You are reborn from the ashes

? (1) After Cancer Surgery

I wanted to write about someone a long time ago, but I was just too lazy to put it off again and again. I have to touch the screen of my phone tonight and use my phone. Record a special person in your life.

Speaking of her specialness, it can almost be described as unfortunate. It is just like the plot on TV. All the misfortunes in life "favor" her.

In 2011, when she was 53 years old, she underwent gallbladder removal surgery. Uterine cancer was diagnosed in 2013, and she underwent a hysterectomy that year. Her postoperative recovery seems to be going well, as she has a cheerful and optimistic heart. In 2014, during a follow-up examination after cancer surgery, the cancer cells had spread to some extent, but she still faced it very optimistically. She still talked and laughed when she saw us every day, and she didn't look like a cancer patient at all. It was also in 2014 that I met her. Because of her optimism and positive attitude towards life in the face of illness, we both admired and liked her very much and affectionately called her "godmother".

She originally thought that her godmother’s life would be peaceful like this, but God seemed to have played a big joke on her.

(2) Disaster strikes? Rebirth from the ashes

On the morning of May 31, 2015, the godmother and her four people drove an electric tricycle to Suining, Sichuan for sightseeing. Unexpectedly, around 10:10, a major traffic accident occurred at the Wu'an River intersection at the entrance to the south fishing road in Shehong County. A large truck collided with the elderly electric tricycle they were driving, causing the elderly electric tricycle to catch fire on the spot. , one person was burned to death on the spot and turned into a skeleton, and the other three were sent to the hospital for rescue by 120. The scene was horrific.

Among the three injured, the other two had minor injuries. Only the godmother's burn area was the largest, reaching more than 60%, which was a very severe burn. Her burns were also the most severe. They were III-degree burns. The pinna of her left ear was almost burned away, which shows how deep the burns were.

Later, she didn’t know how she was sent to the hospital because she was in complete shock from the pain. When her godmother regained consciousness, she could not accept the fact that she wanted to end her life hysterically, because it was better to die happily than to live in such pain.

When she was helpless, hesitant, desperate and painful, it was the doctors and nurses in the hospital who cheered her up; it was her wife and son who accompanied her all the time who gave her family encouragement; and we, the group of The health angel conveyed youthful vitality to her, allowing her to endure five long months in the hospital with pain but full of hope.

I still remember that in June of that midsummer, more than ten days after her accident, two of my colleagues rushed to the hospital where she was staying in Suining to see her. My colleagues told me that they smelled the smell of burning meat before they even entered the ward. In the height of summer, the smell was even stronger. But they endured the pungent smell and walked into the ward.

Oh my god, I saw the godmother’s upper body was naked, her entire back was burned, and there was still pus (she couldn’t wear clothes at all). 3/4 of the scalp was burned, and only a little bit of the left ear could be seen. The moment they looked at each other, they burst into tears because the scene was so tragic.

The godmother cried and told them that she really didn’t want to live anymore. Every day when the nurse used medical scissors to cut the burned flesh, the excruciating pain made her unbearable. She can't move every day, so she relies on her wife and son to take good care of her. The godmother felt that instead of being in such pain and dragging down her family, it would be better to have a good time and leave. After hearing what she said, my colleague tried his best to dissuade and encourage her, telling her to get better and not let her wife, son and all of us down.

Later, they chatted with their godmother about many happy things to make her happy, distract her attention, and give her confidence and hope in herself.

This is indeed the case. After being transferred to three hospitals and receiving treatment for five months, nearly 200,000 yuan was spent on treatment. In the end, due to the fruitless negotiation between the two parties, the patient was unable to receive medical compensation in time. They had no money for medical treatment themselves, so the godmother had to be discharged from the hospital and go home to recuperate.

I still remember that on November 2nd of that year, we held a group birthday party for our customers, and my godmother’s wife attended. This is the first time they have appeared in front of all of us since their accident. When we saw our godmother, we were all impressed by her strength.

At that time, she could not walk with long strides, but could only walk very carefully; she could not raise her head very high, nor could she turn her head left and right; she could not eat by herself with her hands, so she had to rely on family members to feed her. My ears were also burned because my hearing was not very good before and my hearing was even worse after this accident. After all, these serious burns still take a certain amount of time to recover slowly.

At the birthday party, we briefly described to everyone the misfortune that happened to her, the miracle of her survival, and her great courage to endure the pain and cooperate with treatment. She also told everyone a few words. She said that although she suffered a serious car accident, she at least had a life and was full of confidence in her future life. Everyone present was moved and gave a thumbs up to their godmother.

Under the careful care of her family and her own strength, she comes to our store every day to chat and have fun. It's been more than two years, and my godmother's burns are recovering well. But it still left a lot of scars. After all, it was a very severe burn.

Scars are undoubtedly a flaw for a woman, especially for her who loves beauty. But she didn't care about this. Except for the scar on her face, she had almost all other scars. In this hot summer, although there are many scars on her legs, she still wears a skirt; although her neck is full of scars, she still wears a necklace; although the left auricle is almost completely missing, the right earlobe is left. , but she still wore an earring. But no matter how hot it is, she has to wear a hat, because her head is almost covered with scars, and there is only a bunch of hair on her forehead.

If my godmother encountered such a tragic situation, if it were me, you, or him, I might not be as strong as her. First of all, some of the first hurdles would not be passed. When their godmother was diagnosed with cancer in 2013, some people were afraid of death as soon as they heard they had cancer. As a result, the more afraid they were, the faster the cancer cells spread and the faster people walked. People often say that many cancers are caused by fear, not pain. I once read a report saying that a person was diagnosed with terminal cancer. He did not go for radiotherapy, chemotherapy or surgery. Instead, he chose to travel alone. As a result, he traveled for more than a year. In the final review, it was found that his cancer was terminal. Miraculously healed. This mainly refers to a person's mentality problem, and she successfully passed the first level.

The second level is the serious car accident she suffered three years ago. Some of them were severely burned like hers, and they were probably scared to death. Even if he wasn't scared to death, the pain would probably be excruciating! And my godmother stayed in the hospital for five months, with more than 1,800 days and nights. It was like a year of suffering! But she survived this life-and-death hurdle with extraordinary human perseverance. This has to be said to be a miracle.

The third level is her daily life after being discharged from the hospital. For a woman who has scars covering 80% of her body and loves beauty, it must be difficult to accept her appearance. If it were me, I wouldn't be able to face my future life, especially if I can't dress well. Some beauties have scars on their legs or bodies and dare not wear clothes that reveal the scars for fear of being laughed at. This is still a matter of one's mentality, and the godmother only cares about her own comfort, so why does she care about other people's cold looks? It can be seen that her mentality is so good.

(3) Thank you for having you

Now she is back to the lively, cheerful and laughing person she was before the accident. My godmother not only has a very good attitude and a very strong heart, but she is also very kind-hearted. She said that each of us cared about encouraging and helping her after her accident, and she could not just rely on words to express gratitude, but should use practical actions to express gratitude.

Because two other female colleagues and I affectionately call her godmother, she also happily recognizes the three of us as her goddaughters (she has no daughter, only one son, and She has not yet started a family, which are her two biggest regrets in life.) So she is always the first to think of something good, especially when she happens to see a beautiful woman wearing a beautiful dress, she will think, How beautiful it would be if we put it on too.

Once, she saw a beautiful woman wearing a blue waist-length jacket and sweater with a white long-sleeved T-shirt underneath. She said she looked very good, and even took me to see it. I took a look at the beauty's dress, and it looked really good. So she thought about knitting a sweater like that for each of the three of us. Not long after, my godmother called me to her house to try on the dress. I really admire her ingenuity. She knitted her ideal sweater just by looking at the clothes she was wearing.

Later, she knitted sweaters for two of my colleagues. When we put on the sweaters she knitted, they didn’t believe it was hand-knitted and thought it was knitted by a purchased machine. Everyone said the weaving was so beautiful and the hands were so skillful. Not to mention how happy we are.

Not only that, she also embroidered cross stitch and made diamond paintings every day, framed them and gave them to every kind person who helped her when she was in trouble. According to her, she has given away more than twenty pairs of cross-stitches and diamond paintings. One of them was given to me and a colleague. She gave me a pair because she heard that we bought a new house and would hang it in the new house in the future. It shows that she has thought too carefully. She spends a quarter of a 24-hour day doing cross stitch or diamond painting. In her words, after all, the cancer cells were spreading after previous re-examinations, and she still had a dull pain in her abdomen from time to time. She was afraid that one day she would suddenly pass away, and there were still many things to do, so she had to seize every day of her life. To repay all the kind people who care, encourage and support her.

My godmother is not only skillful with her hands, but also has a very smart heart and brain. Every time she saw something and felt something, she could always blurt out a rhyming poem. Last year, we *** had six colleagues, so she wrote an acrostic poem for each of our colleagues. In addition to each person’s name being hidden at the beginning of the poem, there were also beautiful blessings for each person. It was really It's rare. No, when we were together a few afternoons ago, she wrote another poem for herself, me and a client aunt. This is what she is particularly good at. As long as you give a topic, she will think about it for a while and it will come out in rhyming and catchy form. We all really admire her for picking up the things at her fingertips and speaking them in a coherent manner.

They say this summer will be extremely hot, and it is true. Even though I was sitting and fanning myself, my clothes still got wet. I thought to myself, it would be great if I had a cup of pumpkin and mung bean soup or wolfberry and white fungus soup when I go to work in the afternoon. No, my godmother's house is very close to my work, only a few minutes away. So every time she made red date and white fungus soup, she would personally give me a cup to relieve the heat. After drinking one cup, I felt extremely refreshing instantly. My godmother is so warm-hearted and always likes to think about others. Although my mother is not with me, I fully feel the strong maternal love from her.

In addition, my godmother especially likes to be lively, singing and dancing. It's a pity that she only has weak hearing in one ear (the hearing was greatly reduced after cancer, and in this serious car accident, one ear was seriously injured, which further reduced the hearing). Despite this, she still danced based on her feelings. On the beat. Every time she comes to the store, I always see her twisting her waist while walking, and then hear her hearty laughter. She is such a person who can always bring joy to others.

For her, if you just rely on her every move, smile, and word, you will never believe that she has encountered so many serious misfortunes. Although she only has one child, and her son is over 30 years old and has not yet started a family, for many parents, they can't let it go and look sad all day long. But she is very relaxed, because she understands that children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, and no matter how anxious they are, it will not help. Moreover, she also understood how much disaster she had experienced before she was lucky enough to survive. Therefore, she cherishes every day now even more.

Many people feel that God is so unfair to their godmother, and they all feel sorry for her. In fact, God is fair to everyone, because when he closes a door, he opens another window for you, and the position of this window is better than the position of the door, and the light comes in through the window. The sunlight is brighter than the sunlight coming in through the door, isn't it?

Indeed, her talents and such an optimistic and positive attitude towards life are unmatched by many of us ordinary people. If you survive the disaster, you will be blessed later. I sincerely hope and wish you a healthy life after rebirth!