What are the jobs of Yao Ce and Guo Wei who have changed their lives for 28 years?

April 30 18: 26, in the conference room of a hotel in Lianxi District, Jiujiang City, Jiangxi Province, reporters from all walks of life pressed the camera shutter one after another, and the sound of "click" came and went.

There are 1 1 people on the opposite side of the camera: 5 men and 4 women sitting in tandem with 2 baby boys in their arms. 1 1 People have different expressions, some are crying, some are laughing, some are serious, some are clenching their fists ... All kinds of expressions are fixed in this special family photo.

The reason why the word "special" can be used to describe it is because the hand of fate played a paradoxical drama 28 years ago.

1On June 5th, 992, Du Xinzhi gave birth to a baby boy in Huaihe Hospital of Henan University in Kaifeng. A few hours later, Xu Min also gave birth to a baby boy. Later, Du Xinzhi returned to his ancestral home in Zhumadian, Henan, and Xu Min returned to his ancestral home in Jiujiang, Jiangxi.

▲ On April 30th, a family photo of two families in Lianxi District, Jiujiang City, Jiangxi Province. Photography/Upstream Journalist Niu Tai

The upheaval took place 28 years later.

On February 7th, 2020, Yao Ce, the son of Xu Min, who had been raised for 28 years, was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, and if he was not treated, he might only live for 3 months. When she went to see a doctor, she found that Yao Ce's blood type was AB, while she and her husband Yao Shibing were both A. After DNA testing, Yao Ce was not her own son.

On April 17, they met their son Guo Wei. Before meeting, Guo Wei always thought Du Xinzhi was his biological mother. On April 2 1 day, another DNA test report was released, showing that Du Xinzhi and his wife were Yao Ce's biological parents.

On April 30th, the two families met 1 1.

Meeting is reunion. Reunion means that two families that are not related by blood have become one family, one that cannot be separated, and one that cannot be separated.

On this day, the two families who have been inseparable also told the upstream news (reporting micro-signal: shangyounews) that they did not want to be arranged by fate. They want to arrange the next fate-try their best to treat Yao Ce and spare no effort to ask the hospital: What's the matter?

More importantly, the two families are determined to help each other and live a good life.

▲ On April 30th at 6: 10, Du Xinzhi met his own son Yao Ce of 28 years in a hotel in Lianxi District, Jiujiang, Jiangxi. His mother burst into tears before the two sides spoke. Photography/Upstream Journalist Niu Tai

The most beloved boy in the family

In Yao Ce's own words, he has been a "beloved" person in his family all his life. I am lucky because of my grandfather.

Before the age of 4, Yao Ce and his grandparents lived in Kaifeng, Henan, while Xu Min and Yao Shibing lived in Jiujiang. At the age of 4, my grandfather wanted to go back to his hometown to find his roots after he retired in Kaifeng, so Yao Ce followed him back to Jiujiang.

Yao Ce introduced that his grandfather had many children, and his mother Xu Min was the youngest. Grandpa has some preference for his younger son, so he extended this preference to him. Grandpa is partial to him, and the children are also very filial. Because of this, the whole family dotes on him.

Before Yao Ce became ill, Xu Min and Yao Shibing were well-off families. Xu Min introduced that the couple tried their best to meet Yao Ce materially, and Yao Ce owned all the toys owned by other children. He was particularly concerned about his studies and sent him to the best primary and high schools in Jiujiang.

Before Yao Ce graduated from high school, his family were very worried about his health.

Yao Ce said that he had hepatitis B when he was a child. Although he doesn't feel any different from other children, he should eat and play, just take some medicine. However, the family was on pins and needles. When relatives meet, they will be caring and attentive. Grandparents and parents take him to treatment in turn regularly. After high school, he stopped taking medicine.

When he volunteered, his parents encouraged Yao Ce to go to medical university because he had hepatitis B. ..

After Yao Ce graduated from a medical university in Jiangxi, Xu Min and his wife wanted their son to stay in Jiujiang as a doctor, but Yao Ce didn't want to. Yao Ce said that at that time, he was a little rebellious and felt that Xu Min was in strict control and always liked "endless". He wanted to get rid of it and live the life he wanted, so he went to work in Shanghai and started a business in Ningbo.

Yao Ce said that he didn't notice anything unusual when he was studying medicine before he was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. After the diagnosis, he was also desperate and was awakened by a nightmare. After returning from Shanghai in March this year, he often went to the grave of his grandfather who had died for half a year to complain.

After telling this story, Yao Ce told himself that he was the old man in the world and the young man in the world. If he falls, his family will collapse by half, so he must be optimistic about his illness.

▲ At 6: 10 on April 30th, Xu Min met his biological son Guo Wei for the second time. Photography/Upstream Journalist Niu Tai

Always taking care of my retarded sister's brother.

If we simply look at the material conditions, Yao Ce was very happy before he got sick, and Guo Wei was even more bleak.

Du Xinzhi once told the upstream journalist that when the eldest daughter was born, her intelligence was lacking because of lack of oxygen in her brain. The couple took their eldest daughter to seek medical treatment everywhere and owed a lot of foreign debts. Not long after giving birth to the second child, her husband Guo Xikuan was laid off from Kaifeng Agricultural Machinery Factory. In order to make a living, when I was in the fourth grade of Guoxu Primary School, my family moved to Zhumadian, my mother's house.

When I first went, the couple got up early and got greedy, pushing a scooter and selling fast food in the street. The burden of taking care of the eldest daughter fell on Guo Wei. Even if Guo Wei finishes school early, she will wait for her sister to finish school and then go home together. Some children are not sensible and will laugh at his sister. Guo Wei fights with whoever laughs, and anyone older than him dares to fight. It is not unusual for him to be black and blue.

On April 30th, recalling this incident, Guo Wei said that her family was in poor condition and her sister was mentally retarded. He belongs to that kind of "big heart" and doesn't feel that he can't lift his head. "Now, whoever bullies my sister, I will also maintain it. My sister is mentally ill, but she is very close to my brother. "

Du Xinzhi introduced that Guo Wei studied decoration design in college and stayed in Zhengzhou, Henan Province after graduation. Four or five years ago, she also suffered from liver cancer, when her husband Guo Xikuan was almost 60 years old. To take care of his family, Guo Wei returned to Zhumadian. If it weren't for its drag, Guo Wei might be better off staying in the provincial capital. Now, Guo Wei is under great pressure, raising a pair of children on a meager salary and making them up.

After returning to Zhumadian, Guo Wei also worked and started a business. Seeing that there was an auxiliary police recruitment in the local area, Guo Wei took an examination of the auxiliary police. Guo Wei said that the salary of the auxiliary police is not high, but he has a clear distinction between good and evil since he was a child, and he likes the feeling of wearing a uniform. Now, he is actively preparing for the exam and wants to take the official police exam.

On April 30th, the relevant person in charge of Guo Wei's Public Security Bureau introduced that Guo Wei has been in charge of community work since he joined the auxiliary police, and his colleagues have always been very optimistic about him. He became a captain after the exam last year and currently manages more than a dozen auxiliary police officers.

The upstream journalist asked Guo Wei, if life hadn't been changed by mistake, the economic pressure wouldn't be so great, and whether he had ever given up. Guo Wei said that he didn't think so. Although his parents were not rich, they gave him full love.

▲ Two brothers. Photography/Upstream Journalist Niu Tai

Go to the parents who ask relatives for liver source.

Both families have menstrual difficulties, but the appearance of a blood test list has mixed the two kinds of classics together.

In mid-March this year, Xu Min, who took her son Yao Ce to Shanghai to see a doctor, found that her son had AB blood, while she and her husband had A blood. This discovery opened Pandora's box: the DNA test report on March 26 showed that Xu Min was not Yao Ce's biological mother; On April 16, it was reported that Yao Shibing and Xu Min were Guo Wei's biological parents. According to the report on April 2 1, Guo Xikuan and Du Xinzhi are Yao Ce's biological parents.

▲ On April 2 1 day, the paternity test report showed that Yao Ce was the biological son of Du Xinzhi and his wife. Photo courtesy of respondents

On April 30th, an upstream journalist asked Yao Shibing, "Go to Kaifeng on March 29th, and look for Guo Wei on April 14. You persisted 17 days. Yao Ce, who is seriously ill, knows, will he think more? "

Yao Shibing said: "I am still worried about this now, for fear that Yao Ce will blame me. My mother-in-law found out and scolded me. Looking for what? Yao Ce is my own grandson and your own son, and it is impossible to change. I didn't explain it to the old man But at first, I decided to look for it, really not to look for my son, but to look for the liver source. The wife wants to donate her liver, but she is not her biological mother. The rejection of donor liver will be very strong. The original intention of going to find my own son is to find the source of his liver and see if they are willing to donate. Yao Ce had no time to wait in line for the liver source. Everyone has feelings. After 28 years, he is more important than my life. "

When talking, Yao Shibing, who has always been unsmiling, did not shed tears, but his eyes were red.

Earlier, Du Xinzhi and his wife told the upstream journalists that Yao Shibing first contacted them by phone when he first arrived in Zhumadian. They thought it was a fraudulent phone call and didn't answer it.

On April 30, the relevant person in charge of the above-mentioned public security bureau introduced that when Yao Shibing arrived at the police station, he had been talking about looking for Guo Xikuan and his wife. It was the police who found that Guo Wei happened to be a colleague, so they did not contact Guo Xikuan and his wife, but directly contacted Guo Wei.

A father's worry is unnecessary for his son.

Yao Ce told the upstream journalist that he felt that his parents were not eager to see their son, but wanted to find him a liver source. But his idea of not accepting a liver transplant will not change. "My mother wanted to donate it to me, and I said at that time, it is impossible to promise, which will hurt my body. My biological mother can't donate because of liver cancer. If my biological father wants to donate, I don't agree and I can't agree. "

▲ Both Yao Ce and Guo Wei were born in the Second Affiliated Hospital of Kaifeng Medical College (now Huaihe Hospital of Henan University). The picture comes from the Internet.

The one who agreed not to cry still cried.

The paradoxical fate triggered a collision between sensibility and rationality, which aroused terrible waves in my heart. The moment we met, the terrible waves finally gushed out.

On April 2 1 day, Du Xin didn't want to wait for a moment after confirming that Yao Ce was his own son. She wants to see her son. But at that time, Yao Ce was still in the dark about his life experience, and Du Xinzhi backed out.

On April 25th, Yao Ce knew. At that time, Du Xinzhi was borrowing money everywhere to raise medical expenses for his son. On April 30th, Du Xinzhi set out from Zhengzhou and embarked on the road of reunion. Along the way, Du Xinzhi muttered many times that he would not cry, so as not to make his son feel uncomfortable.

On April 30th 18 10, Du Xinzhi stepped into the hotel door and saw the room crowded with people, and his sight was blocked again. She was a little anxious, and the first thing she said was, "Where's my son? Where is my son? I want to see him. "

Yao Ce, one meter away, rushed forward and hugged Du Xinzhi intensely, and Du Xinzhi also hugged his son intensely. At that moment, she broke her word and cried into tears. Yao Ce touched her back and said, "Mom, don't cry, you just finished surgery."

In an interview before, Yao Ce said that he couldn't cry when he met. "Although there would be no me without them, I have never met."

Seeing the mother and son embracing each other, Guo Xikuan bowed his head and wiped his tears, along with Xu Min and Yao Shibing.

After adjusting his mood, Yao Ce put Guo Wei on his shoulder and smiled and said to everyone: "I know that my life has been changed by a mistake for 28 years. This kind of taste, only we two brothers can understand. I think we will be closer than brothers in the future. Seeing that my brother is so excellent, I know that if I have not been wrongly replaced, I will. "

Compared with Yao Ce, who is good at expressing, Guo Wei seems a little dull. Listening to my brother who was born only a few hours later than himself, he smiled naively. Xu Min joked aside, "Like his own father, he doesn't talk much."

Seeing their relatives being interviewed by different media reporters in turn, Yao Ce and Guo Wei's wife held hands and discussed their parenting experience. They also think that fate is wonderful-their husbands were born on the same day in the same year and they were born on the same day in the same year.

May 1 year is the second day of family reunion. Du Xinzhi and his wife want to have a good talk with Yao Ce, and Mrs. Xu Min plans to take Guo Wei for a walk in Gan Tang Park-that's where she fell in love with Yao Shibing and Yao Ce's favorite place to go as a child.