to inherit to our sons in the future, so our sons and daughters-in-law must live and do things according to the rules of our great cause.

If you disobey, you will not be able to inherit the family business. If there is not such a big temptation, which son and daughter-in-law will live according to the rules you set, it will be crazy. You are an ordinary ordinary person without a prominent family background. What daughter-in-law will not despise your family for being poor? If you and your son are wholeheartedly committed to living a good life, then it will be a high-end affair. How can you talk about setting rules for your daughter-in-law? Nowadays, we all have small families, and we don’t live with the elderly. We live in different places. We can only help, and we have no right to be picky.

Family laws, as the name suggests, are the family etiquette and rules and regulations of a family. Influenced by Confucianism, many families used to have different family laws. It is like a family "law" that regulates the basic qualities of life and regulates the words and deeds of family members. If you make a mistake, you will be punished by family law.

However, now, I don’t know whether it is because of the abandonment of the times, or because people admire freedom too much, or because their minds are more liberated. It seems that the concept of "family law" has gradually disappeared and been forgotten in our families.

The ancients said: "It is the fault of the father if he is not taught. If he is not strict in teaching, it is the teacher's fault." Family law is very important to the education of a family. Generations follow family law, and life becomes more and more enjoyable. The better. In fact, family law is also very necessary in modern families, and its existence is definitely much better than its non-existence. A family's family laws can not only regulate the words and deeds of parents, but also restrain the behavior of children. Family laws are used as a warning line to avoid mistakes, standardize the principles of life, and educate children how to behave. Learn to respect

Everyone is born equal. If you don't respect others, you look down on others. Everyone makes mistakes, and the faults of others must be worthy of tolerance and respect. In this family, everyone is your relative and someone who cares about you. You must respect your family members at all times. This is the bottom line of being a human being. If you don't even respect your own relatives, then you will lose the people who love you most and eventually become a loner.

Everyone must learn to respect. Respect does not restrict your freedom, but you must recognize your loved ones from the bottom of your heart and be grateful to your family. Only when the whole family respects each other can the whole family be harmonious and happy. Know how to be tolerant

The sea is open to all rivers, and tolerance is great. The greater a person's tolerance, the higher his quality of life. In our family, we all need to understand one truth, which is to endure the calm for a while and take a step back to open up the world. It is inevitable that there will be troubles, big and small, in life, and there will inevitably be friction, but you must know how to tolerate each other. No one can make mistakes, and everyone will make mistakes, including me. Sometimes the mistakes we make are not intentional, but may be forced. As long as we understand each other, things will definitely develop in a good direction. You must learn to be independent

The so-called autonomy means that you must learn to be independent and have your own opinions. Don't just follow what others say. That will harm both others and yourself. Although the two of you have been in love for more than 4 years and have a deep love foundation, and then entered this marriage and have each other, I hope that you will not rely too much on each other, but still learn to be independent and have your own. Don't be led by the other party in your opinions and life. I believe that young people also need their own living space and not be disturbed by others.

The management of marriage and husband-wife relationship depends on the responsibilities and behaviors of two people. The wife should be a good wife and the husband should be a good husband. While taking good care of yourself, take good care of each other and the marriage. Only in this way can your marriage be happy and your life long-lasting.

If a marriage wants to be happy and last forever, if the relationship between husband and wife wants to be permanently harmonious, respect and autonomy are indispensable and indispensable.