My wife and her family laughed at me, and I felt insulted. What should we do?

In the face of this problem, we still have to see, under what circumstances did your wife laugh at you with her family?

If it is at a family gathering, when the family is sitting together and chatting, make fun of some of your shortcomings, such as when you are drunk and do something out of line, your family will use it as a joke after dinner. They may be unintentional, but in your serious male chauvinism, they think it is laughing at you.

Actually, you're making a mountain out of a molehill. Your wife and family are your closest and favorite people. It is understandable to show your shortcomings and mistakes in front of them, and you are not afraid of losing face or anything. Everyone is a family, even if there is some malice on it, why haggle with them? Anyway, I don't mean you any harm.

Of course, if your wife and family laugh at you in front of outsiders, you will feel humiliated. But there are outsiders, you can only bear it, never strike back and lose your temper. Otherwise, you won't appear stingy and unreasonable. Equal or even twice in return for your insults to your wife and family, and let others see jokes for no reason.

Outsiders can communicate with their wives and family after they leave. "Although I know you just said it by accident, it really hurts my self-esteem. There will be outsiders in the future. Don't say that. Can you save me some face? " I believe they will realize their mistakes, apologize to you and pay attention to them in the future.

In fact, I still advise men to be generous and smile again, and they will not lose a piece of meat. Moreover, their ridicule must have their own reasons. Just make positive corrections and don't do it again.