How to treat the older parents, the more unreasonable they are?

The older parents get, the more unreasonable they become. Personally, I think this mentality is still due to the declining parents, but they are becoming more and more cautious in front of our children. ?

At a class reunion, Sun Tao talked about things between him and his mother, and I kept sighing. After graduating from college, Sun Tao successfully entered the local office, married his wife and gave birth to a child. These things hardly worry parents, so parents are very happy. Xiao Li's parents are retired workers and get a little pension every month. The old couple are usually generous in food and clothing, and always want to leave the best for Sun Tao.

I am too busy, so my mother helps me with my children. After her mother came, Sun Tao obviously felt incongruous, and felt that she and her mother were completely living in two worlds. She is not used to many of her mother's practices, and sometimes she has a bad attitude. At first my mother was still arguing with him, but later my mother became more and more silent.

On one occasion, Sun Tao said a lot about children's diapers. His mother is very dirty. She hates thinking for herself. Xiaoli said, her mother didn't say anything, and did it seriously according to his request. When sleeping, my wife said to Xiao Li: My mother is getting better and better over and over again.

Xiao Li said: If there is no necessary person now, I really want him to go home. I don't know why this happened. ? Mother listened to their conversation, and in the following days, she listened carefully to the criticism of her son and daughter-in-law, becoming more and more silent, as if she were the servant of this family. After playing the role, although the mother didn't make any mistakes, she didn't like it, and seemed to be the most familiar stranger with her children.

When parents are old, we no longer care about their feelings. They are very careful in front of us. Our parents are too sensible. They have been providing their children with their spare lights. When children feel that they don't need themselves, they hide and don't burden them. Everyone who saw the old lady talking shed tears.

This old lady is the epitome of our parents. They tried their best to help their children and finally found that there was nothing they could do. They will never pester them. There is no ego in their world. Only we are the most important. If your parents become servants in front of you, you should reflect. Your words and deeds must have hurt him deeply, and they adapted to this injury in their most clumsy way.