Shanghai girls' views on their boyfriends' native place in northern Jiangsu in the early 1980s.

This is very interesting. For example, even if your boyfriend's ancestral home is Shanghai, but his mother or grandmother is from northern Jiangsu, will your parents be unhappy? It's too difficult for me to tell you if your parents want you to find a Shanghainese with completely authentic Shanghai descent. After all, Shanghai is an immigrant city, and there are always relatives and elders from other places or Su Beiren. Sometimes unreasonable demands can't be too high, and you will suffer. I just don't understand why Shanghainese, Wuxi people, Suzhou people and Zhejiang people just can't accept Su Beiren well. If they are all Su Beiren and still look down on Su Beiren, it is really an insult to our ancestors.