The daughter accepted her father's angry joke.

18 years old is the stage when children enter psychological weaning. Children are no longer willing to listen to their parents, or even obey them, and want to try to make their own choices and decisions. Therefore, many parents feel uncomfortable, think that their children are like a kite with a broken line, and can't control it, and then intervene rudely and arbitrarily, gradually cutting off the possibility of communication with children.

As the saying goes, there are no bad children, only incompetent parents, children are the shadow of parents, and parents can't be blamed for children's problems. We must change our parents to solve the problem.

18 years old, physically mature and adult. Began to get involved in and know the society, and yearned for the life of adults. With the continuous expansion of children's vision and life scope, there will be more and more contact surfaces and contradictions, and three views will be formed in the process of continuous collision and integration. So this growth period needs correct guidance very much. If children close their hearts to their parents and refuse to communicate, it is really a bad thing.

The reason is that parents don't understand their children's hearts, can't talk to them, and even hurt them again and again. Although you give your child whatever he wants, material satisfaction cannot replace spiritual satisfaction. To restore effective communication with children, we should improve from the following points.

First, accept children. Even if there are abandoned children all over the world, parents can never give up and always say "Mom and Dad love you" to their children, because it is their responsibility. There is hope if you don't give up.

Second, be sure of the child. Affirming children is not because they are perfect, but when they understand their shortcomings and deficiencies, they should still affirm children and say "yes, but" to them, because children in this period are very immature and fragile, often in helplessness, confusion and anxiety, and they need parents' affirmation and appreciation very much. It can't stand the wind and rain, and it can't stand the wind and waves. No matter what problems you encounter, you must not be rude.

Third, learn to stand in the child's position and angle. Say to the child: "What do you think? Do you think so? " Instead of always standing in your own position and using the authority of parents to suppress children. Because only in this way can we walk into the child's heart, understand the child's psychology and say it into the child's heart. Fourth, guide children to make their own choices, rather than being arbitrarily imposed by their parents. I often say to my children, "What do you think we should do? Is it okay to do this? What are the consequences? " Often ask children "what is it, why and how to do it".

Parents and drizzle, children will not thunderstorm, parents know how to be intimate, and children will not leave Germany.

Children are the pride of parents, but there are ways to love them. Only by studying hard and learning lessons seriously can we get a harmonious and friendly parent-child relationship.

Good wishes!