What do you think of those people who talk about big principles every day?

What do you think of those people who talk about big principles every day?

There are two aspects to evaluate. One is that people who talk about big principles set an example and act accordingly. That's very good. He may have gone through a period of confusion and hesitation, and he hopes his words can serve as a warning. I hope people will make less detours in the future

The other kind is to just talk without practicing. I think such people also hope to have good cases to convince others, but they fail to do so, but they also want others to do the same. It’s a kind of contradictory and complicated psychology

But when you look at people, you have to think on the bright side. Since you say it is a great truth, there is a reason for it, so when you encounter someone like this, it is Accept the good points and just laugh away the bad ones. What do you think of those people who talk about great principles but fool around all day long?

I can only say that everyone has different characteristics and what they are good at. , he may just lack a person who positively inspires him, or a platform that can give him a platform to realize his ambitions.

However, the shortcomings of this type of people are also very obvious, that is, they exaggerate and give people the impression that they are not practical enough and unreliable. How to treat people who talk about great principles

If the purpose of talking about great principles is to educate others, it is arrogance. In a philosophical sense, it means that the recognition of oneself has reached a new level and he hopes that others will follow his example. go ahead. This is arrogance and arrogance.

If the principle is just to avoid getting hurt, from a philosophical point of view it is a way to protect the heart, but you don’t know how to protect it, etc.

Another way is to let the other person follow your own ideas for your own purposes, also known as guidance! How do you deal with people of your own age who like to talk big things?

1. Small truths. Tell a girl not to have sex with a man before she gets married. This is not good for you. 2. Big truths. Tell a girl not to have sex with a boy before getting married. If they break up in the future, other boys will not marry a girl who has lost her virginity. Another example is 1. Small truth, boss, stop selling fake goods. This is not cheating. Consumers? The short story contains great truths. Do you understand these great truths?

The self-destructive scorpion. One day, a frog was sitting by the river. A scorpion passed by and said to it: "Mr. Frog , I want to cross the river, but I am a scorpion and can’t swim. Can you show mercy and let me sit on your back to cross the river?”

The frog said: “But you are a scorpion. Scorpions like to sting frogs the most!"

The scorpion said: "Why should I sting you? I just want to go to the other side!" "Okay!" said the frog, "Climb on my back. Go over there." As soon as they reached the middle of the river, the scorpion stung the frog hard. The frog struggled painfully and asked, "Why did you sting me? Now, both of us will drown!" The scorpion said, "Because I am a scorpion, and scorpions just like to sting frogs!" The inspiration is to be careful around you. Scorpion”! Some people don't care even if they "drown" themselves as long as they can drag others into the water!

The conch shelled by the shell is quite hard. It lives a carefree life because it is convinced that no one can hurt it as long as it does not stick its head out. My friend Butterfly Fish said enviously: "Brother Conch, your vitals are really well protected. As long as you cover the shell, no one can hurt you. This is indeed a very beautiful structure."

The conch is very beautiful. He said confidently: "As long as I do this, I won't have any troubles." At this time, there was a sudden "ding" sound, and the conch immediately closed its shell tightly: "What is the sound? Is it a fishhook? I used to This has happened before, so don’t be careless. Maybe the butterfly fish has been captured. I don’t know what happened to it now. Fortunately, I am still alive. I should be grateful for my hard shell! ” p>

After a period of time, the conch thought to himself: "It should be no problem to open the shell now!" So he stretched out his head and looked around, but he felt that the surrounding environment was quite unfamiliar. After taking a closer look, it turned out that he had a "50 Yuan" sign on his body and it was placed on the stall of the seafood shop.

It reveals that life is impermanent and nothing remains the same forever. If you stick to fixed ideas, you will never be able to break through yourself and achieve perfection. We should free up a corner of our minds to accept the opinions of our friends.

A dead snake that bites people. Rattlesnakes are abundant in Arizona, where venomous snake bites often occur. Rattlesnakes are highly venomous and can be life-threatening if an injured person does not receive immediate treatment. A Phoenix hospital in Arizona once made statistics on emergency room patients bitten by rattlesnakes and unexpectedly found that many patients were bitten by dead snakes and even died.

Some of those dead snakes were shot to death, and some were hacked to death with knives. The snake's body had been chopped into two pieces. When an inexperienced person touched it with his hand, the dead snake's head suddenly popped up. , bite him hard. In medicine, this is called "conditioned reflex". Experiments have shown that an hour after a snake's head is cut off, its muscles can still make a powerful bite.

It reveals that inexperienced and negligent people are most likely to be harmed by "dead snakes". Bad habits and opponents are like dead poisonous snakes. They seem to be eradicated, but they hide the greatest danger. We must be vigilant. The old pheasant made mistakes again and again. The old pheasant found that he was missing a chicken. After analysis, he finally concluded that the little white rabbit had eaten it. The reasons are: 1. The little white rabbit was very close to it, obviously to steal the chickens; 2. As the saying goes, "rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests", it doesn't eat grass, so of course it eats meat; 3. Its ears are so big It is large, making it easier to listen to all directions, which is what is needed for stealing; 4. It has a pair of red eyes, which is certainly not a good thing; 5. Its tail is very short, and it must have been caught in a hunting trap when stealing a pheasant.

Just when the old pheasant concluded that the little white rabbit had stolen the chick, its baby came back jumping. It turned out that the little chicken got lost while playing outside and failed to come back in time. The old pheasant repented: "I really wronged the little white rabbit! It is a little animal that has been fucked. How can I doubt it?"

So the old pheasant started again. With new ideas and judgments. 1. The little white rabbit is so close to me, probably because it is afraid of jackals and wants to be my companion; 2. As the saying goes, "rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests", and they don't even eat "grass beside their nests". This is exactly how kind it is. ; 3. Its big ears must have grown so big to prevent robbers from harming it; 4. Its eyes must have been red from crying because the jackals bullied it; 5. Its tail must have been bitten by the jackals chasing it. Went halfway.

It is not difficult to see that the old pheasant’s two analyzes and judgments about the little white rabbit were wrong. In fact, all the characteristics of the little white rabbit are evolved from generation to generation as rabbits adapt to their living environment, and have no necessary relationship with the old pheasant. If the old pheasant only analyzes things based on its own gains and losses, likes and dislikes, it will inevitably not be able to find the essence of the problem. Monkeys in the Amazon River An Australian zoologist brought back two monkeys from the Amazon River Basin, one was extremely strong and the other was thin and frail. He kept them in two cages, fed them carefully every day, and observed their living habits. A year later, the big monkey died inexplicably, but the little one lived well. In order not to interrupt the research, he asked someone to bring another one from Brazil. This one was bigger than the original dead one, but within half a year, it also died. In order to find out the reason, he conducted anatomy on the bodies of the two dead monkeys, but he could not find the reason from beginning to end.

In 1971, he returned to the Amazon to study the monkeys there. It was found that all monkeys with large and strong bodies have better "popularity" relationships. When other monkeys get food, they can always share a share. But this type of monkey rarely stays still. Whenever they have free time, they shuttle among the monkeys, chasing or playing with other monkeys. However, once captured, these monkeys rarely survive more than a year. The monkeys who like to bask in the sun and close their eyes to meditate are different. Because they do not belong to the group, they rarely share the food of other monkeys. These monkeys are relatively weak, but they can survive after being caught.

Revelation: A life lacking communication is a flaw, and a life lacking solitude is a disaster. The world of monkeys is like this, and the world of humans is also like this.

The deceived goat

A fox stumbled and fell into the well. No matter how hard it struggled, it could not climb up and had to stay there. A male goat felt extremely thirsty. When he came to the well, he saw the fox under the well and asked him: "Is the well water good to drink?" The fox felt that an opportunity had come, and was secretly happy. He immediately calmed down and praised the well water. It tasted good, and he said that this water was the best spring in the world, sweet and refreshing, and advised the goat to come down quickly and drink with it.

Believing that the goat only wanted to drink water, it jumped down without thinking. When it finished drinking, it had to discuss with the fox how to get to the well. The fox was well prepared, and said slyly: "I have a way. You put your front feet on the wall of the well, and then straighten your horns. I will jump up to the well from your back, and then pull you up, and we will all be together." Saved."

The billy goat agreed to its proposal, and the fox stepped on the goat's hind feet, jumped on its back, and then jumped out of the well with a powerful jump from its horns. After the fox went up, he was ready to escape alone.

The billy goat accused the fox of not keeping his promise. The fox turned back to the billy goat and said, "Hey, friend, if your mind was as perfect as your beard, you wouldn't have jumped blindly before you could see the exit clearly."

Enlightenment Don't easily believe other people's inducements, and always maintain your own clear judgment. Smart people should consider the consequences of things before taking action.

Telling the truth about life

Earn money... don’t let your woman be wronged, don’t let your children become as worthless as you. Great Principles of Life

There are many, many important things in life. But the most important thing is - one word . Treat people , use feelings , and do things ...

People are afraid that if they pay, they will not get anything in return. I never believe that you don’t care about your efforts and don’t want to get anything in return. The first time you pay, you will get deception or hurt, and the second time you will get nothing in return. You will be afraid, and you will be defensive the third time... You will no longer be willing to pay in the future. This is how people lose confidence in themselves and others. This is how people lose !

There are many You don’t have to be too serious and persistent about things. Many people may not agree with your own ideas. There are many things that you can only see in books and hear about in your ears. They may not actually happen to you. You may not be able to have them.

There will be many choices in life, and there will be a lot of helplessness. There is no need to change anything. People are like countless stones in the sea. They begin to have edges and corners. After countless impacts and beatings from the sea, they all change. Sleek, shiny, and bright. But, I lost myself. I might be more suitable for society, but I lost my me.

Life is like clouds, sometimes floating high in the sky, sometimes turning into rain When it falls on the ground, it is sometimes white and sometimes gray. Anyway, life is wonderful. Only you can draw conclusions about him based on your own life. . The meaning of life, if you are yearning for and searching for some meaning in life, it means that for you now, or in your subconscious, your life is no longer meaningful enough, or lacks meaning, or has no meaning. You cannot accept this state of affairs, you are confused and distressed by it! Needless to say, you must have encountered problems in reality: for example, you did not get into your ideal university, for example, the person you loved left you, for example, you did not receive a salary increase because of your seniority assessment, for example, you did not have money to buy an apartment. If you don’t have money to marry a wife, for example, you want to be a principal but someone else takes the position first, etc. Look at how many people in life find it difficult to do what they want, so most people will say: Life is short, and this world is a world of troubles! Therefore, Christianity says that people are born sinful, and Buddhism says that everyone is in pain. It is because you have tasted pain in the process of pursuit that you will think about the nature of life and the meaning of living! In a word, the so-called meaning of life is ideal and desire. If you want to maintain your desires without suffering pain, you have to acknowledge and accept the pain caused by your desires. Yes, when you think about success, you also have to welcome failure; when you think about progress, you also have to welcome falling; when you think about the gains in life, you also have to welcome the losses in life; when you think about the meaning of life, You also have to welcome the meaninglessness of life! If you can't do this, then you can only enter the spiritual world of religion in order to reduce or relieve your dissatisfaction.

What is the closest thing to a person to the truth? That is what I talked about at the beginning of the article: living naturally. The meaning of life lies in living itself and in the process of living! Whether it is ups and downs, or joys and sorrows; whether you are living as weakly as a piece of grass, or living as brilliantly as the sun, as long as you accept yourself as yourself and experience your living life sincerely and sacredly, that is the truth of nature. , is the meaning of life!

Live just live, like a flower blooming quietly, like a drop of rain falling quietly. The process of flower blooming and rain falling is the "meaning itself!" Of course, you can also think about it. What’s the point? Yes, it’s meaningless! What’s the point of the entire human race? What’s the point of the entire universe? When you can calmly accept living without meaning, you will live comfortably and naturally! If you regard yourself as different from nature, nature will definitely abandon you. How can you, who originally came from nature and will return to nature, fight against the laws of nature? Even highly developed science seems to be in trouble. Transform and conquer nature, but in the end, those who follow nature will prosper, and those who go against nature will perish. Look at the current earth, environmental pollution, diseases, rampant infectious diseases, desertification of green spaces, and wars. Civilization and science have already reached self-destruction. Wait, nature will prove everything! You know, nature seems weak and can be bullied, but it can always be soft and strong!

Fortunately, many people have realized that nature is now. The endless power of human beings can only develop healthily if they live in harmony with "nature", and a person's return to nature in life is not only an attitude of life survival, but also a need and necessity for self-exploration of life!

Okay, are you living naturally in front of me, or are you unnaturally chasing the meaningless so-called meaning of life? You should look more at the flowers blooming and listen more to the sound of the rain falling!

I hope it can help you ~ Is it useful to talk about some general principles?

It depends on the specific situation

If something has just happened and you need to solve it urgently, then actions are more important than principles.

If the matter has been resolved, you should reflect on it. These principles may save you from taking detours. Do you like others to talk about truth?

That’s because a person talks so many great principles, does he also act in accordance with his own great principles? I think a person’s views and principles are too many, but in his own life he doesn’t You may not do what you say, even if you only partially fail to do it, it will leave a bad impression in everyone's mind, because that person talks too much about the truth. Pan Yang's Dali

Principle Pan Yang

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I am willing to listen to your great principles

I am willing to give up my temper

If taste could be passed on

I will let you smell sincerity

Your smile has invincible melting power

Endless shelf life

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I was careless on purpose

I lost the remote control

I miss you uncontrollably

Duo Mi Duo Xiao Mi

Hurry up and accept the message of loving you

No worries

You are the only one I am looking for in this life

Doo Mi Doo Mi

Don’t ignore the interludes when watching the movie

No need to doubt

What you see is the secret in my heart

I am willing to listen to what you have to say Great truth

I am willing to give up my temper

If the taste can also be passed on

I will let you smell sincerity

Yours Laughter has invincible melting power

Endless shelf life

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I was careless on purpose

Lost the remote control

Missing you uncontrollably

Dou Mi Dou Mi

Hurry up and accept the message of loving you

No worries

You It’s the one and only one I’m looking for in this life

Dou Mi Dou Mi

Don’t ignore the interludes when watching movies

No need to doubt

What you see is the secret in my heart

Doooomi Doooomi

Show your magical power

As soon as I see you

I have to say

I love you