Do you think there is a forbidden area that women must not touch when chatting with men?

Why do men shut up and stop talking while we are chatting? Why did you leave while talking about a man? In fact, you have stepped into their forbidden area. Girls, pay attention. When chatting with men, the following 10 forbidden areas must not be violated.

1. It’s so boring, it’s not important

In fact, when chatting with a man at this time, you can express your thoughts clearly and neatly. If you want to set up a time to go out, say it clearly and don't beat around the bush. Men will not be disgusted by a woman's generous invitation, and sometimes they will find this girl to be very straightforward and cute. Instead, they keep going around in circles and saying irrelevant things, which sometimes makes people very disgusted. Of course, the prerequisite for making an appointment generously is that you have been chatting for a while and have a certain degree of familiarity. At the same time, you need to make sure that the other person doesn't hate you. Otherwise, if you want to date him after just a few words of conversation, the man will think that you are "shooting a bird and taking advantage of you".

2. Always end with a question mark

One of the ways to keep the topic going and gain some control over it is to end with a question as much as possible. In addition to not asking questions that a man can answer in one or two words, you should also be aware that asking too many questions will annoy people. If you realize that the topic is almost finished, you should either take a break, think of a new topic to continue the conversation, or start inviting people. Don't keep asking about something, as it will only make the other person feel bored and a waste of time.

3. Say good morning, lunch and night every day, and keep saying greetings

If you are in love, constantly greeting the other person will really make the other person feel very considerate. But if you haven't established a relationship yet, regardless of whether the other person is a boy or a girl, constant greetings will only cause stress to the other person. It will also leave a man with the impression that this person is clingy or lonely.

4. Post pictures with unclear meanings

If you are afraid of chatting, you can learn skills, but if you don’t know how to expand the topic, don’t post pictures with unclear meanings. Don't think that men, like women, will think hard about the meaning of the picture and struggle with what you want to say. If they see pictures or emoticons with unclear meaning, they will only think that you are perfunctory, and basically there will be no possibility of continuing the conversation.

5. Household census survey

I am most afraid of this type of woman. She will start to use her gossip skills when she has nothing to talk about and desperately inquire about everything about a man. Don't think that if you want to know everything about him, he will think that you are interested in him. This kind of thing will only remind them of the aunt at the wet market, who has a strong desire to dig up gossip and likes to pry into other people's privacy. If you don't want him to think that you have entered the ranks of aunts in advance, it is better to stop the "household census" conversation.

6. Disturbing dreams

Now that social software is so popular, the way men and women chat is no longer limited to face-to-face conversations, but more often communicates on the Internet. At this time, something like "telephone etiquette" is what girls need to know. Don't blame men for annoying you if you send them messages while the whole world is asleep. The "male god" you like is also a human being. He needs to eat, drink, poop, sleep, and have a normal biological clock. Moreover, a woman who always wants to chat with men in the middle of the night will probably not give people a good association.

7. Tell us about the trivial details of your life

Except for nymphomaniac fans, no one will want to know the details of your life. Regardless of whether you want to have a more "live" chat when chatting on social software, please don't suddenly post boring anecdotes such as "Many customers came for dinner" or "The leader is cursing again". Men are very rational, and those words that are too personal will be processed into useless information in the brain and filtered directly. But if he takes the time to read nonsense, he won't want to waste time chatting with you anymore.

8. Long speeches, possessed by professors

Although we have not discovered it, when ordinary friends chat, people will organize and send messages intentionally or unintentionally according to the length of the other party's sentences. own words. When an unfamiliar person suddenly sends a long message, the other party will think that you are purposeful, and they will be very stressed.

Was your first reaction "doing Amway"? Apparently not. But it does make people uncomfortable, and they also don’t know how to reply, making the chat awkward.

9. Keep talking to yourself

The big drawback of chatting on social software is that in addition to not being able to know the other party’s real chat status, there is also the “chat time lag”. Some people type slowly, some have poor network connections, and the reply may not be timely enough. At this time, if a girl is furiously scrolling through the screen, and a man is startled when he turns on his phone, why would he think that a girl is so aggressive? It's hard to relate to such a gentle and lovely girl.

10. Post some meaningless content

Only say the important things once: you are busy and he is also busy! Although sometimes chatting is just nonsense, men are really not available all the time. When a man is busy, whether he sees your funny jokes or sexy nude photos, he will not want to reply.

When two people are still in the ambiguous stage of testing the water temperature, because they have not yet determined each other's feelings, any small move may affect the other party's decision. This is true for both men and women. So you must always be careful not to let the little spark of love that has just been ignited between you die out just because of too many small gestures!