At the age of 29, I have never talked about being educated by my elders in turn. Why is society so unfriendly to older young women?

In fact, it is not that society is unfriendly to older women, but that everyone has different views. The older generation has the ideas of the older generation, and the younger generation has the ideas of the younger generation. This cannot be said to be unfriendly. Although there will be a generation gap in communication between the two sides, I think it is better to be self-sufficient and stick to our own principles.

With the development of society, we will find that there are more and more older women around us. There are many reasons. The education level of modern young people is generally much higher than before, and they are no longer bound by the previous rules and regulations. They know what they need and what is the most comfortable state.

Some girls feel that they should fight for their careers while they are young. Being recognized can make them feel a sense of accomplishment, so they don't consider talking about marriage early. Some girls may feel that they must find someone they like to spend their lives with, so they don't accept blind date, they must meet by themselves, and only those who meet the right person will consider getting married. Some girls may simply think that a person is very good, very free, don't care, and don't have to report to others wherever they go. They like this unrestrained feeling, so they don't want to get married too early. When they think that they will soon enter the life of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea after marriage, they feel inexplicable fear and fear when they think of the day when a baby will live for a lifetime. In fact, many older young women are afraid of getting married to some extent.

But I think these are girls' own ideas and attitudes towards life, which should be understood and respected. Of course, we can understand the feelings of the elders urging marriage, but marriage is the child's own business after all. As adults, they must know what they need and what their happiness is, so we should give them time to make their own choices without any prejudice.

I hope the girls will go their own way and let others talk.