How to say other people's shortcomings

In life, we will often deal with such and such people, and it is inevitable that we will meet people with shortcomings. After all, no one is perfect, but pointing out the shortcomings of others is a very learned thing. Here are some tips for you.

Don't use bad words, use words skillfully. When we point out other people's shortcomings, they will be unhappy, or at least embarrassed, so don't use bad words, such as "What do you think is wrong", "What did you do wrong" and "What can you do?" It's all hurtful words We should use clever words, at least euphemistically, saying "what should we do", "what should we do" and "let me help you", which will be more acceptable.

Put yourself in others' shoes. It's embarrassing to be pointed out that the shortcomings are embarrassing. If you still use sharp language, it will be even more unacceptable and may be even worse. This requires us to think about whether we can accept what we have to say when pointing out the shortcomings of others, that is, what will happen to you when others point out your shortcomings in this way, and then modify our language according to the actual situation.

Sit still and think about yourself all the time, and don't say anything else when you are free. Don't always point out the shortcomings of others under the banner of I am good for him. You should know that we are not perfect. Although the shortcomings of others have reached unbearable levels, you should still consider the consequences of speaking them out and whether you can give them to others. If not, it is best to let him correct himself by other means.

Shoddy, convince each other with good words. When talking about other people's shortcomings, first talk about your own advantages and tell him where you are good, but it will be better if you change it. I think others will correct it slowly in private.

* * * get along, unconsciously. Don't shout out the shortcomings of others at the beginning, but when you find the shortcomings of others, first see if you are like this. If you are not like this, let others find their own shortcomings and make subtle corrections.