Everything has a cause and effect, these four words can not be said, harm others and harm themselves.

Master Xue Cheng wrote in Well Said: Although speaking is simple, it is not a trivial matter. What you say is very important. Hurting others with simple words may have great consequences. Warming the world with simple language may bring people help for a while, a day or even a lifetime.

As the saying goes, "illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth." Speaking is a science. Well said, it can help people. If you don't speak well, it will hurt people. In fact, "harming others is harming yourself." What a person does and says will come back to you.

The more a person shows off, the more he will lose. If you show off your wealth, you will be remembered by thieves and may patronize you every day; Showing off your status will be envied by others, making mischief behind your back and making you struggle; You show off your car, but you get scratched for no reason. ......

Therefore, one should never show off oneself and others at the same time. Because other people's achievements and surprises are his business. If you show off everywhere, you will make others jealous and get into trouble. Once something unpleasant happens to others, sooner or later, they will know that you said it, so there will be great hatred.

Be a man, keep a low profile, not a high profile, or you should take the sentence "shoot a bird with one gun", and you will expose everything to others and become the most vulnerable object.

Be a man, be calm. Even if there is a happy event, it will be hidden. Calm down for two days and you won't be so excited. For example, someone won the grand prize and became rich overnight. If you do, you will probably be assassinated, making your life a constant fear. If you are targeted, it is turning good luck into bad luck.

Confucius said, "Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, but knowing." What a person says is a set of things. Don't talk nonsense and talk empty talk in a little knowledge.

Really smart people are often silent. If you know, just say half; Don't say anything unless you know it; If you have a little knowledge, you will pretend to be deaf and say nothing.

I want to know a lot, and if I say it, it will be "rumored by rumors", and it will soon spread throughout the circle of friends, becoming more and more bizarre. Finally, if it is a rumor, you are the culprit, otherwise you will be punished by society. If you are telling other people's lies, causing other people's lives to be restless, then others will not let you go.

Nowadays, it's hard to tell true from false. Today, it is all over the city. If so, it's another version for another day. If you deliver such language, you are a "pusher" and you have to take responsibility. Many people, just the internet, read a story casually, publicized it loudly, and forwarded it on WeChat. As a result, they got into trouble.

There is an old saying: "If you say it, you will splash water." If you say something to others, it's too late to go back on your word. Especially, many people talk and express their opinions after drinking. As a result, others believe them, but you can't do it and lose all your friends.

For example, what your friend wants from you, you can't do it, but you reluctantly agree. We were supposed to help each other, but after a long time, you can't keep your promise and make your friends think you are a hypocrite.

"The Analects of Confucius" said: Words must be kept, and actions must bear fruit. To be a man, you should have an echo in everything, don't talk nonsense, don't blurt it out, and think twice in everything. Do what you say and do consistently. Don't be duplicitous and lose trust in the end.

You know, no one will believe a man who doesn't keep his word in business. In this way, others will also "answer blows with blows" and falsely promise that your business will give up halfway.

It is an old saying that it is difficult for an honest official to break housework. If you screw up other people's affairs, you can't get away with it. As a result, others will blame you and won't say that you have good intentions.

Especially in some emotional matters, if you say that someone in other people's family is having an affair and criticize who is wrong and who shouldn't be together, it will be in trouble. Others will think that such a thing has something to do with you and make you "more than one bargained for".

And those things about lies. I don't know that people who say goodbye to others are lying. You're exposed. You look smart. In fact, you have offended others and will hate you in the future.

I read a joke that two families fight and pull alone, so they should live in harmony. As a result, the two families are relatives, thinking that outsiders bully who. All right, the two families teamed up to defeat the hauler. It is really "thankless."

Everything has a cause and effect. If what you say hurts others, then others will "pay you back", either adding bad words to you or turning into quarrels or fights; What you say makes others feel happy, and you will become a kind person in the eyes of others; If you keep your word and do what you say, your integrity will also improve; Do one thing in person and do one thing behind your back, and you will become a villain. The result is "everyone stays at a respectful distance from others"; If you deliberately create rumors, then others will not punish you, and God will punish you, which may lead to "imprisonment".

It is written in Augmented Xianwen that a kind word lasts for three winters, and a warm word hurts in June. A person, all his life, said warm words, not chilling words; Speak more useful words and don't talk nonsense; Speak calmly, not resentfully.

In fact, talking too much means losing. If you have no idea, then don't say anything. "He who keeps his mouth shut won't get into trouble." .

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

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