Who should do housework and how to plan scientifically without being stingy?

"My mother's generation are women who do housework. Why are you so melodramatic, doing housework with that man? What should I do if I marry you back? "

"I also go to work when you go to work. I must come back from work to take care of you and your children. Why should I do this? "

I believe too many people have heard and seen this quarrel. Due to the infection of traditional ideas, too many people still acquiesce that housework can only be done by women. Whether you are sick or busy, you can only do these things by yourself.

I still remember when I was a child, many northerners ate in the yard in summer, with a big round table and a small Mazar. My dad lifted his legs and kicked Mazar after dinner, and he continued to lift his legs. My mother said with a smile, you don't need help to travel. A joke reflects the division of labor in general cognition. Even if my father loves my mother very much, he only helps her cook a little meal occasionally. Even if mother has a job and is busy, she will still do housework.

Who should do the housework and how does your family decide?

There used to be a joke about this, and you didn't help when the oil bottle fell. Although this is a two-part allegorical saying, it is a vivid truth.

Later, I had my own small family and got used to cleaning, so housework was not a big problem. I don't complain because I like it. Cleanliness depends on diligence. My wife is more casual and not aggressive. Although I buy food and cook, I usually buy a lot of vegetables, cut them and put them in the refrigerator. It's not too late to go home and cook.

I like cooking, my wife hates washing dishes, I do everything, and my wife understands my hard work.

Some men with families occasionally help. After they can't see what they are doing, women will never help when they take over, but women will complain that he is too lazy.

In more families, wives rush to pick up their children from work, buy food, cook, clean, wash clothes, wash dishes and mop the floor, watch their children study, put them to bed and prepare breakfast for the next day. And my husband, eating, watching TV, playing mobile phone, lying down, even feel comfortable picking and choosing.

Children often say, "Mom, I'm thirsty; Mom, I'm hungry. Mom, where is it? " Where is my father at this time? Isn't this home? The whole? It is said that home is a harbor, but the harbor can't be dispatched by one person.

A person is too busy and inconsiderate, and complaints gradually begin to increase.

A person's heart is cold, starting with the other person not caring about his feelings.

In 2020, the divorce rate soared, and 75% people were divorced by their wives. The number one reason is no longer domestic violence or derailment, but daily chores and housework.

With the progress of society, the past era of "chicken with chicken, dog with dog" is gone forever. Women also have the initiative in marriage and no longer tolerate a seemingly integrated but endless critical life.

There is temperature at home, and some people begin to change. I get off work early, and I'll come back to help you cook and sweep the floor when I have time. Shouldn't this be shared by the family? Are you helping an outsider?

The family belongs to two people, and the housework should be shared by two people. I understand your hard work, and you feel sorry for my efforts.

In life, we should be more tolerant and understanding, help each other, and don't haggle over who is more and who is less. Home is a harbor for two people.

You cook, I pick vegetables, you cook, I prepare vegetables, whoever has time to pick up the children, you sweep the floor and I clean the table.

Even if you have no time, you should do it as long as you have free time. Even if you don't do well, women pay more attention to their attitude towards their families and won't intervene to correct them. Life is to be done together. Even if you make a mess, your efforts will show her efforts, interaction and participation.

The durability of marriage is neither easy nor difficult.