As the saying goes: "Brothers from different families should not be neighbors, and a daughter from the same village should not live in a different village when she marries." Old farmer: That's so good

As the saying goes: "Brothers from different families should not be neighbors, and a daughter from the same village should not live in a different village when she marries." Old farmer: That's so good.

The words are rough, but the saying is not necessarily vulgar. The saying shared with you today is "Brothers should not be neighbors when their families are separated, and when a daughter marries a daughter, she will leave the same village." As the name suggests, it means that after the separation of the family, the best relationship between brothers is It is best not to be neighbors, and it is best not to marry a daughter in this village. Many people expressed confusion about this, but an old farmer in the village said: "That's so good." So why? So when the author asked, the old farmer gave the following explanation. As for whether it makes sense or not, we might as well make a conclusion after reading it! 1. Brothers should not be neighbors when they are separated: "One thousand gold buys a house, eight hundred buys a neighbor", "Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors" and other common sayings, which are enough to show how important a good neighbor is and how hard it is to find. Having said that, Some people will definitely say that since neighbors are so important, wouldn't it be better if they were brothers? In fact, this is not necessarily the case. Just like the old farmer mentioned above, he is only separated from his younger brother by a wall. In the eyes of outsiders, Lai Hao was envious, but the old farmer had a headache because of it. He told the author that the two brothers had nothing to do, but the sisters-in-law quarreled about trivial matters every day. The sister-in-law either said that the old man was biased towards us, or that the old farmer was biased towards us. The things in my house are over the limit. Either the children bully his son, or the chickens in the house steal his food. The funniest thing is that sometimes I buy some meat to beat the teeth as a sacrifice, and even if I don't tell them, they will be scolded for eating alone. Of course, a slap in the face can't make a difference, and the old farmer's daughter-in-law is not a "fuel-efficient lamp". She will not give in to each other, and sometimes she will get angry. He was uncomfortable, made others laugh, and even provoked others to bully him. After all, the so-called brothers do not bully outsiders.

So the old farmer said that it is best for brothers to live farther away from each other. Keeping a little distance will make them closer.

2. When a daughter marries, she leaves the same village: Speaking of this sentence, the old farmer told us a living example, that is, a family with mixed surnames in the village, in order to avoid being excluded and bullied in the village, So he asked a matchmaker to marry his daughter to a wealthy family in the village, but the result didn't seem to go as he wished. Instead, it brought him endless troubles. After his daughter got married, she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law, and they hardly got along every three days. There was a small quarrel, and the quarrel lasted for five days. As soon as there was a quarrel, the daughter would run home, and the mother-in-law would run to the house and cause trouble, even smashing the furniture, making the house completely unrecognizable. In order to calm down the trouble, they had to break their teeth and swallow it. He nodded and bowed to apologize, and if he married farther away, his daughter might become more independent, and the man would not dare to be so unscrupulous! Of course, there is another saying. As we all know, people with the same surname usually live in the same village, that is, the main family. As the old saying goes: "If a man and a woman have the same surname, their offspring will not be prosperous." That is to say, if the same family members get married, their descendants will not be prosperous. , after all, in modern terms, it is the so-called consanguineous marriage, and the children born may have various problems. Moreover, marriage within the family is also considered to be against moral ethics and disruptive to the general order, so whether it was in the past It is still very taboo in this village for people with the same surname to get married.

To sum up, it is not difficult for us to understand the true meaning of the saying "Brothers from different families should not be neighbors, and daughters from the same village should not be married". We must also understand why the old farmer said that it is too good to be true. Reason.

As for whether it makes sense or not, I believe everyone has their own answer in mind. Although I dare not say that it is definitely the case, in real life, this sentence is probably true.

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