I feel inferior and don't want to go to school for fear that my classmates will laugh at me. What should I do?

Everyone will face various experiences in the process of growing up. These experiences may make you feel depressed, make you feel inferior, or make you confident. Then these results are the results of what happened and your thoughts. Share a story: Once upon a time, a patient was lying in a hospital bed, looking desperately at a tree swept by the autumn wind outside the window. He suddenly found a green leaf on the tree. The patient thinks that when this leaf falls, my life is over. So he looked at the leaf all day, waiting for it to fall, quietly waiting for the end of his life, but it didn't fall until the patient recovered completely, and it was still beautiful. In fact, there are no leaves on the tree. These leaves were painted by a painter. They are not real leaves, but they achieve the vivid and real effect of real leaves, giving the patient a new belief: alive, as long as that leaf does not fall, my life will not die, and as a result, he really recovered.

Inferiority is not a problem, but our ideas have not changed. I used to feel inferior myself. No one else has money or superior conditions. I am afraid of talking to others, so I put all my energy into my study, so I am still excellent in my study. I still remember the first time I was called to the podium by the teacher and encouraged me to finally win the class first through my own efforts in front of the whole class. I was particularly nervous at that time, and I understood it with everyone's applause. In fact, I don't need to always see my own shortcomings and defects, but to think about how to shine on what I am good at.

Learning to express yourself may be a small challenge, but every time you actively express yourself, you will accumulate more confidence, regardless of other people's voices. When you become better and more confident, your magnetic field will become stronger invisibly, you will make many friends, and you will feel the joy of life and the truth, goodness and beauty between people.

Taking the first step bravely, inferiority is not terrible. The terrible thing is that we don't want to be excellent, so we should go to school well, look for spiritual strength in books, and constantly hint that we can be excellent. Come on! ! !

I feel inferior and don't want to go to school for fear of being laughed at by my classmates. I can understand how you feel.

I wonder how old you are.

When I was in the first grade of junior high school, I also felt particularly inferior. Once I felt inferior and didn't want to go to school. I always felt that my classmates laughed at me.

My primary school is in our village. Every village is familiar, and everyone's family background is similar. At that time, the spelling was whether the grades were good or not, and whether the students were smart or not.

Junior high school is concentrated in the schools in the town. There are many classmates in the town, and their families are relatively good. They are beautifully dressed, and their school supplies and daily diet are neat. And because the family is poor, they often lack the east and the west.

Slowly, every classmate with a good family has several followers around him. I don't want to enter such a circle and exist alone.

One person attends class, one person does homework, and one person goes back to the dormitory.

In fact, others may look down on me, but my strong inferiority makes me close myself.

I want to study crazy and prop up my poor self-esteem with good grades.

I secretly make a determined effort in my heart to surpass all of them and live a good life in the future.

The excessive self-esteem transformed from inferiority and the power to prove my origins have been with me for many years. It is also an endless source of strength for me to live a happy life today.

So look at the reasons for your inferiority complex. What is your inner desire? Every heart with inferiority hides a diamond of life, which is vivid and shining!

With the fact of inferiority, hide it quietly and let yourself know first. Then see what you can do to prove that you are a little good. If you can do something beautifully, you will also move from inferiority to self-improvement [Rose]

Dear friends, don't be afraid and don't blame yourself.

Because everyone will feel inferior at times, which is a normal feeling of people. Don't be afraid of it and don't be defeated by it. So the school must go, and it's no use avoiding it! After entering the society, we may often feel inferior, but our life is still better!

When I was young, I often felt inferior because my family conditions were not as good as my classmates. At that time, I was stubborn. Since my family conditions are not as good as others, my grades will not be worse than theirs. Under this belief, my heart has become stronger and stronger, and my grades in my student days have always been among the best.

When you feel inferior and cannot get rid of yourself, you can read more books, which will bring you a lot of energy; You can also communicate with your good friends, teachers and parents. They may give us good advice to help us dispel our inner "inferiority complex" and "depression".

Sometimes students' laughter is not necessarily "ridicule" and "irony", but may also be because they are amused. We often laugh at our friends happily, so we should look on the bright side and keep a good attitude. Of course, we can't "laugh" and "satirize" others ourselves. Get along well with others, and good interpersonal relationships will bring us a good mood!

So don't be afraid, even if you are, face it, go to school, study hard and be kind to others ... soon your mentality will change!

Son, how old are you and what grade are you in? Why feel inferior?

Let me tell you a story. Maybe you won't feel so inferior after reading it!

I'll make a dividing line so that you don't feel so tired when you study!

We have a boy here. In the past, he studied very well in the last semester of Grade One and Grade Two, but in the next semester of Grade Two, he read extracurricular books day and night, both inside and outside the class. The results of the second semester of the second day of junior high school dropped sharply, but it was not so obvious. By the third grade, he couldn't keep up.

I don't know how to repent in the next semester of grade three, because no one cares about his study. Every exam, parents don't know how to ask. She is under little pressure and doesn't know how hard she is working. Even though she worked hard, she missed too many classes.

He failed in the middle school entrance examination.

There were a dozen students in the village, only three in junior high school, and two boys. People in the village think that he should be the best person to pass the exam.

Unexpectedly, when he was on the public list, he only got 350 points in the exam. 1990, 350 points only meant going to high school, but people at that time thought that going to high school was a hopeless thing because secondary schools were particularly popular at that time.

Later, he stopped reading.

Just farm at home and work with my parents all day. Because she didn't do much work since she was a child, she really couldn't catch up with other children in the village. Others have done a lot, but he has only done a little. He is often scolded by his family and laughed at by the villagers. He endured it silently. What can I do without him?

He was laughed at during the day, but he was still immersed in the world of books at night.

He borrowed all the books in the village. In the end, he had no choice but to read the books he had read again and again. Some books are almost recited, but he still won't let go. Sometimes he goes to work in the mountains and when others take a lunch break, he takes out his books to read. People in the village still laugh at her. Is it still meaningful for you to study?

The boy thought, none of you understand the charm of books. How can I tell you? Just laughing and not answering.

After a year like this, there is really no way to work in the field like other children, because he is always rejected. Then his parents found him a clothing store to work and sell clothes.

I work not far from home. It's been four months. How can a newly graduated child do sales? He was still rejected and couldn't sell, and he couldn't win over and convince customers, so he finally had to go home in despair. He doesn't think he is cut out for business.

He stayed at home for a short time, and then invited people to work in the factory. He may have been gone for another five months. In these five months, he really suffered from human feelings and many eyes.

Then I went home and continued to do farm work, which was dazzling for three years.

One day in August that year, the family began to ask people to help knock down the leaves of sugarcane to make it grow faster.

A group of people are discussing which school the children from villages and towns have been admitted to this year, and he is all ears.

Then a small partner said, I heard that so-and-so was admitted and got the admission notice.

"who?" He was stunned. "hasn't she stopped studying for more than a year?"

"You don't know that she has gone to study abroad?" A little friend said.

He said, "my god, did so-and-so go to cram school?" I really don't know! "

Seven or eight friends all laughed: "Really, you are a bookworm, I didn't know!" "

He can't laugh. The news shocked him like a bolt from the blue.

The next time, he didn't say a word. Stimulated by this incident, he really regrets that he didn't study hard, and regrets how the Chinese teacher advised him not to listen, but what's the use of regretting again? They have graduated for three years and are seventeen this year. I'm afraid there will be no more opportunities to learn.

When he got home, he didn't eat, so he went to bed. He tossed and turned in bed and couldn't sleep. He has been recalling a sentence: "So-and-so took the exam, and so-and-so dropped out of school for a year to repeat. She took the exam. "

He didn't sleep well all night. In this way, at dawn, he took a pair of panda eyes and followed his family to beat the sugarcane leaves that were not finished yesterday.

He feels that every leaf of sugarcane is tough now, and it is difficult to tear it off. What is still moving in his mind is that sentence: "So-and-so passed the exam, so-and-so dropped out of school for a year and went to repeat the study. She has passed the exam. "

It was difficult to get into the darkness, but he still didn't feel the smell of food.

After about three days in such a trance, he finally decided to repeat the study. His family thought he was joking and didn't take it seriously.

But he did as he said, made an appointment with two best friends, went to a mountain school far from home, ran to the school, found the principal's house and asked the principal directly if he could come here to study in September. After the headmaster asked about the situation, he was very frank. Of course!

He danced happily and sang songs all the way home.

Everyone in the village laughed when he heard that he was going to repeat his studies. I told you, don't be silly, haha, that's funny.

When the school started in September, he really went to the school to sign up, and the whole village was a joke.

When he came home during the National Day holiday, the whole village looked at him like a monster.

In the evening, the village head went to his house for dinner, and seemed to be very concerned and asked, "Did you understand what the teacher said?" Will English be better? "

He whispered, "Remember some!" The village chief smiled evenly.

In this school, there is a young male teacher who has just been assigned to the school and graduated from junior college. He is nineteen years old this year, only two years older than him. The teacher also went to the dormitory to see him. He didn't know the teacher's eyes at that time, and didn't understand the meaning until many years later.

On the weekend of a week, at about four o'clock in the afternoon, he went to the street to buy some daily necessities.

Passing a small commodity point. Just thinking of him, he heard someone say behind his back, "Look, this is the lazy man in our village, because he is lazy to do farm work, so he came to study." Or chased out of the house and showed it to others. Looking back, it was a familiar aunt's face. It turns out that this aunt was married to this village. It turns out that this aunt has gone back to her mother's house.

He didn't want to say hello to her, and the grievances that had been wronged suddenly broke out. He gritted his teeth and tried not to cry. He trotted back to the dormitory and didn't dare to cry. There are others in the dormitory. He hurried into the men's room and covered his mouth with his hand before he dared to let his tears stay.

He vowed to show everyone and villagers if he was lazy.

The next day, the whole school knew his origin and knew that he was older than all the students in the school.

Some boys in the class began to laugh at him.

One day, he reinforced a dictionary with a male classmate. At the moment when the boy was about to be taken away, he shouted, "Let go of the old man." He suddenly gave up when he was about to rob the dictionary. When he returned to his seat angrily and felt sad, he realized that some people didn't talk about him, but they despised him very much in their hearts.

In the next few days, he studied hard in the cold eyes of all his classmates. He learned to pretend to protect his self-esteem. Whenever people showed disdain, he pretended not to care. At the same time, I secretly said to myself, it's okay, I will make you look down on me in the future.

If you don't go home on weekends, you have to 12 sleep at night. Sometimes you do the problem until two in the morning, as if to make up for the lost years and dignity.

He approached the children who studied better in Grade One and Grade Two and asked them what they didn't understand. Fortunately, these younger brothers and sisters thought it was a kind of pride for him to ask, and then taught him enthusiastically.

After a semester, his grades ranked fifth in the grade, and there were five people in front of him. There is still one semester left.

After returning home, he was no longer afraid of the villagers' cold eyes and ridicule, and he gained more confidence.

During the holiday, he made up lessons for himself all day, turned over the borrowed textbooks for senior one and senior two, and chewed them again.

Most of the time is spent on geometry. He has been doing it all the time, and one day he was doing a geometry problem under a Toona sinensis tree, and suddenly he had an epiphany. It turns out that all geometry problems can be solved as long as you can remember the concepts and formulas. He jumped up from the ground happily, just like a man who practiced martial arts hard, and suddenly got through the second pulse of Ren Du. Later, he felt that the math problem was not complicated.

Next is English, which is his weakest subject. Because his English teacher used to be a shy Hunan teacher. The teacher has just graduated, and almost every time he comes to their class, his face is flushed in the first half of the class. I don't know why he can't understand his Hunan dialect at all.

The foundation is not solid. This time, the teacher is often angry with the students. What worries me most is that I can't remember English words. What's more, I can't use grammar. I have no choice but to listen to the lecture, brush the questions and learn by rote.

During the senior high school entrance examination, he was admitted to the school where he volunteered. When he was told to enter the school, he came to the village Committee and asked him to pick it up. He is almost stupid.

The news also seems to have wings. It is known in all the four townships and eight miles that a person in a village dropped out of school for three years and was admitted.

Everyone in the village congratulated him when he walked out of the house.

He finally breathed a sigh of relief and finally received the congratulations he should have received four years ago.

I don't know if you can patiently read the story and ask questions.

Besides, my writing is not good. If you read this, please forgive me for writing like a pupil.

Don't be afraid. If someone stares at you, you stare back, from his head to his feet, from his feet to his head, until he looks away. I have done this many times, haha, I am proud to tell you that I have won every time!

Dear, people are often not defeated by others, but by themselves.

There is another word that is the most popular for you at present. Whenever someone bullies you, please tell yourself: I am indifferent to you today, and you will be sorry for me tomorrow!

Dear, I am as inferior as you and don't want to go to school.

I don't know why you. When I was young, my parents had bad feelings. My mother is often very grumpy, hitting me and saying that I can't do anything well.

I am a girl with dark skin, short stature and poor grades. I am a little transparent in my class, and I feel that no one will like me. Looking at the energetic students, I feel inferior and don't want to go to school.

Until I graduated from high school, I saw a book on psychology, which said that "everyone is valuable as long as they can live in this world".

Then I saw "Three-body" and felt that in this universe, everyone is a fragile ant, and there is no essential difference between people and even animals.

Because of inferiority, I don't like socializing, so I can calm down and listen to books or read books more than ordinary people.

I learned a lot in books, and I feel my soul has been enriched. I no longer care what others think of me, I just need to make myself fall in love with myself.

Strange to say, I have been studying like this for several years. After work, because of my stable mentality, I was promoted quickly and gradually became beautiful. Now the occasional inferiority complex can be cured quickly.

Tell you this story, in fact, I want to tell you that there are always people in this world who care about you silently, such as me.

Inferiority is an opportunity for growth. People with a little inferiority complex grow up faster than others. I hope you can find your own cure.

Love you, little baby.

Attached are newly inserted flowers to enjoy with you.

Nice to see you share. As an experienced person, I tell you that I used to feel fat and ugly, and I felt inferior for a long time and didn't want to get together with my classmates. Later, I got the first place in my class in math, and my confidence suddenly doubled. I suggest you find your own bright spot, then set a goal and achieve it step by step, which will increase your confidence. I wish you an early recovery of confidence [pray]

Inferiority often invisibly magnifies a shortcoming that you care about. In fact, this shortcoming is often insignificant.

I have a shortcoming. My voice is terrible, but I never knew it. Later, I recorded my own voice, only to know that my voice was so ugly. If I found out when I was a child, I would talk as little as possible. Fortunately, I think my voice is beautiful. After all, my own voice is different from what others hear.

So even if your shortcomings have risen to the level of defects (shortcomings can be corrected, defects can not be completely corrected), others may not really care so much. Even though defects sometimes attract the attention of others, if you don't care, or even know, you won't feel inferior at all.

Of course, there are shortcomings to be corrected and there are defects to be corrected. Don't feel inferior, be kind to yourself.

In the early 1960 s, after I finished my third grade in the countryside, I transferred to Beijing to study. At that time, the rural education conditions were poor, and it was a double teaching, that is, one classroom had two classes, one teacher taught and the other taught by himself. This kind of learning progress is definitely much worse than Beijing. Not counting this, rural teachers still use the old pinyin to teach, but they have changed the new pinyin. The teacher's reading is different from Mandarin. I can't understand it when I go to Beijing. I am full of local accent and dare not speak. You can't play together I feel inferior. And parents are very strict, and they have to be trained if they don't do well in the exam.

At that time, I got into the habit of stupid birds flying first. It only took me half a semester to get into the top ten in my class, and later I became a member of the squadron leader's team.

As long as you don't give up, it's most important to be yourself.

It's sad to see such a problem. I don't know why I feel inferior. I felt inferior at school, because my family was poor and I was still fat. But I have been studying hard and my grades are ok. I think the advantage of finding yourself is your grades. Although it is very utilitarian, your good grades will definitely get rid of a lot of inferiority. I hope you come on!

In fact, everyone has inferiority complex, which is a normal psychological state. Don't be afraid. It's good to be aware of your inferiority complex, face it squarely, and you can ask questions. So how to get rid of inferiority complex?

First, find the root of inferiority complex. There are many reasons for inferiority complex, but the discipline of parents and relatives often has a deep influence on children's inferiority complex. So, think about what kind of complex your inferiority complex comes from, find this complex and take targeted actions to change it.

Second, establish self-confidence, that is, do your own thing well. As a student, the most important thing is to study hard, so you must go to school, study hard and get good grades. After studying well, self-confidence is gradually established. If your academic performance is really poor, then look for your strengths, develop your strengths, cultivate your self-confidence, and of course study hard.

Third, read more books, watch books, and all kinds of books can be accumulated. As the saying goes, "Poetry is full of books". If you make yourself a better person, you can get rid of inferiority.

Fourth, express yourself boldly and don't be afraid to say the wrong thing. Be a real person and say whatever you want. Communicate actively with others, so that you can make more friends.

Fifth, cultivate your hobbies and enrich yourself.