Why do some people use WeChat but never post to Moments?

When we are troubled by the frequent “showing off” in WeChat Moments, there are also some people who use WeChat but never post in WeChat Moments, and Shujun is not around.

There are also some such friends. By asking them, You Shujun found that the reasons why they use WeChat but never post to Moments can be roughly divided into two categories: active and passive. aspect.

The reason for actively not posting is due to various considerations, which are mainly divided into the following categories:

First, WeChat is only used to facilitate contact, and WeChat is only used as a A social tool that values ??the convenience and ease of contact via WeChat but doesn’t care much about the function of Moments.

For example, many people have dedicated WeChat accounts for work. They use WeChat mainly to contact work partners. They rarely even look at other people’s Moments, so naturally they don’t post it themselves.

Second, not posting in Moments is to protect personal privacy.

We often see reports that some people leak a lot of personal information by posting items and showing off their children in their Moments, which gives some fraudsters an opportunity to take advantage of them, causing a lot of losses and burying the consequences for their families and children. Safety hazard. These reports have alerted some people. If the friends added to WeChat are mixed, in order to protect their privacy, they will not post in Moments.

Third, I am busy at work and have no time to post, or there is no content to post.

Some people are too busy, rushing around for work and life all day long. Their daily lives are the same, with nothing new, and naturally they have no time or content to post on Moments.

As for other people who don’t post in WeChat Moments, they have the time and energy and would like to post in WeChat Moments, but they have to do so due to some reasons. We call these “passive non-posting” and let others There are several reasons why they are passive and do not speak out:

First, they want to speak out but restrain themselves.

They do not want to be such a person and cause trouble to others, so they consciously restrain themselves from posting on Moments.

Second, I want to send it but I can’t.

This is mainly some elderly people who have just learned to use WeChat and are not familiar with some functions. Some people can’t even read Moments, so naturally they don’t know how to post.

Third, I want to say something but dare not.

If parents, leaders, ex-girlfriends, etc. are added to WeChat, and some aspects of your life are not visible to them, you will have to specifically block them every time you post in Moments, which is time-consuming and labor-intensive, so you might as well just Not sent.

For us, posting or not posting on Moments is everyone’s freedom and deserves our respect, but no matter what, we should look at Moments with a relaxed and comfortable mood, so that It becomes our help, not our burden.

The main purpose of WeChat is to allow more people to communicate with other people through this tool. Therefore, communication is its main function, and Moments is only one of its subsidiary functions. Others only use it. I don’t think you need any reason to communicate on WeChat instead of Moments.

First of all, let’s take a look at the reasons why people use WeChat Moments.

The second type of people are so-called micro-business people, or they need to achieve something through WeChat Moments. People with business purposes, so they need to carefully manage their circle of friends to let others know what kind of person they are. Through their circle of friends, they can even directly make profits. For example, we can see many people before Selling goods in the circle of friends has made a lot of money. Recently, some people have made money by distributing courses in the circle of friends. Then these people are all people who achieve business purposes through the circle of friends.

What about the last kind of person? They use the circle of friends as an ordinary function. They hope that their circle of friends can let their friends around them understand their life dynamics and share with them some things they think are good. Then such people are actually truly qualified. The definition of the circle of friends itself.

So what are people who don’t use Moments like?

The biggest part of them is because they feel that the information in Moments is too narrow. They can't restrain themselves from checking Moments every day, and regret the time they spend in checking Moments every day. There are too many, and nothing useful can be gained from them, because some of what their circle of friends may know is gossip rather than valuable knowledge and information, so they choose to close it directly. In addition, Some people want to keep their privacy and only let themselves know, and do not want to show anything about themselves to the outside world. Therefore, they feel that there is no need for such a thing as a circle of friends, so they close it.

First of all, the circle of friends in the WeChat software is just one of its many functions. Everyone uses WeChat for different purposes.

Some people just send voice messages to keep in touch with the people they care about. Like my mother, she posts in the family group almost every day, but almost never posts in Moments, because the function of Moments is of no use to her.

Because it is useless, I will not deliberately operate it.

It’s that simple.

On the other hand, for those who need to use Moments for impression management, in their eyes, the function of Moments is very useful.

For example, isn’t there a classic meme in the micro-business world: Congratulations to Mr. Fang for buying a Maserati today! Then under this sentence, add a photo of a beautiful woman and a Maserati, and a passionate circle of friends was born!

But in fact, what we know is that the so-called Mr. Fang is actually fake. The so-called Maserati is actually just a person who often goes in to take photos in 4S stores and then walks away in despair. That's all. The so-called buying a car is just nonsense.

But what you see in his circle of friends is that their income is more than 1,000 yuan every day. Every day they are either eating in a high-end 5-star hotel or chatting and laughing in a certain Japanese restaurant. One day I was either discussing big business with this boss, or giving advice on the country's policies.

Because they need to use the circle of friends to run their own business, they must live their best selves in the circle of friends.

As for how miserable life actually is, they don’t care.

As long as someone comes to the conclusion that they are a successful person through their circle of friends, that’s enough!

Thinking about it in reverse, there are three types of people who love to post on Moments.

The first type is those who really have nothing to do. They post some health articles or joke news. Occasionally they post photos of themselves, but no more than once a week. This type of person is harmless. And sometimes the content of the articles I post is really interesting.

The third type is WeChat business, which is either WeChat business or some public accounts that are tweeting. In short, they are a type of people who crazily swipe the screen for their own interests. Needless to say, this kind of people should be blocked. !

Most other people don’t like to post in Moments.

Some have just joined WeChat, and most of them have to open WeChat accounts just to pay with WeChat. Their friends also gather in some chat places such as QQ, so there is no point in posting in WeChat Moments. Either I am a Buddhist and feel that posting on Moments is boring, and I don’t want everyone to know my whereabouts, life, etc. There is another one that is the most heart-wrenching. Do you think the other person really doesn’t post on Moments? No, no, no, he just blocked you.

Nowadays, with the popularity of smart phones, many convenient software are emerging in endlessly, such as WeChat, QQ, Taobao, Alipay, etc. Even though everyone has WeChat, not everyone can post in Moments. Why is this?

Add each other as WeChat friends just to facilitate contact. WeChat provides free video chats under WIFI or mobile data. Compared with making phone calls and sending text messages, many people prefer to use WeChat to communicate, which is convenient and saves money.

Many people use WeChat but have no idea of ??reading or posting in Moments. Some people are too busy and have no interest in WeChat Moments, thinking that posting on Moments is a waste of time. It is also possible that the content posted by WeChat friends in Moments is vulgar and has no value, causing some people to not read, post or care about their own Moments.

Sometimes, posting to Moments depends to a certain extent on WeChat friends. For example, if a student has parents, relatives and teachers among his WeChat friends, he will not post pictures of his love life in the circle of friends because he does not want his parents, relatives and teachers to see his activities. If you have a boss among your WeChat friends, you should be even more careful about what you post to your circle of friends.

Nowadays, WeChat is widely used all over the world. WeChat scans the QR code when paying, WeChat group notifications when working, etc. Some people are used to QQ or other social software, but for these needs, they have to download a WeChat software to adapt to social trends. In more cases, they don’t know how to use WeChat, so they won’t post in some Moments.

Moments is a virtual space, and whether or not to post in Moments is a matter of personal freedom. When posting to Moments, you must be careful to prevent personal privacy leaks and protect yourself in the virtual space.

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Editor | Zhen Zhen

Who said others won’t post it? They just blocked you. They won't let you see the information you shouldn't see. Stop being so naive.

In WeChat, if you don’t want to see the messages sent by others, you can put that person into the “Don’t see his circle of friends” in the settings, but you can set others to not let them see you. Moments, it would be better to block him and delete him. There is no need to do anything unnecessary.

If you don’t want others to see all your Moments content, you can tag your friends, and when posting content in Moments, select the “Partial” view option, so that you can You choose to let others see your circle of friends. This function is very useful. It is difficult to delete some people in the circle of friends, and it is difficult for them to see all the contents. It is better to use this method.

However, if you can use this feature, others can too. You feel that others haven’t posted in Moments. The main reason is that that person has tagged you and you have been limitedly blocked, so you can’t see the messages they send.

In fact, it is very dangerous to post some information in the circle of friends, especially in the group. It is best to be cautious when speaking, otherwise you will be reported and betrayed by others. After all, the WeChat circle is too closed, and there are still few people. It is better to speak more cautiously.

I may have more say in this question, because I rarely post to Moments, basically no more than ten posts a year. I don’t seem to have posted anything about my personal life, nor have I posted selfies, nor have I posted pictures of scenery or food. I only repost my favorite articles or repost messages for friends.

I don’t know what social software everyone usually uses. Anyway, most of my family and friends use WeChat to communicate, and I rarely use QQ except for working in the company. It seems a little off track

Let’s talk about why I don’t post on Moments first! The following content only represents my personal opinion. There may be other reasons why others don’t post on Moments~

Personally, I think it has to do with people’s personalities---I’m the kind of person who doesn’t like to talk to others when I have something to do. People who say this usually write diaries to express their concerns, so posting on WeChat Moments feels that it will help others understand themselves and see what kind of person they are through WeChat Moments. But I don’t want to do this, because everyone has a different “self”! It's the same in front of family, the same in front of friends, the same in front of strangers, but it's completely different when you're alone.

The second is that there are people you like in your circle of friends, and there are also people you don’t like. I’m not used to sharing my sad, happy or whatever mood at that moment, especially in front of the person you like. Some people say we can group them together, just for lazy cancer patients.

The third one is that I am free whether I post it on Moments or not! What's wrong with you? Do I have to post on Moments every few days to prove that I'm still here!

We all know that with the emergence of the mobile Internet and the popularity of smartphones, almost everyone now has a smartphone. And the most used software product on everyone’s mobile phone is undoubtedly WeChat.

With more than 1 billion daily transactions, WeChat can be called a giant product. Looking at the whole of China, it is unrivaled. Jack Ma’s Taobao and Alipay are far behind. But why is it that everyone has WeChat, but so few people post in Moments? Some people never even post in Moments.

In fact, this issue is also a matter of opinion. There are just a few types of people who often post on WeChat Moments:

The first is the show-off group. For this kind of people, no matter what the matter is, even if it is a trivial matter, or even going to the toilet, they will post the well-decorated toilet at home to show off on WeChat.

The second is the chicken soup family. This type of people are generally divided into two types. One is the naturally optimistic and positive faction. They are born to do whatever they think of. The most prominent feature is that they often feed themselves with some chicken soup they read in books. Many people just post it on WeChat Moments. Yes, this kind of people are actually often easily blocked.

The other type is the naturally negative person, who thinks a lot and talks a lot, but just doesn’t do it. According to legend, these are the people who only talk but don’t do anything. Because of my negativity, I often look at chicken soup to comfort myself.

Because of my negative nature, I often choose to post on WeChat Moments to let others know that I actually understand a lot. Chicken soup, isn’t it all very reasonable?

Of course, there are also micro-business people and some people who market through Moments who often post in Moments. Those who use WeChat but never post in Moments usually know their own sufferings and only share their happiness with those they care about.

Their thoughts are their own business and there is no need to let others know. They don't like to show off, and they are usually very rational people who keep a normal mind most of the time.

This question is really difficult to talk about! It is a matter of benevolence and wisdom.

There are two kinds of judgments for people who often post in Moments

1: Immature, posting trivial things every day.

2: Be good at sociability and make reasonable use of the WeChat Moments platform.

People who do not post in Moments also have two judgments

1: Mature, usually busy with work, and have no energy to do such useless things.

2: Poor communication skills, no friends around.

I think all the above views are reasonable, and they all have their own theoretical flaws.

There are many successful people in my circle of friends. Some people often post in their circle of friends to show that they have participated in a certain conference or a certain summit forum. Some friend circles are completely blank. They are all successful in their careers, but they use their circle of friends completely differently. This is determined by their work nature and life concepts. There is no such thing as right or wrong.

Friends who have no likes or comments, please pay attention to your social circle. This is not a matter of age group. After all, my mother is almost 50, and she always gets a bunch of likes when she posts it on Moments!

That’s how I am. I can’t live without WeChat in my life and work, but I never post in Moments, but I can read Moments.

In the circle of friends, some people post about their food, some people post about their travels, some people express their feelings, and more people gain insights from their life experiences, thus creating meaningful chicken soup for the soul. . However, I never post on Moments. This is what I think:

No matter what food you eat or what scenic spots you visit, posting on WeChat Moments is nothing more than showing off. You expose your inner world, your hobbies, and tell others through the photos. If you know the whereabouts of others, people who don't care about you will not care about you, and people who care will know without looking at the circle of friends. I think this is a bit frivolous and is something young people do.

Sometimes I also want to express my inner feelings and tell others why I am happy and why I am angry. However, I feel that more people are watching the joke, and a small number of people who really care are worried. , why bother.

Finally, I feel that showing off all kinds of things will not only make people envious and fail to achieve the purpose I expected, but will make people feel materialistic and frivolous. I feel that only I can understand the expression of various emotions and chicken soup for the soul, and it will also lead to misunderstandings.

Therefore, I never post on Moments.