"Hello, Qiao An" - The best friendship is between Ni Hao and Qiao An

What is the best friendship?

Some people say that the friendship between Zhang Ailing and Kuang Wenmei is the best friendship, while others say that the friendship between Li Shutong and Xu Huanyuan is the real friendship. I once thought that the friendship between Hassan and Amir is eternal; I once thought that the friendship between Qiu Yingying and Guan Guan in "Ode to Joy" is the best friendship that can be expected in reality; I once thought that the friendship between Anthony and Sakura's friendship is the indispensable friendship between gentlemen.

But I have met a lot of people, read a lot of books, listened to a lot of stories, watched a lot of movies, and written a few friendship articles. Although I was a little touched in my heart, I have never been able to find the natural feeling and taste of true friendship.

I have been thinking about what the best friendship is, but I have never found the answer. Zhang Ailing and Kuang Wenmei, Boya and Ziqi, Li Shutong and Xu Huanyuan, their friendship may only be truly understood after experiencing it. Hassan and Amir are separated by status but mostly by family affection; Qiu Yingying and Guan Guan are separated by rules but mostly by reality; Anthony and Sakura are separated by distance but mostly by love.

As time went by, I discovered that perhaps the best friendship could only be the friendship between Doraemon and Nobita in the Japanese cartoon Doraemon. Because there is no conflict of interest, no distance or selfishness, and we do not live in the same world. Only in dreamy fairy tales can the best friendship bloom with gorgeous flowers, but in reality, we cannot expect or cannot get.

As I grew up, I gradually understood some things, and gradually understood that some people should fade out of their own world as a matter of course. I always secretly told myself to get used to drifting apart, and I also experienced the final change in my mentality towards friendship from expectations, to disappointment, to finally letting nature take its course. In this hustle and bustle era, I finally gradually fell in love with a person's state, gradually began to force myself to be independent and silent, and finally understood that the so-called best friendship in reality is that everyone is busy and cares about each other. It's just cruel that if you don't look for me and I don't look for you, the best friendship may end up as strangers.

I have always liked the friendship between Kirihara Ryoji and Akizawa Yukiho in "White Night Walk" that "depends on each other but works independently". I think, perhaps, that is the best friendship in reality. Come on. It wasn't until I recently watched "Hello Qiao An", a TV series that was neither good nor bad, that I discovered that the best friendship is the relationship between Ni Hao and Qiao An.

The meeting between Qiao An and Ni Hao seemed like a beautiful and bright dream. When the thin and beautiful Qiao An was bullied by the boys, the simple and innocent Ni Hao appeared by her side to protect her. The bell rang, and the two girls smiled at each other and walked into the class hand in hand. They had a beautiful and innocent time, but ended up on two different life trajectories. I have been thinking that the strong and beautiful Qiao An and the mediocre and simple Ni Hao were not in the same world from the beginning. The two of them will have no intersection at all in the future, just like me and my best friend.

The story begins with Qiao An being heartbroken and desperate. Qiao An, who had no house to live in, stayed in the house shared by her friend Ni Hao and her boyfriend. Without any courtesy, she occupied Ni Hao's well-lit bedroom, while Ni Hao could only accept her with a helpless smile and a touch of doting. . When her boyfriend protested, Ni Hao took the diamond bracelet given by Qiao An and stupidly explained: "Who made her my best friend?"

In this scene, the director and screenwriter handled the friendship very realistically. I always give my friends something when they do something for me. It’s not about looking outside, but about being grateful. Friendship has nothing to do with material things, but it is not the same as selflessness. I don't want to dedicate myself to you because I want something, but I need you to know how good I am to you. Friendship, no matter how strong it is, can also make people full of insecurities. Qiao An's diamond bracelet, perhaps, just means that I know your good attitude towards me.

The subsequent plot is Qiao An’s love and business war. While Ni Hao simply acted coquettishly towards Qiao An in "Eating and Waiting to Die", Qiao An was speechless and endured his friend's naivety despite his shrewd calculations. Ni Hao and Qiao An spent their days getting along with each other in such a mild way, and their friendship was naturally maintained. It wasn't until their friendship experienced betrayal, and when I thought there was no more intersection between the two, that I realized I was wrong. It turns out that the friendship between them is the best friendship, even though Ni Hao has paid more. And I seem to have this precious and ordinary friendship.

In order to sign an order from the company, Qiao An leaked the important contents of the recording pen that Ni Haoqian and Wan had asked about Ni Hao's good friend Xiaohong. She won orders and praise, but betrayed Ni Hao, who treated her wholeheartedly. Ni Hao was misunderstood by his friend Chen George as a duplicitous person, and his friendship with George ended unhappy.

I don’t understand why Ni Hao didn’t explain or try to persuade her to stay, but chose to leave the job she liked. When I saw Ni Hao's monologue, I realized that maybe, even if their friendship breaks down, they can't bear to hurt the other person they once talked about. Therefore, it is better to bear it silently.

Finally, Ni Hao and Qiao An met in the company. Qiao An listened to the customer's speech and looked at Ni Hao who was about to leave. Ni Hao looked at Qiao An's back and said to himself blankly: "From now on, there will be no one here that I miss anymore."

I thought this was the end of the story, but I didn't expect what would happen next. story. After getting on the elevator, Qiao An caught a glimpse of some people in the gap, but it was in vain to rush out of the elevator. As a result, the noble and elegant girl took off her high heels and ran downstairs without any trace of grace. I thought she was concerned about her love and her work this time, but I was wrong again.

When Ni Hao was poured downstairs from the company by her friend Xiaohong who came for revenge with a bucket of red paint, Qiao An appeared beside her, silently protecting the helpless girl. she. When Ni Hao was watched and pointed at by everyone, Qiao An took her away and frantically found a taxi to take her to the hospital.

When I saw the selfish and powerful Qiao An frantically throwing all her money to the taxi driver who had finally stopped her, begging the driver to go to the hospital quickly, when I saw the The cold and ruthless Qiao An tried his best to tell cold jokes to the crying and helpless Ni Hao in the taxi. When he was making faces, I suddenly forgave Qiao An for his betrayal of Ni Hao, and also felt sorry for this simple and complicated love. Friendship leaves tears unconsciously.

In the end, Ni Hao, accompanied by Qiao An, dealt with the red paint. Unknowingly, the two returned to their previous relationship, laughing and joking as if the betrayal had never happened.

Friendship is also a wonderful thing. Although friendship is always praised too highly by the world, it loses its authenticity and personal nature. Even though I can’t help me gather and disperse, and even though I can’t help but drag old people along, even though my friends and I can’t go back to the innocent days when we could look at each other and giggle for half an hour, even though everyone has a selfish side, but in this world In this era when people's hearts are becoming more and more indifferent, and at an age when we have fewer and fewer friends, we still want to protect the youthful friendship that is getting further and further away, and we still silently hope for the best friendship.

Ni Hao said: "The best friends are those who can speak cruelly, make noises, break off friendships, and be so bold that they don't care about any of the other person's feelings, but they will never allow others to hurt each other. Reconciliation is often as simple as: 'Let's go home together after school.' If you think of someone when you see our story, then that person must be the person you hate the most and also your best friend."

That's true. , seeing their stories, I thought of my best friend, also saw myself, and understood the meaning of tolerance. The best friendship is when you face the other person's selfishness but still can't bear to walk away. When the other person is hurt, you feel more distressed than the other person. Even if two people have nothing to do with each other in the end, a smile or a small gesture from each other will bring each other back to a warm friendship. The relationship between the two does not need to be maintained. Even if they are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, there will be no jet lag. No matter what kind of quarrels and breaks occur, when the other party looks back, he will always be there.

I think that many people have the story of Ni Hao and Qiao An in their youth, and many people will also see their own shadow in the story of Ni Hao and Qiao An, and think of the story that made them The helpless best friend. If you are Ni Hao, please be more patient and waiting for friendship. If you are Qiao An, please be more selfless and considerate.

The best friendship requires the tenderness of time and careful care of each other. I hope every lonely person can have the best friendship in reality like Ni Hao and Qiao An.